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Looks like ill be a member of the club too...

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Just found out LO #2 is expected one month to the date before dds 2nd birthday. I have to admit that im feeling a bit guilty or perhaps a bit selfish at being pregnant again?

It was always the plan to grow our family by one more, but we wanted to start trying this fall not this spring. (no lie, this is only the second time in my marriage we've had unprotected sex.. the other time yielded my daughter)

even though im happy to be pregnant, im really feeling guilty to short change my daughter of a few more precious months of being an only child. im going to miss giving her my 100% attention and love so much.

anyone else feeling anything similar? how to cope?
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Re: Looks like ill be a member of the club too...

  • maramarriemaramarrie
    Congrats on your pregnancy! Those fears are valid, but in time you won't worry as much about that. I sometimes wish DS had more of my time, but honestly they both get a LOT of one-on-one time with me and/or DH and neither of them appears to feel slighted. I think both of them lose more of my time to the laundry and vacuuming than they do to each other...lol. And think that you are giving your daughter a sibling to enjoy! She will love having a playmate!
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