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S/O Calling LO names...

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in May 2011 Moms

An acquaintance on fb posted a picture of her 3 yo little girl in a bikini and the caption read:

"My little hooch"

I just thought, if you say that about her at 3 yo and you are her mother, what will she allow others to say about her and what will this do to her self image.

Am I being ridiculous that I was taken aback by her comment? 

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Re: S/O Calling LO names...

  • Bakes4uBakes4u member
    I would never say that and think it's inappropriate, but I have come to realize people are just crazy.
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  • mrbear83mrbear83 member
    eek. I hope that was completely in jest, despite being tasteless....
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  • elisbuelisbu member

    Not appropriate at all!!

    I don't even like it when DH calls K 'fussy-butt' or 'fuss-pot'. Hmm

    Why the negative?

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  • mizzmegmizzmeg member
    She called her "little hooch" but I am pretty sure this mom let her 3 year old year something like that! She deserves the side eye either way! 
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  • theaustins05theaustins05
    I'm not super touchy about name calling but anything sexualizing a baby is not appropriate.
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  • kammmmaykammmmay member

    imagetheaustins05:
    I'm not super touchy about name calling but anything sexualizing a baby is not appropriate.

    I would have to agree. Sexualizing a baby is not ok.  

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    imagetheaustins05:
    I'm not super touchy about name calling but anything sexualizing a baby is not appropriate.

    I would have to agree. Sexualizing a baby is not ok.  

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  • kacellekacelle member
    imageelisbu:

    Not appropriate at all!!

    I don't even like it when DH calls K 'fussy-butt' or 'fuss-pot'. Hmm

    Why the negative?

    I felt guilty for calling LO a "stubborn little squirt" when I went past my due date.  I had way too many negative, self-esteem crushing comments made to me as a child and adolescent to talk about LO like that.

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  • munsterdanimunsterdani member
    That was TOTALLY inappropriate. I would have been very taken aback by that comment.
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    imagetheaustins05:
    I'm not super touchy about name calling but anything sexualizing a baby is not appropriate.

    I would have to agree. Sexualizing a baby is not ok.  

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    I agree. I keep joking that my kid is like Stewie from Family Guy and that he's already plotting my demise, even from inside of me. LOL but of course I am joking. I would never dress a child in a bathing suit and call them a little slut or some other sexually degrading term. 

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    imagepandi02a:
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    imagetheaustins05:
    I'm not super touchy about name calling but anything sexualizing a baby is not appropriate.

    I would have to agree. Sexualizing a baby is not ok.  

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    I agree. I keep joking that my kid is like Stewie from Family Guy and that he's already plotting my demise, even from inside of me. LOL but of course I am joking. I would never dress a child in a bathing suit and call them a little slut or some other sexually degrading term. 

    we joked about that too! that is funny not crude.

    OP your fb friend for one posting her child in a bikini is just weird to me and adding that caption just makes her klassy! to me that is just disturbing. I have fb friends that I do not KNOW all too well that I would not post anything like that esp with that caption or any sexually degrading term...

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  • LuvTravLuvTrav member
    imagepandi02a:
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    imagetheaustins05:
    I'm not super touchy about name calling but anything sexualizing a baby is not appropriate.

    I would have to agree. Sexualizing a baby is not ok.  

    Yes 

    I agree. I keep joking that my kid is like Stewie from Family Guy and that he's already plotting my demise, even from inside of me. LOL but of course I am joking. I would never dress a child in a bathing suit and call them a little slut or some other sexually degrading term. 

    I am glad to know I am not the only one who thought it was wrong. Having a sense of humor is one thing but I just know that if she writes stuff like that she probably says it to her too. Like "oh look at mama's little hooch"

    ::Shudders:: It's just wrong! 

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