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DD called SO Daddy the other day

He took it really well, and told me he doesn't mind being a father figure to her as he plans to be with me for a very long time, wants to get married/be a family in the future. He just said he's worried that she will resent him when she gets older and realizes he's not her real dad. I did not encourage DD to call him daddy. I said "Nooo, that's S" and we moved on. I just felt kind of embarrassed because I don't want people thinking I taught her to call him that or anything. I assume she learned it at daycare seeing other kids being picked up by their fathers, or maybe hearing me call my father Dad.

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Re: DD called SO Daddy the other day

  • What if you came up with a special name for him and taught her that. Then she might be less likely to call him daddy and everyone would feel comfortable.
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  • imageMeliss227:
    What if you came up with a special name for him and taught her that. Then she might be less likely to call him daddy and everyone would feel comfortable.

    This.

    A friend in elementary school (and still a friend, actually) called her step-dad "Pop." I always liked it. It wasn't weird for anyone, and she never felt resentment toward her step-dad or her biological father, for that matter.

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