I've looked at both brands and like features of both. DH and I both don't have the greatest backs and I think these are our best options (unless you have another suggestion). That said, which would you recommend, both brand and style? We also have a Moby wrap that I will use, but I suspect DH will only use the more structured carrier. Thanks!
Re: Beco vs. Ergo?
I love love my ergo carrier. Madison is probably around 23-24 lbs and I still am able to front carry her with it. Its fast and easy to put on when I'm in a hurry to get out the door or to run errands. You can also back carry with it, and they have an infant insert you can buy for small babies. Madison was not happy in the ergo til she was 4 months old because I never bought the infant insert (now she practically lives in it). Before that, I carried her in a Moby, which was great for my back and wonderful for younger babies. Moby's stretch too much though once they get past 14 or so lbs.
With that said, I also own two woven wraps (more meant for older babies) - a Storckenweiche and a BBslen. I'm not sold on my Storck yet because the fabric seems thick to me and its a little short (though you can buy longer than mine), but I do love my BBslen because of how long it is and lightweight it feels. I plan on using it for mainly for back carriers, but you can use it for front carries too. Hope this helps!
I have the butterfly 2 and I LOVE it. I wear, Husband wears it, Baz loves it. I like that it has the panel inside so that Baz is essentially in a little pocket. It's like a sweat barrier in the heat AND it makes it a cinch to get him onto my back.
I also like how crisp the Beco looks. The Ergo just looks lumpy to me and I'm not a fan of any of the colorways. But I'm particular about things like that.
ps - we use it when we go hiking - it's far superior to a frame carrier. The same would be true of the ergo, which doesn't help you, but which is nice to know.
Good luck!