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i finally let go...

MADforever2009MADforever2009 member
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Not sure if its the medication, the fact that im adjusting to my new schedule or what but i feel like yesterday was a break through for me.  Both boys were in meltdown mode the place was destroyed and i was OK.  I relaxed (no anxiety attack) and once they were both asleep on me  looked around at the mess and thought...no biggie.  The normal thoughts of "oh my gosh, i have to do XYZ, hurry up and go to sleep boys." was gone.  Mark came home and asked if i wanted him to take a boy and i said, "no, im happy."

so he took a pic...

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thanks for all your support ladies.  Its still hard and i think im still struggling but i think im on the up and up (for now)  Wink

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  • nikinikininenikinikinine member
    awesome pic! So happy you are feeling better mama!
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  • leviandlandensmomleviandlandensmom
    How fricken cute! Love it :) So glad you're doing better.
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  • kaiteediditkaiteedidit member
    Cute picture! I so miss the days where I could get both babies to curl up on my chest and nap, enjoy those babies!
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  • AlishaMayAlishaMay
    I'm so glad to hear that you're feeling better.  That is such a sweet picture - thanks for sharing!  Keep on truckin' mama - you're doing great!!!
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  • babyhyembabyhyem member

    Doesn't it feel nice to let go? "Sometimes you just gotta say, what the f*&!" (Did I just date myself)?

    And guess what? You are still SUPER MoM!

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  • SpinningJessSpinningJess
    What a sweet picture!!  So glad you are doing better.  I had a melt down a couple days ago, just feel so awful not being able to keep up with the basics of house chores and caring for my 1.5 year old.  These twins are sucking the life out of me!  Day after melt down, I look around and somehow things just aren't quite as bad as I thought they were the day before.  20 minutes of picking up and vacuuming yesterday and everything is peachy!
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  • SpinningJessSpinningJess

    imageleviandlandensmom:
    How fricken cute! Love it :) So glad you're doing better.

    How are YOU doing?

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  • MADforever2009MADforever2009 member
    imageSpinningJess:

    imageleviandlandensmom:
    How fricken cute! Love it :) So glad you're doing better.

    How are YOU doing?

    yes... How are u feeling? Get a break yet?
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  • tmbuchmanntmbuchmann

    Someone asked me the other day if I wanted to hire a nanny, and I looked at them and said, "Absolutley not, I love spending time with my kids, but I could use a housekeeper" I've let the house go, that isn't as important to me as my children, but in the background my house is a disater and we're learnign to live with it.

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  • OrangeSmokeOrangeSmoke member

    Yeah!!! You got THERE!

    I remember the first time I thought - hey I got this.  Honestly, I never looked back.  Sometimes I still feel nervous being around the boys alone, but that was a huge turning point for me.

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  • Cyndi&MattCyndi&Matt
    yay!  just intime to enjoy the weekend ....  i still need  to learn to let go sometimes but atleast i feel like i got it under control sometimes
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