I have to ask this with an ae because even thoug i really really mean it when i tell you that i'm not prejudice, i know that yous guys wont beleive me. but really i see nothing wrong with people loving who ever they love. i just really have a question.
can you explain why if a woman is attracted to other women why she is attracted to women who look and act like men? and also why do gay men act so femenine? if they are really attracted to men, why dont they act manly? i am attracted to men because of how they act and look and dress not because they act like women like me.
i know this can come off as really rude and i'm sorry. its just something ive been wandering. and i know there are lesbian women who like femenine women to. its just that many of them date women who act like men and i just wondered why that is.
please dont be ofended. i really dont mean to be rude. the reason why i am using an ae is no matter how much i say im not trying to be rude yous wont believe me and i dont want to be run off this sight.
thank you
Re: I have to ask this with an ae
It's all preference... Are you attracted to rugged, masculine men or skinny, pale, geeky men? Does it really matter why some women like masculine women or some men act feminine? Not really.
Why do interracial couples like each other? Why do brown haired women go blonde? Why do straight men act "manly" and straight women act feminine?
It's all preferential.
I will say this, some women feel out of place being feminine and choose to dress in guys clothes, this doesn't always mean that they act like men.
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I think, maybe, that I just MIGHT have figured out what you're asking through your bad grammar and terrible typing. So here is my short answer: I am attracted to women because I like boobs and vaginas and I don't like penises near my boobs and vagina. The end.
I am not attracted to butch women, but that's my preference. Why are some men only into blondes? Why do some women only date tall men? Why are some people into S&M? And why does it matter who someone else is attracted to unless you want to be the one having sex with them?
I *heart* you!
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I love Blue.
What is an "ae"?
EXACTLY THIS!!!
I would guess ae would be anonymous or assumed something....to not reveal one's identity. Anyone see Date Night? I quote it constantly...."I am going to keep you guessing.....woo-ooo-OOOO!"
Blue I had to stop myself form laughing out loud at my desk. You summed it all up pretty nicely.
I am attracted to the more butch look but I know that even though Ann feels more comfortable drssing as a man and sometimes does retarded "guy" things so to say she is still a woman and sexually that is what does it for me.
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Married my best friend 5*15*2008 Trying to start our family 8*2011
unmedicated iui#3= bfp 10/20/11! beta#1=11, beta#2=85, beta#3=741,beta#4=1000,beta#5=2146,beta#6=7454 *please keep doubling*
Married my best friend 5*15*2008 Trying to start our family 8*2011
unmedicated iui#3= bfp 10/20/11! beta#1=11, beta#2=85, beta#3=741,beta#4=1000,beta#5=2146,beta#6=7454 *please keep doubling*
Bwahaha... Blue, I
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Dammit, y'all are having too much fun with this! As moderator I was going to delete it but Blue's response keeps it alive. As long as things don't get nasty it will remain.
::backsoutofthread::
The thing is, this board really doesn't flame. We get some really stupid questions from time to time and for the most part everyone will give thoughtful answers. I honestly think you would have received more responses if you did NOT use an alter ego. I for one, give more credibility to posters with a higher post count. I know they've been around the boards, probably understand flaming, and board dynamics. If you had more posts and came here with an honest to goodness question I would have answered. But since you came with an AE it's hard to not assume it's MUD (particularly with the name of your AE).
Yea that?s coz I was bullyed in grade school for not being ladylike coz I played sports and had short hair like a guy. But that was like ten years ago and Im gunna be a mom soon so I have to let it go you know? i didnt know yous dont flame or maybe i would of asked earlier. i never understood it and every body always acused me of it so i just wondered how it worked. but now that im having a baby i guess its obvious.
First of all, Blue's answer had me cracking up too. Perfect!
Second, what Two said is absolutely true. AE plus several acknowledgments that you know your question is offensive does not make for much credibility.
Third, for me it's much more about the particular person. I'm attracted to DW, what else matters? I've been attracted to men and to women and I ended up with the person I was meant to be with. We may never know why some people feel comfortable presenting themselves in stereotypical masculine or feminine ways or why other people are attracted to the ways others present themselves.
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I LIKE BOOBS AND VAGINAS too! and I am a VERY BUTCH WOMAN .. just the way i was made! and I *HEART* YOU TOO BLUE DAISY you are BAD ASS! and though I am a VERY BUTCH WOMAN I dont like penises near my boobs or vagina either! Hmm.. the world must really be ending soon !
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this thread is shockingly funny.
B and I are both very feminine. The line we always get is "wow, neither of you look/act like lesbians..." Hmmm. And to top it off, I was married to a very manly rugged tough guy before my relationship with B. Its just all about who you want to be with, who you fall in love with.
People gay or straight pick their partners based on their own preferences.