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Vent: I want another baby... BUT...

erinkate23erinkate23
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...I don't want to have sex.  Like, ever.  Which sort of makes babies difficult to conceive.

 /sigh/

 I'm just too freaking tired, and DS wakes up while we're having sex All.The.Time (He clearly does not want a sibling, I swear, he *knows*)... and I don't feel sexy or pretty, I feel stretched out and worn out and old.  :(

I totally need to bring "sexy back".   Any suggestions?

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Re: Vent: I want another baby... BUT...

  • pepomntpatpepomntpat member

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    You and your DH, fancy dinner, wine and hotel.

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  • vlewis515vlewis515 member

    Babysitter, night out, new lingerie, stop with the attitude that you are old or worn out (because both are ridiculous, you're awesome!), remember that DH loves you and men are such wonderfully dumb beings that they don't care what you look like when they love you! Your DH would pick you over all the supermodels in the world and you know it and you need to own that!

    Go buy a new outfit that complements your figure, get your nails done, your hair done, and your make up on, go on a date with your man. And when you get home do him! 

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  • erinkate23erinkate23
    imagevlewis515:

    Babysitter, night out, new lingerie, stop with the attitude that you are old or worn out (because both are ridiculous, you're awesome!), remember that DH loves you and men are such wonderfully dumb beings that they don't care what you look like when they love you! Your DH would pick you over all the supermodels in the world and you know it and you need to own that!

    Go buy a new outfit that complements your figure, get your nails done, your hair done, and your make up on, go on a date with your man. And when you get home do him! 

    I love you ladies.  ;D

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  • Amanda78Amanda78 member
    imagepepomntpat:

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    You and your DH, fancy dinner, wine and hotel.

    I like this plan!

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  • xnbridexnbride member
    imagevlewis515:

    Babysitter, night out, new lingerie, stop with the attitude that you are old or worn out (because both are ridiculous, you're awesome!), remember that DH loves you and men are such wonderfully dumb beings that they don't care what you look like when they love you! Your DH would pick you over all the supermodels in the world and you know it and you need to own that!

    Go buy a new outfit that complements your figure, get your nails done, your hair done, and your make up on, go on a date with your man. And when you get home do him! 

    THIS 100%x1000 :-)

     

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  • Rossi17Rossi17 member
    Def pamper yourself- get your hair done, makeup, new clothes, and strut your stuff. You'll feel sexier... and in turn...
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  • sarahandeddiejune212008sarahandeddiejune212008 member
    We don't want another baby, but DD seriously wakes up everytime we have sex.  We've started skipping the foreplay and just having quickies so at least DH gets some enjoyment out of it.
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