TTC After a Loss

I thought I was having a good day. vent

I am so angry right now. I had a great day until DH called. He told me he was going to lose his job. (AGAIN). A little background: DH teaches 4th grade at a charter school, he started there Fall of 09 and got let go 6 weeks later. The brought him back April 10 and he has worked there ever since. Today a girl knocked over a bookshelf onto herself in his classroom. The school administration blamed him and said he did not follow proper procedures blah blah blah. He just called a few minutes ago to say he is leaving. (The school gets out at 3:15 and it is now 5pm). He got yelled at in front of other staff members and was basically told that he would not be asked back next year. I hate this for him and for us. He can't catch a break. This is like the 4th time he has lost a job. I hate MI and I hate our economy.

I guess we will be TTA forever because neither one of us can hold a real job. Yesterday was so good and today is awful. 

 

Thanks so much ladies for being so supportive. I feel like all I have to say is negative lately.

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BFP #1 12/29/10 EDD 08/29/11 Blighted Ovum 02/09/11 D&C 02/11/11

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Re: I thought I was having a good day. vent

  • I'm so sorry....big (((hugs))) to you and your DH.  Sending lots of lucky dust your way.
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  • I'm so sorry :(  

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  • big HUGS. bad days seem to be the trend today.

    i hope for you that this is just temporary. i know the feeling, my DH got laid of from 5 different jobs before we moved out here to NV. thinking of you, and sending big HUGS your way!

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  • Ugh I'm sorry!  I'm a teacher too and am getting laid off for the third time from the same school.... I am beyond annoyed that this summer I will be looking for a job again!  Charter schools are notorious around here for running things "their own way"...  hopefully he can find a job in a better environment soon!

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  • I am so sorry that he was laid off.  ((HUGS))
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  • I'm sorry Sad

    I hope your DH finds a job really soon.

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  • Thanks so much ladies. I appreciate it!
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  • Im so sorry.. I hope that things start looking up for you.
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  • *massive hugs*  I'm so sorry, sweetie.
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