I am realizing that I don't think I have ever participated in B & M Monday....
My only complaint right now is the fact that the massage during my pedicure this weekend hurt like hell! I was really looking forward to it.. Atleast my toes look pretty again.. lol.
Oh and I will be happy when they stop sending my husband to work out of state!
Oh and all these tornado's are pissing me off!!! Enough already - you have caused enough destruction stupid tornados!!!!!!!
Ok i'm done.
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I don't want to go to work any more. I made it past my goal of getting through the recital this weekend. Now that I have, I don't feel like putting the effort in anymore.
My overwhelming nesting urge is driving me bonkers. I way over did it yesterday and was paying for it all night and so far today. As much pain as I am in (from the SPD), I just want to deep clean the kitchen again, wash the blinds and clean up my back and front yards. DH is finally being good and is doing the bathrooms and floors for me today.
I don't remember feeling this uncomfortable at this point in my last pregnancy. I can only stand for about 20 minutes before buckling over from the pelvic pain. I don't know how I can possibly do this for over 3 more weeks. I'm ready to not be pregnant, but I really don't want to go early, so I'm afraid I'm just going to spend the next 3 weeks complaining like a whiney baby.
My 20 month old has decided that now would be a GREAT time to start testing us and completely acting out. I don't have the patience or the energy for it and it's really difficult.
I am SO done being at work. I have already mentally checked out and now I am just waiting on baby to arrive so I don't have to come in anymore!! I thought for sure I was going to have her this weekend after all the contractions I have been having...but nope...nothing. The only plus side is the more time I am at work now, the more time off I have during the summer! Thats the only thing keeping me going at this point.
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Add me to the list of people being done with work. I have no idea why I didn't take off a bit earlier than my due date- I don't get more time after she's here by doing it because I have a hard come back date (sept 1st) because it's our busy time. I think I was just being irrationally stubborn.
Also, I am irrationally annoyed this morning because while I am still working they really don't care much about when I come in so I haven't been heading in until about 10am or so. However, last night my husband set my alarm for the old time I got up (7:15) and then forced me out of bed. I know he was being helpful but I just wanted to sleep until 9 like I have been since I'm always up half the night. *grump*
My last one is that I am horribly uncomfortable. My vagina hurts all the time, I'm stiff, my lower back hurts and even if I want to be productive I'll do stuff for 15 minutes and then get too tired to finish. I'm ready to move on from this and yet it seems like I'm going to be pregnant forever because I have had zero signs that anything is moving forward. No BH, no contractions, no MP loss, nothing. And I'm almost 39 weeks. Sigh.
i am SO SICK of being stared at! me and hubby did some shopping for last minute items this weekend and then had lunch out. i can't tell you how many stares (not even trying to hide it), i kept getting. it was even starting to annoy my husband - like no one has EVER seen a pregnant chick before. what is that???
oh and i'm so in agreement on being over work too!!!!
My mother in law lives with us (has for the last 2 years) rent free and she is a messy person. She was told in Ocotber she needed to leave by May 31st to give us a month to prepare the room for the baby.
She still has no where to go and her and her stuff are still here. She better be gone by Monday. I want my nursery done and my house clean again!
I am SO done being at work. I have already mentally checked out and now I am just waiting on baby to arrive so I don't have to come in anymore!! I thought for sure I was going to have her this weekend after all the contractions I have been having...but nope...nothing. The only plus side is the more time I am at work now, the more time off I have during the summer! Thats the only thing keeping me going at this point.
LOL me too my brain checked out about 1-2 weeks ago. Its so hard trying to keep focused when all I can think of is the LO and when my water will break. Plus my manager is really starting to stress me out I feel like my blood pressure is so high when im at work. I already had to go to the hospital after my last ob appt for high BP so im hoping they will put me on bed rest before LO comes that way Im done with work and my stress will go down.
Also this DARN pregnancy rash!!!! Its killing me how itchy my belly is! The only cure is for LO to be delivered - other than that its benadryll every 4-6 hours.
I overdid it this weekend, too. My legs and feet are paying dearly for it. This past week has really been the hardest so far, and I'm sure it's going to get worse....
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I definitely need to vent today. I woke up at 4am last night like usual and tried to get up to go pee and apparently I'm so huge that I think I pulled the left side of my back out trying to get up. The pain was sooooo bad and it still hurts now. So I couldn't climb back into my bed and spent the rest of the night on my couch. I just started bawling to DH this morning because 1. how in the world am I going to make it another 3 weeks? and 2. how am I gonna birth this baby if I can't take the pain of my back? AHHHHHH!! Is the end in sight????
My mother in law lives with us (has for the last 2 years) rent free and she is a messy person. She was told in Ocotber she needed to leave by May 31st to give us a month to prepare the room for the baby.
She still has no where to go and her and her stuff are still here. She better be gone by Monday. I want my nursery done and my house clean again!
You are a better person than I am. Wow. I hope that DH can talk to her and get her movin' on!
I am uncomfortable. This is nothing new for most of you but it just hit me this weekend and it's no fun. That is all.....lame, I know.
Also I told my Mom yday that my MIL is coming for 4 months. My Mom got mildly upset but not super upset which I know she is .. so knowing her it is just a matter of time until she'll act out about this :-/ Recently she stopped talking to me for 2 mos. straight and then when I finally got her to talk to me about why she had cut me off (during my pregnancy nonetheless) I got an earful of her woes about my wedding from almost 2 yrs ago.
i am SO SICK of being stared at! me and hubby did some shopping for last minute items this weekend and then had lunch out. i can't tell you how many stares (not even trying to hide it), i kept getting. it was even starting to annoy my husband - like no one has EVER seen a pregnant chick before. what is that???
oh and i'm so in agreement on being over work too!!!!
Ditto! I don't feel like leaving the house because I feel like everyone is staring at me when I go somewhere- and not in the "look at the cute pregnant woman!" way like it was a few weeks ago but instead in the "watch out, she looks like her water might break on me any second!" kind of way.
I waited to long to eat at the mall on Saturday. Wanted to go to a coffee shop to get DD a bagel then the food court for DH and I but I was so depleated I couldn't figure out how to get to the coffee shop on the info map. I don't have GD, but even I know my blood sugar must have been drastically low. Ended up going to the food court first, getting food for me then DH went to find the coffee shop for DD's lunch.
Even though I had baby to think of, I felt terribly guilty for putting my DD's needs second and feeding myslef first.
Work switched who they want me to hand over my work too ... a week and a half before I'm suppose to start my leave. Granted, I'm going out at 36 weeks but if they think I'm going to stick around an additional week so this guy can get comfortable, they're dead wrong. Part of the reason why I'm leaving so early is because they're making my life a living hell. I spent the past 4 weeks training someone else and if they want to switch people on me, then that's their fault, not mine. So, screw 'em.
MPZ born June 2011
TTC #2 ...
Cycle 1-3: IUI = BFN
| Cycle 4: IVF ... canceled but 3 snow babies
Cycle 5: FET .. BFP! | EDD - 3/15/2014
Let me just state for the record that of course I want a healthy baby. HOWEVER I am over being pregnant. I'm also over work and my job in general and wish that my last day of work were this Thursday (I'm off on Friday for my birthday).
I also wish I had money to hire a maid b/c DH is driving me crazy with his junky ways! I hate the way he "cleans" a bathroom!
23 is a big number in our little family, Daddys is Sept 23rd, Oscars is Feb 23rd, and today is Mommys!! AND Mommy *TURNS* 23 today... so that'd be a fantastic gift. Mommy isn't waiting until June 23rd- sorry... So, today would be grand, THANKS.
I'm resentful of DH today for something that's not his fault.
DH and I are ALMOST to the end of the financial issues we ran into when I first got pregnant. Today's a holiday in Canada, so we make time and a half. I'm in for overtime today to rack up a little extra cash, because I'm an hourly employee.
DH is salaried, so no matter how many hours he works, he makes the same amount. So today I'm working 10am - 1pm, going home to grab DH, then working 2:30pm - 11pm. He's still at home sleeping right now.
It wouldn't be so bad if I wasn't also completely checked out at work. I've been here for over 7 years, and in just the last week, my quality scores on my calls have dropped from high 80%'s to mid 70%'s.
23 is a big number in our little family, Daddys is Sept 23rd, Oscars is Feb 23rd, and today is Mommys!! AND Mommy *TURNS* 23 today... so that'd be a fantastic gift. Mommy isn't waiting until June 23rd- sorry... So, today would be grand, THANKS.
DD goes to daycare one to two days a week and will be going full time in August. I am really starting to question if it is worth it. I feel like half the times she goes she comes home sick because she caught something some other kid had. Not only did she get a cold but she came home with a bite mark on her arm I was LIVID. They never mentioned it to me so DH called them when he got home and they said "Zoe never cried and we didn't notice it" I understand that they can't keep an eye on every kid all the time but I am starting to wonder if the quality of the care she is getting is as good as I thought it was.
I also wish I had money to hire a maid b/c DH is driving me crazy with his junky ways! I hate the way he "cleans" a bathroom!
I hate how MH cleans the bathroom too! It's sweet that he tries but no matter how many times I tell him to scrub the tub, he insists that's it's still clean if he sprays Fantastic and wipes it down with a paper towel.
MPZ born June 2011
TTC #2 ...
Cycle 1-3: IUI = BFN
| Cycle 4: IVF ... canceled but 3 snow babies
Cycle 5: FET .. BFP! | EDD - 3/15/2014
I'm so swollen it hurts. It's really bad in the morning and yesterday I noticed that when I make a fist and then straighten one of my fingers gets "stuck". It goes back with the rest of them but it's strange.
OH! Yesterday I threw up several times and in the process peed my pants. I had really hoped I would get through this whole pregnancy with out the peeing problem but nope.
I'll start by saying I know it's my own fault....but I decided we needed to buy a new house during 3rd tri. We close less than two weeks after my due date. I'm really bummed about a couple things with all of this
- I ended up out of work waaaay earlier than I expected. I wish closing was June 1st, not July 1st so I could have something to look forward to this week. I'm just down without work to keep me busy anymore.
- I am so jealous of everyone's nursery posts. I don't open them to read and look at pics, but the subjects obviously tell you what it's about. I wish I was putting the finishing touches on his room and posting pics! I don't even have this to keep me busy while I'm home!
- If I was in the new house when the baby comes, then I'd be 45 mins further from MIL and not be stressing constantly about having to deal with her when LO comes.
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My mother in law lives with us (has for the last 2 years) rent free and she is a messy person. She was told in Ocotber she needed to leave by May 31st to give us a month to prepare the room for the baby.
She still has no where to go and her and her stuff are still here. She better be gone by Monday. I want my nursery done and my house clean again!
You win. This definately sucks. I wish the best for you - this is such a sticky situation!
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My mother in law lives with us (has for the last 2 years) rent free and she is a messy person. She was told in Ocotber she needed to leave by May 31st to give us a month to prepare the room for the baby.
She still has no where to go and her and her stuff are still here. She better be gone by Monday. I want my nursery done and my house clean again!
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DH has to work today. It's a holiday here in Canada. But He has to work because he's working on getting our home business to be his sole income as well as mine. So he's gone all day. I wish he was home because i over did it on the weekened taking DD to the zoo and celebrating the holiday weekend at a friends house last night. I want him to be home to spend time with our DD so i can spend time working on getting the girls room put together and things organized for the new baby to come. Plus have a nap on my own terms and not DD's terms.
Then my SiL.... She lives with us. Not nearly as bad as a MiL i imagine. But she's a lazy turd. She quit her job before getting another job and has been sitting on my sofa playing games on her lap top for a month now. She cannot pay her rent and doesn't help with house work. I make her dinner 95% of the time. The only good thing she does right now is entertain DD which is giving me more time to finish up my work for my home business. But doesn't mean the toilets are scrubbed and the cat hair (from her long haired cat) arn't tumbling down the hall way like tumbleweeds. Sigh. I can dream about her cleaning the house more and making dinner once this LO is born. She might have to if she wants to eat anything other then sandwiches after my c/s.
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My rings are getting to the point where I should probably stop wearing them because one of these days I won't be able to get them off. Every time I have to take them off in the past week, it was somewhat of a struggle. I love my rings though and I don't want to take them off!
The air in our office is out. All day today and part of tomorrow. There's no circulation. It sucks.
My works a.c. was out this morning when I got here too! I decided to wear these brown cordiroy pants today... SO NOT A GOOD IDEA, I felt like I was gonna pass out
I am tired of being tired all the time. Me and SO bought a thousand dollar mattress and I cant wait to sleep on my back and be comfortable instead of on my side and waking up every hour from my hips hurting so damn bad.
I am way to emotional right now its even annoying me. I was doing my makeup yesterday and almost burst into tears when I dropped one of my favorite eyeshadows and it broke this is ridiculous and I cant wait to feel normal again.
I have an appointment tomorrow morning. If he says one word about induction I would jump on that train and not look back. I'm over being pregnant. Flame away.
If one more person at work tells me "You're almost there!" or gives me "tips" on how to make the baby come, I may scream.
I am over work, as most of us seem to be, but mostly because of my co-workers, not the children. Someone else felt the need to tell me today that I have a puffy face. You think I don't know???
We found out Thursday that MIL was getting foreclosed on. She apparently knew nothing about it and has to be out by Wednesday. Umm, usually when you don't pay your mortgage they are not going to let you keep your house. And I'm pretty sure you would have gotten more than one notice that you would be losing the house. She is a hoarder and her place is absolutely disgusting. DH, his grandma and aunt have been over there trying to get stuff packed up but she refuses to throw any of her junk away (she has boxes of empty toilet paper tubes, wtf?). She wants to store a bunch of her crap at our house too. I'm pretty sure anything from the basement is covered in mold and am worried her house has fleas and bedbugs. I feel bad (kinda) but DH and I told her we will only take some of the wood furniture and nothing can come into the house. She still hasn't found an apartment and doesn't seem to think it's a big deal. SHE WILL NOT BE STAYING HERE!!!!! She is really stressing me out!!
Sick and tired of people telling me to be patient and hope the baby stays in as long as possible. "They're easier on the inside than the outside!" Shove it! I'm up all night anyways, I might as well be nursing and tending to and enjoying a beautiful baby. And at least for the few minutes or hours I was sleeping, I'd be able to sleep on my STOMACH!!!!
I'm really trying to be patient and I DO want what's best for my baby but this part is getting very un-fun.
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Sick and tired of people telling me to be patient and hope the baby stays in as long as possible. "They're easier on the inside than the outside!" Shove it! I'm up all night anyways, I might as well be nursing and tending to and enjoying a beautiful baby. And at least for the few minutes or hours I was sleeping, I'd be able to sleep on my STOMACH!!!!
I'm really trying to be patient and I DO want what's best for my baby but this part is getting very un-fun.
We found out Thursday that MIL was getting foreclosed on. She apparently knew nothing about it and has to be out by Wednesday. Umm, usually when you don't pay your mortgage they are not going to let you keep your house. And I'm pretty sure you would have gotten more than one notice that you would be losing the house. She is a hoarder and her place is absolutely disgusting. DH, his grandma and aunt have been over there trying to get stuff packed up but she refuses to throw any of her junk away (she has boxes of empty toilet paper tubes, wtf?). She wants to store a bunch of her crap at our house too. I'm pretty sure anything from the basement is covered in mold and am worried her house has fleas and bedbugs. I feel bad (kinda) but DH and I told her we will only take some of the wood furniture and nothing can come into the house. She still hasn't found an apartment and doesn't seem to think it's a big deal. SHE WILL NOT BE STAYING HERE!!!!! She is really stressing me out!!
I'm so sorry, hoarding is such a hard thing to deal with especially on top of someone not wanting to leave their home. A family friend had to deal with that situation when they were moving an elderly parent who could no longer live at home alone and they said the only thing they could do (she kept taking stuff out of the trash can) is move her out first, rent one of those huge dumpsters and just go in and literally throw anything that was not pictures or other small keepsakes away without her around. Is there anywhere she can go so that you can go in and get the stuff out?
If she won't go for that, I would take her to a storage place, have them quote her the monthly rent for as much storage she would need to house all of her stuff and tell her that's her only option. That you do not have the room. If she cannot/is not willing to pay for the storage then there's no other option. Just stand firm.
I don't remember feeling this uncomfortable at this point in my last pregnancy. I can only stand for about 20 minutes before buckling over from the pelvic pain. I don't know how I can possibly do this for over 3 more weeks. I'm ready to not be pregnant, but I really don't want to go early, so I'm afraid I'm just going to spend the next 3 weeks complaining like a whiney baby.
My 20 month old has decided that now would be a GREAT time to start testing us and completely acting out. I don't have the patience or the energy for it and it's really difficult.
Holy cow! Are you living my life? All of this is me (except DS is 17 mo). Good luck to both of us!
Re: B&M Monday
I am realizing that I don't think I have ever participated in B & M Monday....
My only complaint right now is the fact that the massage during my pedicure this weekend hurt like hell! I was really looking forward to it.. Atleast my toes look pretty again.. lol.
Oh and I will be happy when they stop sending my husband to work out of state!
Oh and all these tornado's are pissing me off!!! Enough already - you have caused enough destruction stupid tornados!!!!!!!
Ok i'm done.
It's kind of lame:
I don't want to go to work any more. I made it past my goal of getting through the recital this weekend. Now that I have, I don't feel like putting the effort in anymore.
My overwhelming nesting urge is driving me bonkers. I way over did it yesterday and was paying for it all night and so far today. As much pain as I am in (from the SPD), I just want to deep clean the kitchen again, wash the blinds and clean up my back and front yards. DH is finally being good and is doing the bathrooms and floors for me today.
Yeah. That's all I got.
I don't remember feeling this uncomfortable at this point in my last pregnancy. I can only stand for about 20 minutes before buckling over from the pelvic pain. I don't know how I can possibly do this for over 3 more weeks. I'm ready to not be pregnant, but I really don't want to go early, so I'm afraid I'm just going to spend the next 3 weeks complaining like a whiney baby.
My 20 month old has decided that now would be a GREAT time to start testing us and completely acting out. I don't have the patience or the energy for it and it's really difficult.
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Add me to the list of people being done with work. I have no idea why I didn't take off a bit earlier than my due date- I don't get more time after she's here by doing it because I have a hard come back date (sept 1st) because it's our busy time. I think I was just being irrationally stubborn.
Also, I am irrationally annoyed this morning because while I am still working they really don't care much about when I come in so I haven't been heading in until about 10am or so. However, last night my husband set my alarm for the old time I got up (7:15) and then forced me out of bed. I know he was being helpful but I just wanted to sleep until 9 like I have been since I'm always up half the night. *grump*
My last one is that I am horribly uncomfortable. My vagina hurts all the time, I'm stiff, my lower back hurts and even if I want to be productive I'll do stuff for 15 minutes and then get too tired to finish. I'm ready to move on from this and yet it seems like I'm going to be pregnant forever because I have had zero signs that anything is moving forward. No BH, no contractions, no MP loss, nothing. And I'm almost 39 weeks. Sigh.
i am SO SICK of being stared at! me and hubby did some shopping for last minute items this weekend and then had lunch out. i can't tell you how many stares (not even trying to hide it), i kept getting. it was even starting to annoy my husband - like no one has EVER seen a pregnant chick before. what is that???
oh and i'm so in agreement on being over work too!!!!
She still has no where to go and her and her stuff are still here. She better be gone by Monday. I want my nursery done and my house clean again!
LOL me too my brain checked out about 1-2 weeks ago. Its so hard trying to keep focused when all I can think of is the LO and when my water will break. Plus my manager is really starting to stress me out I feel like my blood pressure is so high when im at work. I already had to go to the hospital after my last ob appt for high BP so im hoping they will put me on bed rest before LO comes that way Im done with work and my stress will go down.
Also this DARN pregnancy rash!!!! Its killing me how itchy my belly is! The only cure is for LO to be delivered - other than that its benadryll every 4-6 hours.
I overdid it this weekend, too. My legs and feet are paying dearly for it. This past week has really been the hardest so far, and I'm sure it's going to get worse....
You are a better person than I am. Wow. I hope that DH can talk to her and get her movin' on!
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Also I told my Mom yday that my MIL is coming for 4 months. My Mom got mildly upset but not super upset which I know she is .. so knowing her it is just a matter of time until she'll act out about this :-/ Recently she stopped talking to me for 2 mos. straight and then when I finally got her to talk to me about why she had cut me off (during my pregnancy nonetheless) I got an earful of her woes about my wedding from almost 2 yrs ago.
Ditto! I don't feel like leaving the house because I feel like everyone is staring at me when I go somewhere- and not in the "look at the cute pregnant woman!" way like it was a few weeks ago but instead in the "watch out, she looks like her water might break on me any second!" kind of way.
I waited to long to eat at the mall on Saturday. Wanted to go to a coffee shop to get DD a bagel then the food court for DH and I but I was so depleated I couldn't figure out how to get to the coffee shop on the info map. I don't have GD, but even I know my blood sugar must have been drastically low. Ended up going to the food court first, getting food for me then DH went to find the coffee shop for DD's lunch.
Even though I had baby to think of, I felt terribly guilty for putting my DD's needs second and feeding myslef first.
MPZ born June 2011
TTC #2 ... Cycle 1-3: IUI = BFN | Cycle 4: IVF ... canceled but 3 snow babies
Cycle 5: FET .. BFP! | EDD - 3/15/2014
Let me just state for the record that of course I want a healthy baby. HOWEVER I am over being pregnant. I'm also over work and my job in general and wish that my last day of work were this Thursday (I'm off on Friday for my birthday).
I also wish I had money to hire a maid b/c DH is driving me crazy with his junky ways! I hate the way he "cleans" a bathroom!
Dear Baby S-
Today would be a PERFECT day for you to be born
23 is a big number in our little family, Daddys is Sept 23rd, Oscars is Feb 23rd, and today is Mommys!! AND Mommy *TURNS* 23 today... so that'd be a fantastic gift. Mommy isn't waiting until June 23rd- sorry... So, today would be grand, THANKS.
-Mommy S
Big sister meeting little brother for the first time-
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I'm resentful of DH today for something that's not his fault.
DH and I are ALMOST to the end of the financial issues we ran into when I first got pregnant. Today's a holiday in Canada, so we make time and a half. I'm in for overtime today to rack up a little extra cash, because I'm an hourly employee.
DH is salaried, so no matter how many hours he works, he makes the same amount. So today I'm working 10am - 1pm, going home to grab DH, then working 2:30pm - 11pm. He's still at home sleeping right now.
It wouldn't be so bad if I wasn't also completely checked out at work. I've been here for over 7 years, and in just the last week, my quality scores on my calls have dropped from high 80%'s to mid 70%'s.
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I hate how MH cleans the bathroom too! It's sweet that he tries but no matter how many times I tell him to scrub the tub, he insists that's it's still clean if he sprays Fantastic and wipes it down with a paper towel.
MPZ born June 2011
TTC #2 ... Cycle 1-3: IUI = BFN | Cycle 4: IVF ... canceled but 3 snow babies
Cycle 5: FET .. BFP! | EDD - 3/15/2014
I'm so swollen it hurts. It's really bad in the morning and yesterday I noticed that when I make a fist and then straighten one of my fingers gets "stuck". It goes back with the rest of them but it's strange.
OH! Yesterday I threw up several times and in the process peed my pants. I had really hoped I would get through this whole pregnancy with out the peeing problem but nope.
I'll start by saying I know it's my own fault....but I decided we needed to buy a new house during 3rd tri. We close less than two weeks after my due date. I'm really bummed about a couple things with all of this
- I ended up out of work waaaay earlier than I expected. I wish closing was June 1st, not July 1st so I could have something to look forward to this week. I'm just down without work to keep me busy anymore.
- I am so jealous of everyone's nursery posts. I don't open them to read and look at pics, but the subjects obviously tell you what it's about. I wish I was putting the finishing touches on his room and posting pics! I don't even have this to keep me busy while I'm home!
- If I was in the new house when the baby comes, then I'd be 45 mins further from MIL and not be stressing constantly about having to deal with her when LO comes.
You win. This definately sucks. I wish the best for you - this is such a sticky situation!
DH has to work today. It's a holiday here in Canada. But He has to work because he's working on getting our home business to be his sole income as well as mine. So he's gone all day. I wish he was home because i over did it on the weekened taking DD to the zoo and celebrating the holiday weekend at a friends house last night. I want him to be home to spend time with our DD so i can spend time working on getting the girls room put together and things organized for the new baby to come. Plus have a nap on my own terms and not DD's terms.
Then my SiL.... She lives with us. Not nearly as bad as a MiL i imagine. But she's a lazy turd. She quit her job before getting another job and has been sitting on my sofa playing games on her lap top for a month now. She cannot pay her rent and doesn't help with house work. I make her dinner 95% of the time. The only good thing she does right now is entertain DD which is giving me more time to finish up my work for my home business. But doesn't mean the toilets are scrubbed and the cat hair (from her long haired cat) arn't tumbling down the hall way like tumbleweeds. Sigh. I can dream about her cleaning the house more and making dinner once this LO is born. She might have to if she wants to eat anything other then sandwiches after my c/s.
My works a.c. was out this morning when I got here too! I decided to wear these brown cordiroy pants today... SO NOT A GOOD IDEA, I felt like I was gonna pass out
I am tired of being tired all the time. Me and SO bought a thousand dollar mattress and I cant wait to sleep on my back and be comfortable instead of on my side and waking up every hour from my hips hurting so damn bad.
I am way to emotional right now its even annoying me. I was doing my makeup yesterday and almost burst into tears when I dropped one of my favorite eyeshadows and it broke this is ridiculous and I cant wait to feel normal again.
I have an appointment tomorrow morning. If he says one word about induction I would jump on that train and not look back. I'm over being pregnant. Flame away.
If one more person at work tells me "You're almost there!" or gives me "tips" on how to make the baby come, I may scream.
I am over work, as most of us seem to be, but mostly because of my co-workers, not the children. Someone else felt the need to tell me today that I have a puffy face. You think I don't know???
We found out Thursday that MIL was getting foreclosed on. She apparently knew nothing about it and has to be out by Wednesday. Umm, usually when you don't pay your mortgage they are not going to let you keep your house. And I'm pretty sure you would have gotten more than one notice that you would be losing the house. She is a hoarder and her place is absolutely disgusting. DH, his grandma and aunt have been over there trying to get stuff packed up but she refuses to throw any of her junk away (she has boxes of empty toilet paper tubes, wtf?). She wants to store a bunch of her crap at our house too. I'm pretty sure anything from the basement is covered in mold and am worried her house has fleas and bedbugs. I feel bad (kinda) but DH and I told her we will only take some of the wood furniture and nothing can come into the house. She still hasn't found an apartment and doesn't seem to think it's a big deal. SHE WILL NOT BE STAYING HERE!!!!! She is really stressing me out!!
Sick and tired of people telling me to be patient and hope the baby stays in as long as possible. "They're easier on the inside than the outside!" Shove it! I'm up all night anyways, I might as well be nursing and tending to and enjoying a beautiful baby. And at least for the few minutes or hours I was sleeping, I'd be able to sleep on my STOMACH!!!!
I'm really trying to be patient and I DO want what's best for my baby but this part is getting very un-fun.
OH MY GOD, YES.
And Then There Were Three...
Married: 08/14/10
Baby #1 Born: 06/18/11
June Moms Blog
I'm so sorry, hoarding is such a hard thing to deal with especially on top of someone not wanting to leave their home. A family friend had to deal with that situation when they were moving an elderly parent who could no longer live at home alone and they said the only thing they could do (she kept taking stuff out of the trash can) is move her out first, rent one of those huge dumpsters and just go in and literally throw anything that was not pictures or other small keepsakes away without her around. Is there anywhere she can go so that you can go in and get the stuff out?
If she won't go for that, I would take her to a storage place, have them quote her the monthly rent for as much storage she would need to house all of her stuff and tell her that's her only option. That you do not have the room. If she cannot/is not willing to pay for the storage then there's no other option. Just stand firm.
Holy cow! Are you living my life? All of this is me (except DS is 17 mo). Good luck to both of us!