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here's the situation

lar1203lar1203 member
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so, dh and i wanted to wait to have a spring baby for dumb reasons. i want to lose a few pounds and we want #2 to have a warm birth month.

dh is working and we are insured. but- he takes a test at the end of this month that will determine if he continues to work. he says passing is not an option, so i am not sure if there is a second chance test or not.

i think i'm o-ing right now.

should i jump him, or wait until he passes the test and i lose about 10 lbs?

 

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  • satreecesatreece
    My two cents?  Jump him.  When in doubt, do the duty.  There's only like a 20% change of pg even when your o'ing right?  If its meant to be it will happen....
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  • danaann78danaann78

    imagesatreece:
    My two cents?  Jump him.  When in doubt, do the duty.  There's only like a 20% change of pg even when your o'ing right?  If its meant to be it will happen....

    DO IT!

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  • MissyOlivePantsMissyOlivePants
    Ummm....YES!  And try for a girl, would ya?! Because then we can just make the whole wedding planning a process for both sets of kids?! :)
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  • sophabellesophabelle
    ditto satreece. lol.   if it's meant to be it'll happen.  go for it!
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  • MissyOlivePantsMissyOlivePants
    Hey Lady....I see your bubble is still on. What in the world are you waiting for?????!!!!!  Get to it now! :)
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  • Lotte134Lotte134
    Eh, I would say wait.  A few more months and you'll feel much more secure plus you'll get the spring baby you want.  Not that I don't want to be pregnant with my wifey - I just think you'll enjoy it more with less stress.
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  • lar1203lar1203 member

    imageMissyOlivePants:
    Hey Lady....I see your bubble is still on. What in the world are you waiting for?????!!!!!  Get to it now! :)

    lol, well i kinda need the husband.. he decided to study! hmm maybe we'll wait until next month after all.

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    imagelar1203:

    imageMissyOlivePants:
    Hey Lady....I see your bubble is still on. What in the world are you waiting for?????!!!!!  Get to it now! :)

    lol, well i kinda need the husband.. he decided to study! hmm maybe we'll wait until next month after all.

    Wait until July! 

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  • Mystery2BMystery2B member

    Probably too late (since he might even be done studying by now) but I would wait...doesn't mean you can't jump him just use a condom.  I have a honest belief that nookie improves test performance (the couple days before the test but it can't hurt the studying either).

    Besides thinking you're o'ing I don't get why you 'd want to do it today...he might not have a job soon, you want a spring baby, you want to lose weight first...no good reason to get pregnant today. Lots of good reasons to practice though! 

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  • MissyOlivePantsMissyOlivePants
    imagelar1203:

    imageMissyOlivePants:
    Hey Lady....I see your bubble is still on. What in the world are you waiting for?????!!!!!  Get to it now! :)

    lol, well i kinda need the husband.. he decided to study! hmm maybe we'll wait until next month after all.

    I have this feeling that if you were to walk into the room where he's studying (provided it's not outside the house) with something sexy on that studying would become obsolete for at least a few minutes... ;o

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  • lar1203lar1203 member
    imageMissyOlivePants:
    imagelar1203:

    imageMissyOlivePants:
    Hey Lady....I see your bubble is still on. What in the world are you waiting for?????!!!!!  Get to it now! :)

    lol, well i kinda need the husband.. he decided to study! hmm maybe we'll wait until next month after all.

    I have this feeling that if you were to walk into the room where he's studying (provided it's not outside the house) with something sexy on that studying would become obsolete for at least a few minutes... ;o

    hmmm....

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