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Help help 2 "dads" 1 bby.. :o
Oh Gosh i am very confused!!! ok im going to give all the details?
I found i was pregnant like 3 weeks ago.. I consider myself irregular cause when i was younger i used to get my periods all over the place.. but lately ive had my periods at the same day every month.. anyways.. My last period was February 18th? i had sex on March 5th then March 19th with the same guy? Then on march 21st i didn?t get my period but i had some spotting like brownish no blood at all it was only spotting and that lasted 3 days.. then on March 27th i had sex with my ex (yes yes mistake!!!).. and on April 22nd i found out i was pregnant. At first they told me that i was 9 weeks (on that day april 22nd).. so i was sure it was the first guy.. but now with the ultrasound they say im around 7 weeks (or 8 considering this was last week) i did the ultra sound twice already.. so if im 8 weeks then its the second guy (my ex)..
I just dont get it.. i mean i was with my ex for serveral years we never used protection and i never got pregnant i seriously thought i wasnt gonna be able to have a baby ever.. idk i am happy that im pregnant but ths is really bothering me..
Doctors can make mistakes right? I mean well idk.. can a baby be smaller than it suppose to be? if i go by calendar dates and everything it makes more sense that the first guy is the dad.. got my period feb 18th my period is around 32 o 33 days apart.. so my ovulation should be around day 18th thats around march 7th or so..
Can i get pregnant without ovulating?
So if my ex is the dad.. then the spotting i got march 21st that was my period.. but then i had sex just 6 days after i wasnt ovulating ugghh this is confusing!!
I will do a DNA test but its a long time that i have to wait.. i can't really be sure and say YES THIS GUY IS THE DAD. What if he's not 
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Re: Help help 2 "dads" 1 bby.. :o
This has to be MUD.
It's the first guy.
You can't get pregnant without ovulating.
Thats what i thought but the Dr. said like im irregular those things happen..
and what is MUD? anyawys thanks Dr. Loretta
Haha yea yea... they tell me to go to Maury! lol
MUD= MADE UP DRAMA.
I agree. This has to be made up. If its not, you can get DNA tests before you deliver.....
Oh i see...
I just dont know, im confused... I mean i can wait i know i'm the mom but my ex is not happy about having to wait to do a DNA test..
Ive heard about the DNA test before delivering but arent those dangerous?
This really is MUD.
Talk to your doctor and see what kind of testing you can get done, and when. If prentatal testing was super dangerous, no one would get it. Your dr can give you the statistics on the risks and you can make your decision.
But I'm still not seeing the math working out for your ex.
Yea i know... I dont see it either but they tell me im less time.. well ill wait to see what happens on my next appointment.
Thanks!
Yea i know they count 2 more weeks.. so that means that if they said i was 7 weeks (on may 2nd) that means im only 5??
Im gonna have to ask all this to my dr. im just too confused and i dont believe is my ex and the only way i will be 100% sure is if the DNA comes positive..