IUI #4 = BFFN

Temp590840000005378 · May 2011

I'm not surprised, but still Sad. Crying I'm done with IUI's, I feel like I'm just wasting my money with them. My Dh thinks we should try a few more, but I'm just over it.

I'm realizing IVF is our only option and I just don't know how I'm going to make it happen. I know, 'if there is a will there is a way', but it's very overwhelming. The shots give me major anxiety and I just don't know where I'll come up with the money. I can come up with enough for ONE IVF but, if it doesn't work that will be the end of my road to becoming a mom. I'm thinking of taking out some sort of loan for a shared risk program. Lots to think about, ugh!! I hate IF. Really, hate it.

Thanks for listening. TGIF!! Drinks

cookie_queen · May 2011

I'm so sorry. IF is such a biotch.

The shots really aren't a big deal after the first few, you can totally do it.

As for the money, I think looking into a shared risk program is a good idea. I wish we had done one. Our RE advised against it but I wish I hadn't listened to him.

theworms · May 2011

((HUGS))

it sucks

i think shared risk is the way to go if you qualify for it cutie

illinigal · May 2011

Huge hugs. So sorry about your BFN. I hope you are able to come to a next step decision that you and your DH are happy with.

jessican08 · May 2011

I'm so sorry Bear ((HUGS)). I wish none of us had to be here. I hope your RE can give you some options that will work for you and your DH.

Temp590840000005378 · May 2011

cookie_queen:

I'm so sorry. IF is such a biotch.

The shots really aren't a big deal after the first few, you can totally do it.

As for the money, I think looking into a shared risk program is a good idea. I wish we had done one. Our RE advised against it but I wish I hadn't listened to him.

Thanks for your feedback on the shared risk, I think it's my best bet too... I need to figure it out and see if I even qualify, ugh!

Temp590840000005378 · May 2011

theworms:

((HUGS))

it sucks

i think shared risk is the way to go if you qualify for it cutie

Thanks for the shared risk vote, I will need to see if I can qualify!

madelyn07 · May 2011

sorry about your bfn

hollymichael · May 2011

I'm sorry. ((Hugs))

I would look into the shared risk. That way you don't have so much riding on one cycle.

DeputiesWife · May 2011

::hugs::

it is definitely a lot to think about!

Jackie2200 · May 2011

Sorry for your BFN. I hope you qualify for a Shared Risk. Not having to put all your eggs in one basket (no pun intended) really will emiminate some of the stress from IF.

Tanya+Da · May 2011

I am so sorry ((HUGS))

militarywife2b · May 2011

(((((Hugs)))))

Bella2u07 · May 2011

I am so sorry. BIG (((HUGS)))

IF sucks!

labbylover03 · May 2011

I'm so sorry!

((hugs)) Best of luck as you make your decisions about moving forward.

Delta04 · May 2011

I'm so sorry. ((HUGS)) to you. IF is so unfair.

JackieMac824 · May 2011

Hey GIrl,

I am so so so very sorry about the BFN - I was so hoping this was it for you.

The shots seem scary but really they are not - the best thing I can tell you is take one step at a time with the IVF process and then it will not feel so overwhleming.

I will be here to answer all of your questions.

If I had to do it over again - I wish I would of done shared risk - but the expense is crazy - I know.

E-mail me if you want to vent - thinking of you.

Do all the things this weekend that you would not be able to do if you were pregnant.

softbalangel · May 2011

I'm so sorry about your BFN. ((hugs))

abbe19 · May 2011

I am so sorry. (((hugs)))

IVF is a big undertaking but you can totally handle it. The shots are no big deal-I promise you.

matt'sbride · May 2011

I'm so sorry #4 didn't work for you! I hope IVF proves to be a much better choice in the end. I know it's expensive (we're OOP as well), but if it works it's worth it, right? (((hugs)))

M&MBride0506 · May 2011

I'm so sorry. Sad

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