WTF? Not even in the REALM of appropriate! (vent)

ekfritsche · May 2011

This is somewhat crass, but I'm fuming right now... Super Angry

So one of DH's "friends" from work (he's really more of an acquaintance, but he's one of those people who you talk to him for five minutes and suddenly you're BFFs, Hmm ) told H that he should make me get a c-section to and I quote "keep her p***y nice". He then proceeded to tell H that "it didn't really matter" because he could just "get another piece of ass" on the side. Um, excuse me?! I feel bad for this guy's wife.... But I seriously wanted to vomit after this.

Thankfully H stepped in before I throttled this guy. He smiled pleasantly and said "thanks for your uneducated and unprofessional opinion. Your supervisor is ****, right? I think I saw her in the hall a minute ago, excuse us." I'm hoping our LO gets his level head....

Sazhrah · May 2011

So awesome of your dh!!!

Syncronicity09 · May 2011

He said this in front of you? I mean its horrible that he said it at all, but in front of you? WTF?

ekfritsche · May 2011

MrsPrevost:
He said this in front of you? I mean its horrible that he said it at all, but in front of you? WTF?

Oh yes, I was standing right next to DH the whole time!

ChristinaMT4 · May 2011

I hope he's seriously disciplined for that, if not fired. What a creep.

EmmysMom08 · May 2011

Holy Crap!!! That's crazy someone would say that first off. Then say it in front of you! That guy needs to have some serious discipline put on him as well as a lesson on how to use his filter!

thomas2013 · May 2011

ekfritsche:

MrsPrevost:
He said this in front of you? I mean its horrible that he said it at all, but in front of you? WTF?

Oh yes, I was standing right next to DH the whole time!

That is INSANE!! What an awsome DH, go him lol. Atleast you know you are with a man and not an ass.

amberpro · May 2011

Oh my!! What an asss. High five to YH, though.

justme04 · May 2011

My DH would have kicked his a$$ before I had the chance to waddle over and do it myself!

That is so offensive!

TheStylish1 · May 2011

Good for YH. MH would have punched him before I could verbally rip him up one side and down the other Big Smile

gemmaschenk · May 2011

WOW!!! I would have said some choice words to a douche-bag like this. And the sad thing is his words are not only rude...but also not at all correct. Freaking dumba$$...seriously, just because a woman has a kid doesn't mean that her vagina never comes back from the childbirth experiance. It goes back to normal...and he is quite obviously not educated in any manner with regards to women. I hate stupid people, and am sorry that you had to hear that kind of crap from some stupid guy!

MommaA117 · May 2011

wth

ashleah83 · May 2011

I have such a bad temper, MH probably would have had to hold me off of him. I definitely punched a guy in the face last year after he made a comment about my "tits", which seems a lot less rude than this in retrospect.

I hope he gets fired too! Sexually harassing a co-worker's wife seems like it at least warrants a first warning.

allaura · May 2011

I have to agree with PPers that YH is a star for taking this guy down verbaly my DH would have torn him a new one on the spot.

bookkitten · May 2011

Holy cow! Cannot *believe* how ignorant some people are! Hooray for your husband! Hope this idiot's supervisor addresses such blatant sexual harrassment! (Keep us posted.)

TashaK2011 · May 2011

WOW what an idiot!!! way to go Hubby

leb2be · May 2011

that is insane. honestly- crazy...

way to go hubby though!

OctoberCAPA · May 2011

Gold star to your husband!!

I hope that guy gets fired.

tchubirubi · May 2011

Why, your DH is a gentleman and he kicks ass - at the same time, no less!!! This shouldn't be a vent, it shoud be a DH praise post. Lucky you!

sunshine336 · May 2011

That guy is a tool- even if he thought he was making a joke- he wasn't and he way overstepped any boundaries. Kudos to your H for handling it so well.