October 2011 Moms

Can we have a Monday pity party/biitchfest??

My weekend sucked.  Crying  Saturday morning I felt like crap and just laid on the couch.  H went to get us lunch and somehow they totally screwed up my order so all I ate were fries.  Then he convinced me to get dressed so we could run some errands.  Our first stop was the bank but as we were leaving I start gagging and it takes everything in my not to puke in the parking lot so I make him take me home. 

Sunday I was supposed to go to my mom's house.  Start to go upstairs to take a shower only to end up having to puke.  My mom lives almost an hour away and I knew there was just no way I could make it.  So I call her crying telling her I can't come.  She's completely fine with it but I feel so bad.  I pretty much grew up just me and my mom and she is my best friend.  It killed me that she had to spend Mother's Day alone.  Thankfully, H stayed home with me instead of going to his parents so he could take care of me.  I puke several more times throughout the day even after taking Zofran. 

Seriously, am I going to be one of the lucky one who pukes for 9 months straight?!?!  I've tried Phenegran and Zofran but neither seem to make a difference.  I'm just so over it already.  I've also convinced myself that something is wrong with the baby b/c my stomach isn't growing at all.  A few weeks ago I got bigger and I can't button my pants but since then, nothing.  I know this is absolutely nuts but seriously my hormones are out of control right now. 

Ok, my pity party is over.  Feel free to throw yourself one!


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Re: Can we have a Monday pity party/biitchfest??

  • This is me too... I've been on diclectin since week 10.  It makes me horribly tired all the time so if I try to skip a dose to be able to funtion like a normal person I end up puking in random places. Even on the meds I still have obscene food and smell aversions and cannot stomach most of my favorite foods.   hoping it doesn't last till the end. 

    Smile Hope you feel better!!

     

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  • Everyone keeps telling me that the sicker you are the heather the baby will be b/c they are sucking the life out of you.  Hang in there.

    Can you do pickles for the nausea that helped me?

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  • I have three kids already. This is our fourth and final child. I am a full time student with a final in biology today. The professor is scatter brained and didn't give us any clues as to what in the world to study for this dang test.

    My time is valuable and in short supply. Give me a study guide!

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  • You read my mind.. I am so miserable today. I am so tired.. I felt great when I got up but just the 45 minute drive to work has worn me out. I just want to go home and go to sleep. Plus my boss is way too smiley today and i have a meeting with her. I cant deal with happiness today... I just want to sleep.
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  • My parents visited this weekend. They are on the exact opposite side of the political spectrum than where my husband and I sit, and even though it's been a "rule" that we leave politics and anything even loosely related to politics out of conversation, they just seemed to be in some sort of mood to insert snide little comments in far too frequently, and some of them were downright offensive. My husband finally had enough and asked for them to cut the comments out, and I backed him up, as he was right. They cleaned up their acts, but I know I'll have to address it further so that we don't have to deal with it again, and it's just frustrating and depressing and kind of personally embarassing.
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    My parents visited this weekend. They are on the exact opposite side of the political spectrum than where my husband and I sit, and even though it's been a "rule" that we leave politics and anything even loosely related to politics out of conversation, they just seemed to be in some sort of mood to insert snide little comments in far too frequently, and some of them were downright offensive. My husband finally had enough and asked for them to cut the comments out, and I backed him up, as he was right. They cleaned up their acts, but I know I'll have to address it further so that we don't have to deal with it again, and it's just frustrating and depressing and kind of personally embarassing.

    Sorry to hear it.  That would drive me crazy.  I am fortunate that my parents and ILs are totally on the same page with MH and I!!

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  • I am all about pity parties now.... Today i'm packing to leave my life, amazing husband, home, job, family, friends, and my puppies for the next 5 months. I'll be 10 hrs away and wont be able to come home for anything. I will only get to see my DH if im lucky every other weekend. I have no idea how were going to afford this. Not sure if the end result will be anywhere near what we want ( my baby to ever walk). I'm scared for what will happen to my dogs. I'm a firm believer in pets being like children you dont just get rid of them but my DH isnt sure he will be able to take care of them they way they deserve (he works 10 hrs a day). I will be so devastated if he cant keep them and im 10 hrs away... There our first babies. Thinking about that makes me wanna cry. I'm terrified of the test and surgeries I have to have. I'm terrified what this all means to my daughter and what this means for her life. I feel like everyone blames this on me I know its not true but I cant stop blaming myself. Maybe I could have done something different. I dont understand with us being basically no risk how this could of happened. Ugh
  • imagedadonet:
    I am all about pity parties now.... Today i'm packing to leave my life, amazing husband, home, job, family, friends, and my puppies for the next 5 months. I'll be 10 hrs away and wont be able to come home for anything. I will only get to see my DH if im lucky every other weekend. I have no idea how were going to afford this. Not sure if the end result will be anywhere near what we want ( my baby to ever walk). I'm scared for what will happen to my dogs. I'm a firm believer in pets being like children you dont just get rid of them but my DH isnt sure he will be able to take care of them they way they deserve (he works 10 hrs a day). I will be so devastated if he cant keep them and im 10 hrs away... There our first babies. Thinking about that makes me wanna cry. I'm terrified of the test and surgeries I have to have. I'm terrified what this all means to my daughter and what this means for her life. I feel like everyone blames this on me I know its not true but I cant stop blaming myself. Maybe I could have done something different. I dont understand with us being basically no risk how this could of happened. Ugh

    I am so sorry. Have you looked into organizations that can help you out? As far as the dogs go do you have any friends or family that can help you out over the next couple months? You might even be able to talk to a rescue and see if they can offer some options to help take care of the dogs. There might even be some bumpies on here that could offer some help. I am really sorry you are going through this.

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  • imagedadonet:
    I am all about pity parties now.... Today i'm packing to leave my life, amazing husband, home, job, family, friends, and my puppies for the next 5 months. I'll be 10 hrs away and wont be able to come home for anything. I will only get to see my DH if im lucky every other weekend. I have no idea how were going to afford this. Not sure if the end result will be anywhere near what we want ( my baby to ever walk). I'm scared for what will happen to my dogs. I'm a firm believer in pets being like children you dont just get rid of them but my DH isnt sure he will be able to take care of them they way they deserve (he works 10 hrs a day). I will be so devastated if he cant keep them and im 10 hrs away... There our first babies. Thinking about that makes me wanna cry. I'm terrified of the test and surgeries I have to have. I'm terrified what this all means to my daughter and what this means for her life. I feel like everyone blames this on me I know its not true but I cant stop blaming myself. Maybe I could have done something different. I dont understand with us being basically no risk how this could of happened. Ugh

     {{{{{HUGS}}}}}  I take back all of my complaining. . . what I'm dealing with in no way compares to what you are going through. 

     As for your pups, definitely look into to finding someone to help in the short term.  Either a possible temporary foster home through a local rescue or just friends and family pitching in.  Another option is to contact local doggie daycare places and see if any would be willing to donate a couple days a week to your pups while you are gone so they aren't alone so much.  If I lived near you I would help you in a heartbeat.  You could try the pets board on the nest, just word your post very carefully.  Explain you are just looking for temporary help.  Many of those girls are very generous and willing to help someone in need and they also are connected with tons of rescues that might be able to help. 


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  • imagerikachika:

    Everyone keeps telling me that the sicker you are the heather the baby will be b/c they are sucking the life out of you.  Hang in there.

    Can you do pickles for the nausea that helped me?

    Well, I hope not because I have had NO sickness at all... I hope that doesn't mean that my baby is NOT healthy!

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    imagerikachika:

    Everyone keeps telling me that the sicker you are the heather the baby will be b/c they are sucking the life out of you.  Hang in there.

    Can you do pickles for the nausea that helped me?

    Well, I hope not because I have had NO sickness at all... I hope that doesn't mean that my baby is NOT healthy!

    I've been told this a lot but I really think it's just a line to make you feel better.  Just like the whole it's good luck to have rain on your wedding day. 


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  • Sounds like this weekend/ today has been rough for everyone! I had my anatomy scan planned and it was going to be perfect. My husband had the day off, so we wouldn't have to lose out on money, and we have a big family party planned to announce the gender of the baby. There is only ONE Saturday in June that family is available and it was the day after the scan. THEN my boss announces she's leaving town and I have to work that Friday and Saturday, so anatomy scan canceled, plans ruined! I knew it was working too perfectly! haha Hope everyone feels better and their days improve!
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  • OP, I could have written your post myself. I still feel horrible I didn't get to spend mothers day with my mom. My anatomy scan is next week & my family wants to have a gender reveal party, but at this point I'll do good to not be throwing up when we find out the sex. I am constantly worrying something is wrong with the baby because my stomach is barely growing and I still haven't gained any weight. We haven't seen the baby since 10 weeks.
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    OP, I could have written your post myself. I still feel horrible I didn't get to spend mothers day with my mom. My anatomy scan is next week & my family wants to have a gender reveal party, but at this point I'll do good to not be throwing up when we find out the sex. I am constantly worrying something is wrong with the baby because my stomach is barely growing and I still haven't gained any weight. We haven't seen the baby since 10 weeks.
    Same here, sort of. I get to see my baby more often. But not much change in belly, no real weight gain, but I am now paranoid that I can't feel my guy! I usually feel him once a day, and I know at this point consistency isn't a norm, but still!
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