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DH forgot my birthday :(
My brother called me last night after midnight to wish me a happy birthday. DH just sat there and was like, wait what day is it? I thought I had the weekend.... now today he hasn't even wished me a happy birthday or had the kids say happy birthday to me. Its basically a regular saturday, get things done around the house. I never expect much from him but this hurts 
just needed to get that off my chest.
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Re: DH forgot my birthday :(
yup, dinner with friends. It aint happening
Absolutely this. Go get a pedi, or to Starbucks with a nice book to have some down time. My DH forgot my birthday one time (he'd been working 7 days/wk) but he felt SO bad and was very apologetic. Sounds like your DH isn't even trying, and that's not very kind, esp. when he knows you'd like to do.
I don't remember WHAT you used to post but I do remember it always left me thinking "Man, I wish they would get counseling/she would move on" This just adds to that feeling for me!
Sorry he's a douche -- I hope you are able to have some what of a Happy Birthday!
This. Sorry he forgot and I hope you're able to take some time to yourself and enjoy your day despite his thoughtlessness!
Happy Birthday to you! I am so sorry your H is an asshat. You really do deserve so much better, I wish you believed this yourself.
Go celebrate. Do something nice for you. :-)
Christmas 2011
Today is my birthday too. My husband remembered, but despite telling me he was going to plan something (it's my 40th) I ended up having to plan dinner with friends tonight at the last minute. He also didn't get me a card or gift or anything. Then he's sick this weekend (a f'ing cold... wimp) and we had to cancel our/my plans.
I left and got a mani/pedi and left the kids with him this afternoon. He did go out and get a cake and hats and plates while I was gone. Not enough....
Happy Birthday!
Oh, hells no....Sorry your DH is such a jerk
HAPPY BIRTHDAY 
FWIW, I always have HIGH expectations for my bday since I go all out for everyone else's bdays. I make it clear what I want/ expect. If DH did nothing, he would be signing some annullment papers!!
Our Angel Boy- m/c in 2007 @ 9wks due to Trisomy 17
Thanks all. I had a baby shower to go to for bit this afternoon so that took up some of the day. While I was gone he realized he didn't actually MISS my birthday he just got it mixed up with yesterday or something like that so then he was mad at me for a while (I guess I made him feel bad some how) Not really sure how that works. While I was gone he went out and got me a present(not the one I sent him a link to a month ago) and said we will do something nice next weekend. In his defense I know he is sick but I really would have just loved a really sincere happy birthday and maybe even a home made card from the boys. He was feeling pretty crappy tonight so the boys and I went to my brothers house for dinner with my family and I my SIL was able to get a couple jabs in about how I should be watching the boys better so that was nice. I was able to end the night prepping for a birthday cake I am making for my neighbor tomorrow. That should turn out pretty nice though. Well off to bed so I can pretend today never happened.