It may sound terrible, but I feel like I'm a ticking time bomb... I've been feeling WAY too good and having far too smooth of a pregnancy... so now it seems like I'm just EXPECTING something bad to happen. It's like I'm constantly on the lookout for pre-term labor... pre-e... or 'oh my gosh, what if my water just spontaneously breaks!?'
I was never like this with my singleton pregnancies, maybe I was naive as to all the things that could go wrong... but now with this pregnancy it seems like I'm just WAITING for something to happen, because how could I possibly be pregnant with TWINS and be doing SO WELL!? Absurd I know. But am I the only one that feels like I cant be optimistic with how well things are going and am paranoid it could all change in the flash of an eye?
Also, If my whining/rambling hasnt run you off yet... How many weeks before I should expect to just feel huge, tired, sore and just down right done? A local twin mom I Know felt that way by her 27th week and it was a workout just to go to the grocery store... Right now I feel like I could do ANYTHING, and I'm wondering if it can change that quickly??
So in conclusion... wondering if I'm the only one who thinks I MIGHT be losing my mind for not believing I feel this great carrying multiples. LOL
Re: Is it bad that I'm WAITING for something to happen?
I felt great my entire 36wks & 2 days. I walked into the hospital on the day of my scheduled csection feeling fine. I had the same easy pg with the girls that I did with my son. I was only uncomfortable when I sat for a long time. I would have to slouch or lay down instead. Car rides were the worse but once I was up and walking/standing I was fine. Most of that was because I had diastasis recti (separation of the abdominal muscles) which led to poor posture/lack of support on my spine to sit up. I still have issues with it 5yrs later.
But for everything else I felt ok. Nothing I didnt expect. Pressure around the girly bits but I had to heads pushing down there so it was expected to feel pressure. but nothing made me miserable.
Landon * Kaydance * Kennedy
5/13/05 ******5/24/06
* Baby is due July 24 2012 *
This Sunday (27 weeks exactly) was the first time that doing my normal Sunday routine of grocery store, target, cooking for the week, etc really wore me out. In fact, I had real contractions and had to lay down for a few hours so they would go away.
But, from what I understand everyone is different. You could spend your whole twin pregnancy feeling fine and not worn out by it and that would be wonderful!
I have felt the "weight" of the pregnancy for a few weeks though and have many a days of "I have HOW much longer!/!"
I always expected I'd deliver the girls way early so I always had everything ready to go much earlier then necessary "just in case" BUT they didn't, and I had no complications throughout my pregnancy. I made it to my 38w 2d scheduled C which was fantastic! From what I've seen from the polls and such asked in the past, most of the MoM's on here made it to the 36-38 week mark, not the other way around.
I started feeling pretty huge and tired around 32 weeks, but was still able to do things like grocery shop and such all the way until the end. GL and take it easy!
I felt great until 31 weeks when I was put on bedrest for my high BP. After laying in bed for a week I felt like crap- weak and tired.
I think its completely normal to feel this way. We see alot of stories on these boards so it freaks me out! I no longer lurk on the High risk board or the Preemie board. I even try not to open post that sound like they have bad news in them bc i just cant have it in my head.
My sons pregnancy i had a pretty severe SCH that didnt heal until 24+ weeks. I was on bedrest from 13wks until i had him. I was terrified.
Im 28 weeks now and ive had minimal problems - just super awful sciatica and a friable cervix early on. Im not on bedrest and im able to do things for a good part of the day. By the afternoon im tired and in pain. I went to the grocery store last week and i told my H that was the last time that was happening!!
Just try to stay positive. I have a check list and i set mini goals for myself. That helps me get through it so it doesnt seem like its so long.
GL to you!!