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how did you get over your ex

gns1988gns1988
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as much of an ass as my ex was to me at the end i have times were i miss him so much and get jealous that he is with some one new how did you get over your ex or how r you dealing with not being with him
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  • okballet16okballet16 member
    Antidepressants and a new boyfriend lol very sad but true. I've just now started to let my feelings for him go. He is such a bad person but I don't know what it is about him that I just couldn't get over. Just give it some time.
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  • Mrs.Keith2BMrs.Keith2B member
    I don't know your history, but try reminding yourself that he's not the person you thought he was. And now he's his new gf's problem, not yours anymore.
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  • achase123achase123
    I don't know that I was ever "truly" in love with XH.  I definitely fell out of love with him before we split up, because I wasn't even very sad when I finally kicked him out.  He had been so horrible to me and I had zero respect for him.  without respect you cannot have love.
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    It takes time and honestly, I had a harder time letting go of the "perfect life" I had imagined for us moreso than him.
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  • turtlesmomturtlesmom

    imageMrs.Keith2B:
    I don't know your history, but try reminding yourself that he's not the person you thought he was. And now he's his new gf's problem, not yours anymore.

     

    Ding ding!  There's a reason he's an ex.  Don't forget what those reasons are.

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  • ShanJosh777ShanJosh777 member
    imagetifanico:

    imagecbbc:
    It takes time and honestly, I had a harder time letting go of the "perfect life" I had imagined for us moreso than him.

    In my situation there was not a deal breaker that made it easier to get over him. it took me a VERY long time. 


    There was no 'deal breaker' for me either, although by the time I got out, I was pretty much over him and our relationship because all the love had faded away after so much time of having basically no communication, intimacy, etc. But like PP said, It's been harder to deal with getting over the loss of the future I thought we'd have, future children, future house, future fairy tale.  I just try to remind myself that it is likely that I WILL have that future someday, even if it's with someone else and not the way I originally planned.

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