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July 2011 Moms
aichandaich
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I love/hate DH/SO because...
aichandaich
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I love DH because we got a call at 8pm that our glider rocker was in (the last piece for the nursery)... 30 seconds later he was all giddy and 5 minutes later he was on his way to the store (that closes at 9pm)
Why do you love/hate your husband/so right now?
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Re: I love/hate DH/SO because...
I love DH because he is a good Daddy and works his @ss off so that I can be a SAHM.
I hate that he is in a job where he is gone M-F. I reminded him the other day he's missing out on the years DD actually likes us. In 10 years I'll be the evil shrew and he'll be an ATM.
DD1, Kathleen 9/15/2007
I love DH because he helps me to keep a calm head about pregnancy complications and helps me look at them in a medica/academic way instead of an emotion "omg why am I broken" kind of way.
I hate that he doesn't have the same nesting urge that I do right now. I have to keep prodding him to do things in the nursery because he figures we have tons of time left. I keep having to remind him that if we go to 40 weeks he only has 22 days off to do stuff (including childbirth classes, visiting his family, etc.)
House / Baby blog
love him because he works 7 days a week.. and doesnt complain..
hate him because he "thinks" his sickly/elderly mother is coming to stay with us during the last weeks of my high risk (and final) pregnancy and first weeks of baby's birth..ummm nooo way buddy!
Jess & Adam, married 2009, precious Audrey born in 2011. BFP 1/6/13, 6-wk MMC discovered at 9 wks 2/11/13. D&C 2/18/13, second D&C 4/23/13 for retained placenta.
BFP 8/24/13!! EDD 5/1/14, delivered healthy and sweet Zoey Leanne on 5/5/14 by repeat c-section.
I love my DH because even though he works insanely hard all week long he still comes home every evening with a kiss for me, wants to cuddle and spend time together, and helps around the house and yard.
Also - he recently started kissing my belly every night and it totally melts my heart.
love him because he worked all day, came home, made dinner, bathed DS, brushed his teeth, got his pj's on and said his prayers with basically no help from me.
That makes me sound lazy huh? hah.
I love my DH because he busts his butt to provide for our family, he puts up with my crazy ass, he loves his kids and is an awesome daddy, I can tell him anything and know he loves me no matter what, he spoils me rotten, and makes me smile everyday, he's never talked down to me, raised his voice at me, cursed at me, or called me names.
I hate that he's been so insensitive to my GD lately. I would love to have sympathy and a shoulder to cry on but he constantly reminds me that I only have to deal with it for 9 weeks while others deal with it their whole lives. And I KNOW this, but I still want his sympathy.
It's really hard being pregnant and not being able to fulfill your cravings. And I miss cereal so much I could cry sometimes. And I constantly feel selfish for feeling that way when I do only have 9 more weeks to deal with it.
I love DH for so many reasons:
I love DH because he's going to be a wonderful father. I know this because he has been an amazing husband for seven years and just gets better with age.
Sometimes I get frustrated at DH because I'd like him to be more enthused in the preparations for our baby. I want an opinion on paint, a choice to be made on essentials, or to get excited about the things that need to be done and not just what will come in July.
I love DH because he's constantly thanking me for going through what I have in the past year and a half with pregnancies. And he's so excited about this baby and he talks to LO all the time.
I hate DH because he lacks time management skills and it drives me insane. He does things on "his time" which if he doesn't get to something that I want done, it doesn't bother him he just says "I'll do it later this week." And later this week never comes because he is either tired or has something else to do. I'm even more annoyed because Wed, Thurs and tonight he had things to do after work so I've been home alone (and it's not work-stuff he's doing).
I love DH because he is a very hard worker. He is a PhD student studying biochemistry and his workload is just insane. He consistently works 10-12 hour days and weekends--but is still very much a part of our home life. I don't feel forgotten or taken for granted.
I hate DH because he snores, terribly, and I wake up several times throughout the night to tell him to "sleep on his side". Grumble.
I love Dh becase even though he works ridiculously hard, he'll still rub my back/feet when he gets home!
I hate that he works 60 hours a week. It will be cut to around 45 when DD gets here though, thank God. I would rather take the pay cut than have DD never see her dad!
I love DH because he is so patient with my crazy talk about the baby and my anal retentiveness of planning 5 years down the road, yet can't figure out what to eat for dinner in 5 minutes!
I also love his humor because no matter the situation he comes up with these quips that make me stop, think, then has me in fits of laughter...usually with tears coming out of my eyes!
He also just gets me...no matter what!