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Orgasms

SazhrahSazhrah member
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I want one so bad!! It has been driving me absolutely batty that I haven't had one in about 2 months. Self manipulation just isn't working. :(
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  • ekfritscheekfritsche
    Sad I'm sorry to hear that!  I would be climbing the walls too... I hope things get better!
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  • cookierlr1cookierlr1
    Glad I am not the only one who can't have one! 6 weeks after birth is when we can safely have sex right? I am going to start counting down the days...
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  • helenejrhelenejr member
    right there with you!!! only it's been more like 4 months for me!!! i just can't get there during sex and poor hubby has tried everything.......... i'm going mental!
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  • SazhrahSazhrah member
    It sucks. DH is being such a sweetheart and even saying he will help and then leave the room but it just doesn't work that way. It used to be so darned easy.  *sigh*
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  • kenyakeetahkenyakeetah member
    right there with you, however its been through the whole pregnancy my sex drive went way down and just hasn't felt the same counting down the days until my lady parts are back to normal. So is DH I am sure
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  • JaqiDec04JaqiDec04 member

    imagehelenejr:
    right there with you!!! only it's been more like 4 months for me!!! i just can't get there during sex and poor hubby has tried everything.......... i'm going mental!

    This. Seriously. DH and I pretty much gave up on sex, because he felt like I was "faking it for him." I feel horrible, but seriously, its my body and hormones. Its not my lack of willingness. I can't wait till we can have sex. Like real sex.

    *sigh* 

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  • mesrmesr
    hmmm.  if dh and i haven't had sex in awhile, i start having orgasms in my sleep...  yet another reason i'm so happy not to be a man, because i don't have to wash the sheets each time this happens!
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  • sunshine336sunshine336 member
    Hmmm- this is a tough subject for me as it is since I can never orgasm during sex unless I "help myself out".  DH understands this and doesn't take it personal.  But I can't climax during sex right now either- I can't remember the last time I did- maybe before Christmas (and I usually humor DH once a week or so).  But, when I'm completely on my own is another story- I don't seem to have any problems then!
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  • MrsPBNJ0220MrsPBNJ0220
    Nothing is working for us either.  I don't have one just during sex without some help from myself, I've always been like this.  However that isn't even working, nothing is, I can't do anything to make it work.  If I do it on my own and for an extremely long time it works, but that's not super comfortable so I don't even try anymore.  Boo!!!! :(
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  • J9melissaJ9melissa member
    imagemesr:
    hmmm.  if dh and i haven't had sex in awhile, i start having orgasms in my sleep...  yet another reason i'm so happy not to be a man, because i don't have to wash the sheets each time this happens!
    Same here.
    I'm on complete pelvic rest...and it sucks...but then BAM I get one in the middle of the night.
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  • vigurlvigurl member

    imageJ9melissa:
    imagemesr:
    hmmm.  if dh and i haven't had sex in awhile, i start having orgasms in my sleep...  yet another reason i'm so happy not to be a man, because i don't have to wash the sheets each time this happens!
    Same here.
    I'm on complete pelvic rest...and it sucks...but then BAM I get one in the middle of the night.

     I am on pelvic rest but I am a bad patient so I cheat.  I just stop right before the "O" as my doc really wants this to be an inside baby until I hit 38 weeks.  But let me tell you as soon as I hit 38wks...its on! LOL 

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  • ashleah83ashleah83 member

    imagemesr:
    hmmm.  if dh and i haven't had sex in awhile, i start having orgasms in my sleep...  yet another reason i'm so happy not to be a man, because i don't have to wash the sheets each time this happens!

    This is kind of fantastic!!! I wish that would happen to me. Even when I dream about sex, it usually is not in a positive way - I usually wake up completely freaked out about who I was having sex with.

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  • scarlette+noirscarlette+noir

    Here's a great piece of advice...

    Go to bed bath & beyond, buy a back massager. Do with it what you will.. I'm just saying, before I got one I could never climax. And it still works as of last night during sexy time with DH ;) 

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  • Alfie02Alfie02
    I am wondering if an orgasm ticker would be appropriate? Confused
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  • tchubirubitchubirubi member

    imagemesr:
    hmmm.  if dh and i haven't had sex in awhile, i start having orgasms in my sleep...  yet another reason i'm so happy not to be a man, because i don't have to wash the sheets each time this happens!

    Me too!!! Finally! I always thought I was such a pervert... LOL

    To the OP: what exactly happens? Do you have trouble getting in the mood or is it that you get there, but can't get there? I mean, is the obstacle physical or psychological? Do you feel pain or disconfort? What if you got vibrating panties or something and avoided penetration altogether?

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  • walter7878walter7878
    I feel really guilty after I have one. That's usually not my style, but I feel kind of dirty, for some reason. I am also extra embarrassed about how I look lately. Not a sexy combination!
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  • J9melissaJ9melissa member
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    imageJ9melissa:
    imagemesr:
    hmmm.  if dh and i haven't had sex in awhile, i start having orgasms in my sleep...  yet another reason i'm so happy not to be a man, because i don't have to wash the sheets each time this happens!
    Same here.
    I'm on complete pelvic rest...and it sucks...but then BAM I get one in the middle of the night.

     I am on pelvic rest but I am a bad patient so I cheat.  I just stop right before the "O" as my doc really wants this to be an inside baby until I hit 38 weeks.  But let me tell you as soon as I hit 38wks...its on! LOL 

    Hahaha

    Unfortunately mine is due to Complete Placenta Previa. I don't want to risk hemorrhaging. :( Other wise I would probably cheat as well! LOL

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