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At what age are you going to stop being naked in front of LO?

DH and I were talking about this the other day. DD was doing something cute and I called DH over to see. He just happened to have just gotten out of the shower so he was naked. Obviously it doesn't make a difference at this age, but at what age are you going to stop showering with LO, walking around naked, etc? And does gender factor into it?

 

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Re: At what age are you going to stop being naked in front of LO?

  • No later than the age of 2. I think at that age they begin to understand male/female. I remember babysitting a 3 year old at one time and he kept grabbing my butt. He knew what he was doing and it was inappropriate. As soon as my child is able to understand, he won't be seeing either of us naked.
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  • I think gender does play a role. I will probably stop prancing around naked in front of DS by the time he is 2. But for DH I'm sure it will be different. That's just where I stand right now.
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  • Whatever you do, do not wait until it's too late...My BIL got out of the shower and my niece (who was 3 at the time) saw him and she said..."Daddy, I didn't know you had a tail!" lol...hopefully she won't remember this..
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    H will probably stop around age 2 although he rarely walks around the house naked anyway.  For me I don't think this will really be a concern. Why should she not be able to see me naked?  I'm not saying that I'm going to do cartwheels through the living room or anything, but I don't think my body/the body that she will someday have is something I need to hide from my daughter

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  • I haven't decided yet. I want Ellie to be comfortable with her body and open to talking with me about it later, but I dont want her strippimg down at Mammaw's either or thinking everyone walks around naked.

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  • my ds will be 3 in august and he still has no idea.

    In fact funny story....Ds loooooves to be clean, hates to be dirty. So I get out of the shower and I'm all wrapped up in a towel. he reaches his hand up my back thigh and goes..."ooooooh niiiiice.....clean"  I was getting super creeped out until he said "cleaaaan".

    It was beyond hilarious.  He has not questioned nekkidnesss yet or the difference between mommy and daddy.I read in a book this usually comes around age 3...

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  • imagek_renee:
    I think gender does play a role. I will probably stop prancing around naked in front of DS by the time he is 2. But for DH I'm sure it will be different. That's just where I stand right now.

    Probably something like this. 

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    Whatever you do, do not wait until it's too late...My BIL got out of the shower and my niece (who was 3 at the time) saw him and she said..."Daddy, I didn't know you had a tail!" lol...hopefully she won't remember this..

    LOL! 

    You know she already told some of her friends at playgroup or preschool, right? When I taught preschool I heard so many comments like this!

    "I thought I heard mommy crying last night, but when I went in their room they told me to just go back to sleep. Maybe mommy had a bad dream."

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  • I have a son...so probably around 2 yrs old....but I also have 2 tep-daughters.  Their bio-mom walks around topless in front of them and the girls are 9 and 11 yrs old.
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  • imagedaenikoffre:

    You know she already told some of her friends at playgroup or preschool, right? When I taught preschool I heard so many comments like this!

    "I thought I heard mommy crying last night, but when I went in their room they told me to just go back to sleep. Maybe mommy had a bad dream."

     I still remember walking in on my parents having sex when I was in kindergarden. They were being creative. I'm scared for life. 

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  • The responses are hilarious, a tail?! Bwahahaha!

    Probably baths and walking around will stop around 3 years old (when I've read they take notice as pp said).  But if I have more kiddos, which I plan to, then I will still breastfeed in front of him because I don't feel it needs to be hidden and especially not in my own house.  Yes gender plays a role because if/when I have a girl then I don't know if there will be a set age.  I remember being about 6 maybe and taking a shower with my mom after getting out of the pool.  It wasn't a regular thing at all but was for convenience since we were short on time and both had to be ready to go.  After that I've seen her "bits" while changing in the dressing room if we've had to share one.  It's never been an issue but it's funny to me because my mom is such a prude about everything else!

    With DH I think it will stop soon even though we have a boy.  He gets out of the shower and as he's dressing I usually have DS on the bed playing.  DH often remarks, "He just looked at me, at my...thing," and covers himself.  Most often DS is just looking through him or if he is looking at him it's no where in particular.  It still freaks DH out though.

  • I think around 2-3 is appropriate.  When I first started dating DH he lived at his moms with his 2 daughters and his mom helped a lot with taking care of them while he was at work. Anyway, she used to take them to shower with her. SOOOO Gross IMO. She did this until the oldest was almost 6. Could you imagine?!?! I would be scarred for life for sure!!! 
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    H will probably stop around age 2 although he rarely walks around the house naked anyway.  For me I don't think this will really be a concern. Why should she not be able to see me naked?  I'm not saying that I'm going to do cartwheels through the living room or anything, but I don't think my body/the body that she will someday have is something I need to hide from my daughter

    This.  I totally agree! 

     

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  • About the age she can go in a public bathroom by herself (with me right outside the door).  Maybe 5?  I'm sure DH will be more modest earlier. 
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  • FI and I come from completely different backgrounds when it comes to nudity.  My family is wound pretty tightly whereas FI's family is very open.  DD will be 4 in a month and a half and I still walk around naked in front of her and she takes showers with MIL pretty often.  FI hasn't been naked in front of her since she was about 18 months.  I probably will stop prancing around nude in front of DS before he hits 2.  I dunno what FI is planning on doing.  And I would say LO's sex definitely a factor.
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    my ds will be 3 in august and he still has no idea.

    My DS has no idea either.


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  • I'm guessing around 2 for DH.  For me?  Not sure.  Kinda depends on LO as she gets older and what we're comfortable with.
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  • Wow, I hadn't thought about this.  DS will be 2 in September.  I think maybe we should stop by then because I think they can remember things long term by then.  I don't want him to have his first memory be of me prancing around the house in my birthday suit.  Ewww. 
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  • imageRIMROCK:

    H will probably stop around age 2 although he rarely walks around the house naked anyway.  For me I don't think this will really be a concern. Why should she not be able to see me naked?  I'm not saying that I'm going to do cartwheels through the living room or anything, but I don't think my body/the body that she will someday have is something I need to hide from my daughter

    This.  I totally agree!

    I agree as well.

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  • imageMrsDrCook:
    Whatever you do, do not wait until it's too late...My BIL got out of the shower and my niece (who was 3 at the time) saw him and she said..."Daddy, I didn't know you had a tail!" lol...hopefully she won't remember this..

     

    HAHHAHAHAHAHA!!!!

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  • Gender makes a difference for us. DH has already stopped being naked around DD, but I still am sometimes.

    I don't know how long I'll go naked in front of DS, probably less time, probably by the time he's 1?

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  • I BF uncovered in front of my boys 10 & 8 and they are not grossed out by it.  Matter of fact I think I have the most oblivious boys around.  They have seen me naked, in the shower or changing, but one day when I had DD my youngest son was watching me change her diaper and he asked me where her penis was.  I said she didnt have one, and he said "Oh, it will grow in as she gets older"  Laughing my head off I had to explain that no, it wouldnt grow in.  We are working on the whole, Your body is yours and you shouldnt show it to people you dont know love trust, but it is nothing to be ashamed of.

  • I still walk around naked with a 1.5 year old. When DH gets out of the shower he'll usually cover up with a towel as he runs to the bedroom for clothes, but sometimes not. He's in his underwear a lot though. I'm not really sure when we'll stop.
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  • I don't think I have a specific age in mind. I have a robe that I wear from the bathroom to our bedroom because my husband's kid is often roaming around our house. I will probably continue with that level of modesty for her sake. But i don't know that there is a cut off date for when DS is no longer allowed to be in our room when I get dressed in the morning.
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  • imageMrsDrCook:
    Whatever you do, do not wait until it's too late...My BIL got out of the shower and my niece (who was 3 at the time) saw him and she said..."Daddy, I didn't know you had a tail!" lol...hopefully she won't remember this..

    hahahaha omg

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