When did we get a Child Free: Not by choice board?

CTri17 · May 2011

I just saw it on the side bar.

Am I just behind the times?

Jake's Mom · May 2011

I think there may be a lot of anger on that board, especially since it is on a kid type forum, just sayin.

I won't go over there and play any pranks that is for sure.

Shayna0182 · May 2011

Maybe it is a board for people who want a child, but their spouse or s/o can't them. That's the only way I can see having that board.

CBL · May 2011

Jake's Mom:
I think there may be a lot of anger on that board, especially since it is on a kid type forum, just sayin.
I won't go over there and play any pranks that is for sure.

Why do you assume they're angry? They may not be at peace with their decision yet, which is why they'd need a support board, but that doesn't mean they're angry.

That's a rather narrow-minded opinion.

Shayna0182 · May 2011

CBL:
Jake's Mom:

I think there may be a lot of anger on that board, especially since it is on a kid type forum, just sayin.

I won't go over there and play any pranks that is for sure.

Why do you assume they're angry? They may not be at peace with their decision yet, which is why they'd need a support board, but that doesn't mean they're angry.

That's a rather narrow-minded opinion.

Or maybe it's women with medical issues or have had a hysterectomy. I would imagine it's hard to find support out there.

Jake's Mom · May 2011

CBL:
Jake's Mom:
I think there may be a lot of anger on that board, especially since it is on a kid type forum, just sayin.
I won't go over there and play any pranks that is for sure.
Why do you assume they're angry? They may not be at peace with their decision yet, which is why they'd need a support board, but that doesn't mean they're angry.
That's a rather narrow-minded opinion.

Honestly, if you can't have kids for what ever reason, why would you come to a kid board to talk to other people about it? I don't think I would seek out people with kids to talk too if I couldn't have any.

xtencornfield · May 2011

Jake's Mom:
CBL:
Jake's Mom:

I think there may be a lot of anger on that board, especially since it is on a kid type forum, just sayin.

I won't go over there and play any pranks that is for sure.

Why do you assume they're angry? They may not be at peace with their decision yet, which is why they'd need a support board, but that doesn't mean they're angry.

That's a rather narrow-minded opinion.

Honestly, if you can't have kids for what ever reason, why would you come to a kid board to talk to other people about it? I don't think I would seek out people with kids to talk too if I couldn't have any.

Because maybe they've been TTC for a long time and they made friends on the Bump and this is where they feel safe and have a home. Who are we to question why?

CBL · May 2011

xtencornfield:
Jake's Mom:
CBL:
Jake's Mom:

I think there may be a lot of anger on that board, especially since it is on a kid type forum, just sayin.

I won't go over there and play any pranks that is for sure.

Why do you assume they're angry? They may not be at peace with their decision yet, which is why they'd need a support board, but that doesn't mean they're angry.

That's a rather narrow-minded opinion.

Honestly, if you can't have kids for what ever reason, why would you come to a kid board to talk to other people about it? I don't think I would seek out people with kids to talk too if I couldn't have any.

Because maybe they've been TTC for a long time and they made friends on the Bump and this is where they feel safe and have a home. Who are we to question why?

Exactly. They may have been trying for a long time and using the Bump boards as a resource. Why should we tell anyone to leave. Besides the insensitivities here, the bump is a business after all and it's just one more segment to market to.

artygirl · May 2011

Jake's Mom:
CBL:
Jake's Mom:

I think there may be a lot of anger on that board, especially since it is on a kid type forum, just sayin.

I won't go over there and play any pranks that is for sure.

Why do you assume they're angry? They may not be at peace with their decision yet, which is why they'd need a support board, but that doesn't mean they're angry.

That's a rather narrow-minded opinion.

Honestly, if you can't have kids for what ever reason, why would you come to a kid board to talk to other people about it? I don't think I would seek out people with kids to talk too if I couldn't have any.

I'm guessing you do not know anyone that has suffered through infertility. With an attitude like that, I hope not.

AvidVertigo · May 2011

Someone pointed out - maybe it is for mothers who lost a child and need a place to go and talk about it?

Que*Syrah · May 2011

artygirl:
Jake's Mom:
CBL:
Jake's Mom:

I think there may be a lot of anger on that board, especially since it is on a kid type forum, just sayin.

I won't go over there and play any pranks that is for sure.

Why do you assume they're angry? They may not be at peace with their decision yet, which is why they'd need a support board, but that doesn't mean they're angry.

That's a rather narrow-minded opinion.

Honestly, if you can't have kids for what ever reason, why would you come to a kid board to talk to other people about it? I don't think I would seek out people with kids to talk too if I couldn't have any.

I'm guessing you do not know anyone that has suffered through infertility. With an attitude like that, I hope not.

Seriously.

shopgirl78 · May 2011

it's a spin off from TTTC , it is for those who wanted a child but have exhausted or quit TTC and do not wish to adopt/foster....it is for those who have moved on and are ready to live a child free life (beyond their control)

they want a safe heaven from bfps and baby/ttc related news.

Jake's Mom · May 2011

artygirl:
Jake's Mom:
CBL:
Jake's Mom:

I think there may be a lot of anger on that board, especially since it is on a kid type forum, just sayin.

I won't go over there and play any pranks that is for sure.

Why do you assume they're angry? They may not be at peace with their decision yet, which is why they'd need a support board, but that doesn't mean they're angry.

That's a rather narrow-minded opinion.

Honestly, if you can't have kids for what ever reason, why would you come to a kid board to talk to other people about it? I don't think I would seek out people with kids to talk too if I couldn't have any.

I'm guessing you do not know anyone that has suffered through infertility. With an attitude like that, I hope not.

Hey, hey, hey now. I lost a baby, and had issues getting pregnant so I get it. But after I lost the baby, let's just say for the heck of me making my point I couldn't have had another one I certainly would not be on the bump.

While I have my own opinion which I am entitled too, don't go jumping to conclusions that I am some c-u-n-t with NO feelings.

Seriously!

CBL · May 2011

Jake's Mom:
artygirl:
Jake's Mom:
CBL:
Jake's Mom:

I think there may be a lot of anger on that board, especially since it is on a kid type forum, just sayin.

I won't go over there and play any pranks that is for sure.

Why do you assume they're angry? They may not be at peace with their decision yet, which is why they'd need a support board, but that doesn't mean they're angry.

That's a rather narrow-minded opinion.

Honestly, if you can't have kids for what ever reason, why would you come to a kid board to talk to other people about it? I don't think I would seek out people with kids to talk too if I couldn't have any.

I'm guessing you do not know anyone that has suffered through infertility. With an attitude like that, I hope not.

Hey, hey, hey now. I lost a baby, and had issues getting pregnant so I get it. But after I lost the baby, let's just say for the heck of me making my point I couldn't have had another one I certainly would not be on the bump.
While I have my own opinion which I am entitled too, don't go jumping to conclusions that I am some c-u-n-t with NO feelings.
Seriously!

You're the only one who used that word. You still sound rather insensitive and I can't honestly believe anyone who has had a true experience with infertility would feel this way. The board isn't for miscarriage, there are other boards for that.

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