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Bump break

KristysRedBarnKristysRedBarn
in TTC After a Loss 6 Months+

I think it's time for me to step away from the bump.  We are done ttc, it's not going to happen for us.  The only option left is IVF with pgd and it's not the right option for us, nor can we afford the $15-30,000 for one shot, and they are giving us about a 5% chance of it working.  We are talking about permanent b/c and what will work best for us (we feel like it would be irresponsible to have an oops pg at this point), we won't make that decision for a few months though.

So, while I love you ladies dearly and care for all of you, it's time to step away for awhile and figure out what life looks like without ttc.  I will continue to hang out on the MM board on the Nest.  If we're not FB friends and your interested in being a friend with me, PM me and I'll add you as a friend.  Hopefully I'll be ready to check back in with you ladies occasionally after some time to heal has past.

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  • EntropicEponaEntropicEpona member

    I love you so much, Kristy. I can understand everything you're saying, but I'll miss you immensely. Let me go grab you on Facebook so that we can at least stay in touch a bit.

    {{{HUGS}}}

    12 long, hard years of TTC-
    Miscarriages, losses, lots of treatments & drugs & IVF


    Natural BFP (WTF?!) - 06/04/11 ~ lots of complication and drama, but sweet baby Adele born 02/07/12!

    BFP #million -another girl for us! EDD - 05-08-15 (but will come early)

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  • Rawr08Rawr08
    Big hugs.  I sure will miss you around here.  I look forward to your random check ins in the future.  I wish you and DH nothing but the best.
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  • Olive44Olive44 member
    I totally understand your need for a break.  We will miss you. 
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  • bbhalphenbbhalphen member
    Girl, I completely understand.  Thinking of you and sending lots of love!
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  • jennsadye1979jennsadye1979

    While I 100% understand your need to go, please know you will be so greatly missed. You are and always have been such an amazingly sweet, wonderful warm person, and you are such an asset to the TTCAL community.

    ((Huge Hugs))

    Miss you long time sweetie. I hope this break brings you much deserved peace.

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  • jolieandscottjolieandscott
    I understand completely. Big (((hugs))) and thank yous for all of your encouragement.
    BFP #1: 5/3/10 Natural MC: 5/11/10 BFP #2: 3/24/11 C/p: 3/29/11 BFP #3: 5/17/11 C/P: 5/20/11 BFP #4: 11/13/11 Daisypath Anniversary tickersImage and video hosting by TinyPic imageImage and video hosting by TinyPic ~*~Congrats to my TTCAL buddies toshbosh233 & clairenmonique, EDDs 4/2011; bekahjen, EDD 5/2011; MCH77, EDD 7/2011; HokieMomma, EDD 8/2011; shanna82, EDD 9/2011; Rachel4127, EDD 10/2011~*~
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  • heathergirl67heathergirl67 member
    I hope you come back and I hope that while you're gone you get to heal. You are very loved.
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  • hoping&waitinghoping&waiting
    I hope your break helps you find peace and healing.  Know that you are much loved and will be missed.  I wish you much happiness down the road.
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  • KelinandKevinKelinandKevin member

    I am sorry to see you go, but I do understand.  This is all so hard and sometimes having to think about it everyday is exhausting.  Enjoy your break and please stay in touch on FB!  Lots of love to you!

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  • mdm2137mdm2137
    Big hugs, Kristy. We will miss you around here.

    BFP 12/18/2009. HB 1/4/2010. NO HB 1/18/2010. D&C 1/19/2010
    April 2011 IUI #1 BFN. High FSH and other issues.
    May 2011 Chose to build our family through adoption
    September 2011 Actively waiting for a match
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  • swanckswanck
    So much love to you.
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  • suntotosuntoto member

    Kristy,

    You have to do what is best for your heart.  My heart breaks for you.  I wish there was some way that I could make it all better for you.  Hugs, always and I will keep in touch with your through FB.  

    Forever buddy to Angelica; Natural Miscarriage Jan. 2008 @ 11 weeks; 2 years of BFFN's; DX: Unexplained IF (RE thinks IF is due to tubal issues); IUI #1 & 2= BFFN; IUI#3 = BFP, resulted in Cornual ectopic pregnancy; IUI #4 - 6 =BFFN; Our next endeavor... IVF. 1 grade AA embryo transferred on 4-23-2011 and 5 frosties. BFP Abby born 1/5/2012

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  • GuppyAmyGuppyAmy member
    *BIG HUGS* I totally understand Kristy but will totally miss seeing you around. Lots of love.
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  • ColindaPColindaP member
    ((hugs)) I can't say I blame you at all, hon.
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  • CaroleeCarolee member
    Big (((HUGS)))
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  • cutebride73cutebride73 member
    ((((hugs)))))  I completely understand.  I am just so sorry that this is the way things are. 
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  • butterfly843butterfly843
    Sending big hugs your way. I will miss you on the board, but understand your need for a break. I will continue to keep you in my thoughts.

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  • LilMaggsLilMaggs member
    *hugs*  We'll miss you.
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  • Fififa21Fififa21 member
    Huge hugs Kristy. You will be missed. I hope your break helps and is able to bring some peace and healing to your heart <3

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    BFP #2 10/19/10 CP 10/27/10 (4w6d) EDD 6/30/11
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    BFP #4 12/10/12 MMC 1/14/13 (9w3d) D&C 1/15/13 EDD 8/16/13 

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  • mlmtggmlmtgg
    many hugs to you. you know how to find me if you need anything!
    m/c#1 07/16/08 (11 weeks), m/c#2 10/10/08 (8 weeks). and then nothing since except every test possible (no answers). IUI#1 and #2: BFNs Super lucky to be buddies with Peetie. Our out of nowhere, surprise DD born 5/29/2011
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  • Court1Court1
    Love you sweetie
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  • millejj1millejj1 member
    Big hugs! I'm so sorry that you have to deal with this. I understand your need for a break though. Please know that we'll be thinking of you and you're more than welcome anytime.
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