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first baby and I lost it

BlondeNProud1990BlondeNProud1990
in Miscarriage/Pregnancy Loss
I was 6 weeks preg and found out tues I was loosing my baby. My hormones on friday were 2815 and went I went tot he dr tues they dropped to 2400. I froze when she said they dropped. I got off the phone and began to cry. I know this happens and I wasn't far along but I was so excite, I was very stressed with work though. I ended up quitting my job because they wanted me to come into work, I told them I am loosing my baby and I'm emotionally a mess, I am not coming in I quit. My fiancee and I are going to try again once the dr says its okay. I go back to the dr Tuesday to see how much my hormones have dropped. I dont cry when Im with family and friends but when I'm alone i cry, I just want my baby.
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  • dawnrob5dawnrob5 member
    Im so sorry to hear about your loss. it is just so painful. when we found out it was truly the most difficult thing i have ever experienced in my life. i'm glad you decided to take care of yourself and take time away from work. much love to you 
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  • BlondeNProud1990BlondeNProud1990
    thank you, ya I kno I wasnt far along but I was so excited and to hear the word of loosing it and the pain im going through right now emotionally and physically its so hard, my job stressed me out a lot so quitting and moving to where the dads from in a small town is nice and we are going to try again
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  • zingylimezingylime
    ((hugs)) to you... take good care  - no matter how far along you feel the pain of loss.  I hope you find a path that is right for you.
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  • nursemama2benursemama2be
    I am so sorry for your loss. My m/c was our first baby also. If you feel better around your friends and family then stay surrounded by them, they love you. Take care of you.
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  • meeko1985meeko1985
    I am sorry for your loss.  I lost my first baby too, and am still so sad about everything.  This board helped me A LOT with dealing with my emotions, knowing what to expect, and talk about what happened to me.

    BFP#1 EDD 11/8/11 - MC @ 9w6d, 4/15/11 we said goodbye
    BFP#2 DD arrived 5/7/12
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  • evaslechtaevaslechta
    I am so terribly sorry. I may be experiencing a mc, and this is my first as well. I am glad that you are taking care of yourself, that is very important. A job is a job, but your life, happiness, and health is what matters. I can empathize with how you are feeling. My possible mc has yet to be confirmed, but I am already grieving. I just feel it and hope to God that my gut is wrong. Its a very heartbreaking experience, so lean on those close to you. I will be thinking of you! Keep us posted on how you and your fiancee are doing.
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