Might not be around much for awhile:(

Erin RN · May 2011

Things aren't going so well around here right now, both financially and personally. I think I have been using the board as a distraction and I need to focus on reality. We got our first (of many I'm sure) medical bill for LO and it is officially wiping us out. I'm trying to find a job, but there isn't much that is day shift. I might have to go back to night shift, but it was awful when I did it last time. My body just can't adjust. On sat H and I hit a rough spot and I really don't know how to come back from it. The short version is that I knew his mom was somehow going to blame me for not spending enough time with LO while she was here. Never ever ever did I expect H to agree:( Then I had to defend myself. Of course he took it back after I pointed out every time she chose not to spend time here and after I asked for examples. I guess I just need to figure out a way to get over it, but right now I can't. It was just so hurtful that now I look at him differently. Plus he wants to act like nothing happened and everything is fine. But anyways, sorry to vent. I guess I just want to say THANK YOU SO MUCH for all of your help and support!!! I will check in on you ladies occationally and I hope I will be back soon!!!

Kelanne · May 2011

Sad I'm so sorry you are going through all of this. Will your hospital work with you on a payment plan? I have so many medical bills too - some they would work with me and some they wouldn't - hey people - we only have so much money.

I'm sorry about you and your H - I hope you get it all worked out soon. I know it will take time, but hopefully you will be able to trust him. Marriage is hard - especially when you add a kid into the mix.

I hope you come back soon.
Big ((((( HUGS ))))) to you!

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LemonLime10 · May 2011

I'm so sorry to hear this. Hopefully things will get better soon!

LC0479 · May 2011

I'm sorry. I hope things look up both at home and on the work side very soon!

pepomntpat · May 2011

{hugs} I hope things turn around for you soon.

vflipo · May 2011

((Hugs)) I hope things get better soon!

EmKo0210 · May 2011

((HUGS)) I'm so sorry you are dealing with all of this right now. I hope things get better soon.

LaciLeigh · May 2011

I am so sorry Big huge hugs to you. I hope you find an answer to the medical bills soon and your rough patch works itself out. If you need to talk just email me. DH and I are going through a really rough time too right now, so I am a definietly understanding.

Hope to see you on here again soon

Jacquiemark · May 2011

I'm so sorry. I hope things get better for you soon. ((BIG HUGS))

Jessicamz · May 2011

I'm sorry that you're having a hard time right now. I really hope things get better and you are back soon!

Leah11599 · May 2011

I'm sorry your going through a rough patch and understand the need for a break. We are here if you need anything and when you decide to come back!

((((hugs))))

Amanda78 · May 2011

Big hugs sweetie. Take care of yourself. GL on the job hunt.

shall923 · May 2011

I am sorry Erin. I hope you and your H get things worked out. Money can add a lot of stress to a marriage. I hope you can find a day job and don't have to go back to working nights. Big hugs.

ihearteddieboo · May 2011

I'm sorry you are going through all of that. We have massive hospital bills too from DS spending 12 days in the NICU. See if your hospital will work with you to help with payments. T&Ps that you and your DH can work through this rough patch and come out a stronger couple. ((hugs))

Mrs.KS · May 2011

I'm sorry to hear this. Best wishes to you. Sometimes we just need to take a break. I hope when you come back things will be much better for you guys.

celestej619 · May 2011

(((big hugs))) I'm so sorry you're going through all of this. Know that we're all here for you. Good luck hun!

mrstyson03 · May 2011

I'm sorry things are tough right now. I'll pray things turn around soon. Hopefully you can find a day shift position. We'll miss you!

OregonMama · May 2011

(((hugs))) I'm so sorry you are having such a rough time. (((hugs)))

sinisterkat01 · May 2011

Huge (((HUGS)))

I know what you mean about the board being a distraction. I love it here, but I post in fits and starts, because I will feel guilty spending my only free time at the computer, while DH is upstairs with the baby, and when I have so many other things to be doing.

I understand both the financial, and the marital issues. I have no solutions but I do understand. Please let me know if you ever want to talk. I'll PM my email addy. Hang in there!

Kelly0615 · May 2011

I'm so sorry you are going through a rough time. ::huge hugs::

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