To me it would depend if I could afford it or not. If it was okay for my family financially, I would take any amount of pay cut to be in a less stressful job.
To me it would depend if I could afford it or not. If it was okay for my family financially, I would take any amount of pay cut to be in a less stressful job.
This!!
IUI#3 brought us our dragon baby Z
TTCAL January 2015 Siggy Challenge: Animal Snow Interactions
It would depend on more than the pay cut, are their any extra perks besides less stress, like shorter commute, better hours, better insurance. I also am the main provider in our house, so it would be hard for me to take a pay cut, but DH is the one with insurance, so he couldn't leave either, we are both pretty much stuck! Good luck to you!
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To me it would depend if I could afford it or not. If it was okay for my family financially, I would take any amount of pay cut to be in a less stressful job.
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2nd This!! My previous job was so stressful and longer hours. Now my personal life is much more enjoyable.
"When the world says, 'Give up,' Hope whispers, 'Try one more time.'" -Anonymous
I had to take a 5% pay cut while keeping the same miserable job. It was to avoid layoffs. Although I didn't like the job the 5% wasn't that bad.
After more than 2 years of fertility treatments, FET did the trick!
IVF March 2012 - BFP! - Severe OHSS = 8 days in the hospital in kidney failure
No heartbeat at 10w6d
FET August 27,2012 = BFP!
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It would depend on more than the pay cut, are their any extra perks besides less stress, like shorter commute, better hours, better insurance. I also am the main provider in our house, so it would be hard for me to take a pay cut, but DH is the one with insurance, so he couldn't leave either, we are both pretty much stuck! Good luck to you!
This...to a "T"! I have the same situation. I keep asking DH to ask for a raise, so I can get a less stressful job. Hey, is that an option for you? Can DH make up the difference so you won't feel it financially?
Me=30, DH=31
Together since 2000, Married 10/17/2009
TTC since 2/2010,Dx with PCOS 12/2010, taking 1500mg Metformin
2/11-6/11 Medicated cycles w/RE
7/11-9/11 Break from RE
Suprise BFP 10/7/11! DD born 6/14/2012!!!
Depends how much stress you are dealing with in your current job and what your financial situation is. Also, for me it would depend on how much upward mobility there would be at the new job - maybe you'll start at one level, but have more of an opportunity to move to levels of increasing responsibility (with commesurate pay increase)? That could potentially make up for the initial pay cut.
All these things aside, if I were miserable at my job and had another job offer, I would take it. Good luck!
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Within reason, I would be willing to take a hit financially in order to have less stress. My job right now is so crazy- we have really struggled with what I am going to do when we have a child. Because of my visa situation I have to work, and really I do love my job, but honestly, life's not worth all the stress. There are definitely higher priorities.
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To me it would depend if I could afford it or not. If it was okay for my family financially, I would take any amount of pay cut to be in a less stressful job.
This!!
2nd This!! My previous job was so stressful and longer hours. Now my personal life is much more enjoyable.
I just recently did this, and I could not be happier. I'm like a different person since dropping to P/T at my high-stress job. You have to figure out what the line is though, because too large a pay cut could start causing personal financial stress, which doesn't put you in any better a position. Its all about balance!
11/09- off BCP 08/10- TTC w/ charting
Dx- Stage 3 Endo, Septate Uterus
DH SA Normal (phew!)
06/11- Lap/HSC removed endo and resected septum
8/11-10/11 Femara + TI = BFN
Currently undergoing testing with RE, repeat HSC scheduled next cycle
On to IUI in Dec 2011
P/SAIFW
I had to make that decision about 5 years ago -- I ended up taking a 40% pay cut to get a job that didn't require me to work 60-70 hours a week -- fortunately, at the same time I made that choice, DH was moving up in his company so his increases helped offset some of the loss. It was tough giving up the extra disposable income, but it was worth it for my mental health.
Thanks, ladies! If we weren't going through so much $$$ ttc, I wouldn't think twice. My husband is supportive so I think we can make it work. I can't imagine going to work and not dealing with crisis after drama after crisis. Sounds like a dream...
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Re: Take a Pay Cut?
This!!
IUI#3 brought us our dragon baby Z
TTCAL January 2015 Siggy Challenge: Animal Snow Interactions
I agree with this. I'm the primary income in our household so it would be really hard for me to take a pay cut.
Beta @ 16dpiui=289
Beta @20dpiui=1309
Beta @24dpiui=3969
IT'S A GIRL..MADELYNN ELIZABETH
Madelynn Elizabeth born 31w6d's due to pre e.
Welcome to the world princess!
3-9-12
3.7lbs/ 17 inches
2nd This!! My previous job was so stressful and longer hours. Now my personal life is much more enjoyable.
"When the world says, 'Give up,' Hope whispers, 'Try one more time.'" -Anonymous
After more than 2 years of fertility treatments, FET did the trick!
IVF March 2012 - BFP! - Severe OHSS = 8 days in the hospital in kidney failure
No heartbeat at 10w6d
FET August 27,2012 = BFP!
It's a boy!
My Blog - 3 Dogs, No Baby
This...to a "T"! I have the same situation. I keep asking DH to ask for a raise, so I can get a less stressful job. Hey, is that an option for you? Can DH make up the difference so you won't feel it financially?
Together since 2000, Married 10/17/2009
TTC since 2/2010,Dx with PCOS 12/2010, taking 1500mg Metformin
2/11-6/11 Medicated cycles w/RE
7/11-9/11 Break from RE
Suprise BFP 10/7/11! DD born 6/14/2012!!!
Depends how much stress you are dealing with in your current job and what your financial situation is. Also, for me it would depend on how much upward mobility there would be at the new job - maybe you'll start at one level, but have more of an opportunity to move to levels of increasing responsibility (with commesurate pay increase)? That could potentially make up for the initial pay cut.
All these things aside, if I were miserable at my job and had another job offer, I would take it. Good luck!
I just recently did this, and I could not be happier. I'm like a different person since dropping to P/T at my high-stress job. You have to figure out what the line is though, because too large a pay cut could start causing personal financial stress, which doesn't put you in any better a position. Its all about balance!
11/09- off BCP 08/10- TTC w/ charting
Dx- Stage 3 Endo, Septate Uterus
DH SA Normal (phew!)
06/11- Lap/HSC removed endo and resected septum
8/11-10/11 Femara + TI = BFN
Currently undergoing testing with RE, repeat HSC scheduled next cycle
On to IUI in Dec 2011
P/SAIFW