Why do people say, "it's still really early"

Mrs.Reem · May 2011

It's not happening. Negative tests all around.

Several people have said, "It's still really early." Is it? I think by 12dpt things should pretty well be wrapped up. The average normal luteal phase is at most 14 days. Sure FET's might take a little longer, but with assisted hatching, they're not hanging around in there sayin' gee do you think we should implant? Nah maybe a few more days...

Am I way off?

wiscgirl95 · May 2011

They're just trying to be hopeful for you. You're probably not off. I'm so sorry.

LoveMyGirlz · May 2011

Oh crap. Sorry it's negative. I think people say it (I know I've said it) because pregnancies can be so different and implant/grow differently so it's possible for sure that a test wouldn't be positive yet. I can't speak specifically about the AH or anything. Well, and people want to have hope that it is just early instead of truly negative. This really sucks. I'm sorry. I really thought this was it as I'm sure many did. If this is negative for sure, is there a plan for the next step?

Mrs.Reem · May 2011

Yeah actually the mom is talking about starting fresh and having us both travel to CCRM. I'm kind of excited at the prospect of getting a break for a month or so while they get set up.

Last time I was devastated. This time I was prepared.

LVBlvd · May 2011

So sorry : (

kittylove · May 2011

I am so sorry. Yes people are just trying to hold out hope for you. But it does happen to get late +. I only did an IUI but the HPT wasn't + till 15dpIUI.

crystalgirl · May 2011

Crap! Didn't see the news before this. I'm sorry... Maybe a fresh start is a good idea.

emmyloustu · May 2011

Crap. Crap. Crap. There is always a chance, but I would say that is not the norm. I am so sorry this doesn't appear to be the cycle. It will happen, I am sure of it. I am glad to hear you were more prepared this time, but it still hurts badly for all involved. (((HUGS)))

alchris · May 2011

I'm so sorry, A.

It's early to know for sure, of course, but yeah, by 12 days one can usually say which way it's going. Thinking of you, of them...much love to all.

erin5407 · May 2011

I'm so sorry

. I have had two successful cycles and two negative cycles... I always tested positive by this point and I agree, it is hard to hear people say it is still early

. I hope CCRM is the answer and you enjoy your month off.

DavezWife · May 2011

:-(

armywife76 · May 2011

I'm so sorry. That just sucks all the way around. ((hugs))

Mrs.Reem · May 2011

It's okay. Thanks guys. There's one more try in the contract so this isn't the end. I really feel like we'll have a better chance at CCRM if we can get the testing done on the embryos and do a 5 day transfer with ultrasound guidance. All things that aren't currently happening. I haven't lost hope for the final objective. It just isn't happening right now.

Cassian · May 2011

It is just something people say cause no one wants to be that person that says "you're right, it doesn't look good at all". I'm so sorry it didn't work

JGirl2005 · May 2011

I'm sorry.

kimarino13 · May 2011

JGirl2005:
I'm sorry.

Me, too.

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