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Just want to say you're awesome!

RandiDeeAnnRandiDeeAnn
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I'm not even pg yet, but I love that even though the same questions get asked here over and over again. You all are super supportive every. single. time. I love this board and can't wait to lose this baby weight, enjoy the bod for a little while, convince DH that the bod is awesome (wink wink), and get pg!! I'm so ready to get this VBAC ride going.
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  • holly321holly321 member
    I agree!  I am only 8 weeks pp, not sure if I am having number 2 yet, but hang around on here all the time.   I want a vbac so much, and people don't seem to understand the pain you feel (emotionally) from a c section, especially a traumatizing one and I feel like people who haven't been there really judge you.
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  • RandiDeeAnnRandiDeeAnn

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    I agree!  I am only 8 weeks pp, not sure if I am having number 2 yet, but hang around on here all the time.   I want a vbac so much, and people don't seem to understand the pain you feel (emotionally) from a c section, especially a traumatizing one and I feel like people who haven't been there really judge you.

    Absolutely!! I have a friend who made horrible decisions and ended up pg. Vaginal delivery. Then knocked again and had 2u1. Also a vaginal delivery!! Sunnyside up at that. I just felt like it was so unfair. Then when I was still so depressed over my c/s (and a horribly fussy baby that I still hadn't bonded with and wouldn't nurse well for a long time) she was just like "I don't see what the big deal is." I told her she wouldn't understand. Then a friend who had 3 c/s said it was all God's plan and happened for a reason. Yes God does allow certain things, but I'm still not convinced my c/s wasn't doctor/nurse stupidity and impatience.

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  • holly321holly321 member

    I had a csection due to a breech baby.  As my ob was telling me the bad news, I could read it on his face that he didn't agree I needed a csection, I know it is hospital policy. So I feel like I didn't really need it.

    My anesthesiologist didn't listen to me when I told her I wasn't numb, so my ob started cutting me open while I still could feel. So I had to get put under.  I was recently told that someone knew exactly what that was like, she wasn't numb for her episiotomy.  Huge difference in my opinion, lets ignore the most important fact, that she didn't have to miss her child's birth, then have major surgery to recover from.... There is something really traumatizing about having your abdomin cut in half when you can still feel the entire right side of your body. 

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  • cchill01cchill01 member

    LOL, this sounds like drunk love post - "I Looove You Guys"

    But, I have to agree.  It's between this board and the BFing board over who is the nicest, most polite and helpful. 

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  • iris427iris427 member

    Yes

    I'm really happy with how this board has turned out. 

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  • papagenapapagena member
    I agree.  :)  I love that everyone is so supportive of each other.
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  • tawillerstawillers member
    Ditto everyone else.  It's an emotional topic and I think this board helps give the support most of us need.
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  • RandiDeeAnnRandiDeeAnn
    imagecchill01:

    LOL, this sounds like drunk love post - "I Looove You Guys"

    But, I have to agree.  It's between this board and the BFing board over who is the nicest, most polite and helpful. 

    Oh my goodness!! That is so funny. I didn't even think it might go over that way. That's great. But no, it was a response to an earlier post where someone had asked something that has been asked a million times. Everyone just answered her like it was the first time. Just really made me smile.

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  • Jb&JbJb&Jb member

    I agree!  I like to think this board is an example of the way people on message boards all over the internet should behave.  Sadly it's in the minority!

    Lots of intelligent and helpful women over here!

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