As I prepare to TTC again, I have started to really focus on finding a doctor/midwife (something about researching and fully convincing myself I will have a healthy pregnancy that I need to prepare for, helps me. Is that crazy? Ha.).
This might be a dumb question, but are there ultrasounds involved when you have a midwife that just does home visits/home births? I've gotten a good rec for a local midwife and am very interested, but it's really important to me to confirm that I am having a viable pregnancy early on. What about with using a birth center?
I would love to hear your experiences so I better know what to look for.
Sorry if this is dumb, just something I've been wondering
TIA!
Re: Potentially dumb question re: ultrasounds
First, I'm so sorry for your losses.
We use a birth center, and were using one throughout our first miscarriage. The first pregnancy, they didn't offer early ultrasound since we were charting and knew pretty exact dates. Once we lost the first baby and got pregnant again, they offered the early ultrasound, blood work, etc. right away, including an appointment with a midwife asap after we called to tell them I was pregnant again. I was impressed that they were very proactive the second time around, despite having a culture of low interventions whenever possible. Our birth center doesn't have ultrasound available on-site, so we do have to go to a local hospital anytime we need one.
Not sure about home birth midwives, though.
We'll always remember our angel baby: BFP 9/24/10, M/C 10/23/10 8w4d
Same excpet I am in Canada so she isn't just a HB or CNM MW
I'm sorry for your losses.
I also had an ectopic. Once you've had one, you're at a higher risk of having another. Because an ectopic pregnancy is life-threatening if left untreated, I would 100% want to be monitored with betas and u/s until a viable uterine pregnancy is confirmed. That can really be done by 7 weeks though, which is before a lot of providers would even see you for your first appointment.
I'd check with the midwife to see what she says, but definitely be sure you are monitored as soon as you get a positive home test.
GL with TTC. I hope you have a sticky baby soon.
TTC since 11/05...ectopic pg 4/08...early m/c 6/09...BFP 10/5/09!

Nora B...June 15, 2010...8lbs, 8oz...Med-free birth!
TTC #2 since 7/11...cycle #3 of Clomid + IUI = BFP

Malcolm...September 21, 2012...8lbs, 6oz...Another med-free birth!
I switched to my homebirth midwife at 36 weeks, so obviously, viability ultrasounds were not a concern at that point
But I know she typically refers patients who want a 20w ultrasound out to an external place. I assume she'll do the same if I were to get pregnant again and want a viability u/s.
In general, her care is so incredibly personalized that I trust completely that she'll understand any fears/baggage that I bring into the pregnancy, and adjust her care accordingly. I talked to one woman who used her after a loss as well, and she had weekly appointments throughout the first trimester, because that was what she needed to feel comfortable/confident. And my midwife had no problem doing that.
I would talk to the midwife ahead of time, explain your situation, let her know exactly what you'll want testing-wise after you see that second pink line again, and see what she has to say.
Mommy to DD1 (June 2007), DS (January 2010), DD2 (July 2012), and The Next One (EDD 3/31/2015)
(I mostly lurk on here, but I wanted to but in....)
This might not be a popular opinion, but I see nothing wrong with going to an OB who will do all the early scans, bw, etc. you need/want and then switching to a MW for the remainder of your pregnancy once everything is confirmed.
The birthing center I was going to before I moved didn't want to see me till 10-12 weeks even though I had just had a miscarriage 2 months previous. I really needed some assurance and I didn't want to wait till 10 weeks to find out it was all for naught.
I won't lie- I found a very technical savvy practice that I would never deliver with- but they had all the tech in office and were all about some testing.