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Update to Heart Defect found at 20week u/s

The doctor was able to find two problems with LO's heart. One is called VSD - Ventriculuar Septal Defect which is basically a hole in his heart and the other is DORV - Double Outlet Right Ventricle which means that the aorta atery that is supposed to be pushing out oxygen rich blood to the rest of his body is mixing with the oxygen poor blood from the left through the hole and not pushing out enough oxygen rich blood, making the aorta much smaller than it should be. 

He will have to have open heart surgery after he is born. We are not able to see the Perinatologist for another 3 weeks because I need to be 24 weeks for them to get a better view of his heart. At that appointment they will be doing a fetal echocardiogram to get a better idea of what his heart looks like. We will know more about what to expect after his birth when we talk to this specialist.

We have been reassured that his problem his fixable and he is perfectly safe right where he is at, just the real risks are when he is born. He is measuring right a track as far as everything else goes and he does not seem to have any chromosomal disorders that often go along with heart defects. We are choosing not to do the amniocentesis.

Thank you everyone for your thoughts and prayers throughout this. I feel like I have aged 100 years.

Re: Update to Heart Defect found at 20week u/s

  • continued T+Ps!


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  • Good luck! My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

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  • Good luck sweetie! I am glad that you have a diagnosis, the waiting is the worst.

    I have a good friend whose daughter had a severe and rare heart defect -- her Dr's said the same thing -- when baby is in the womb, that is the safest place, because mom does so much work to make baby grow strong.  My prayers are with you!

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  • Thoughts and prayers...I am glad you are in good hands!
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  • ((((HUGS))))  Good luck.  You and your LO will be in my thoughts.
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  • I am so glad that they were able to give definitive answers. What a blessing that they can form a game plan and you know exactly where to deliver to get him the best possible care. Continued T&P's.
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  • Keeping those T&Ps coming your way!  Stay strong, LO!!

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  • That is a lot to take in at once. I am sorry you are going through this but am glad that there is a definite diagnosis with a plan. Continued T and P!
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  • I will be thinking of you and your lo. :::hugs:::
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  • T&P to your LO and you.
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  • Many T&P your way... I know its not the news you wanted to hear... but it is good that it can be fixed and will get to live a long happy life after... ((HUGS)) to you and DH right now
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  • Continued thoughts and prayers for you guys!
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  • I will be thinking of you and your LO.  It sounds like you're in good hands and the defect can be fixed.  Hope your next scan give you more information.
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  • I'm glad you have a plan and will know what to expect. ((hugs))
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  • Big ((((hugs)))).  I'm glad you now have a definite diagnosis so you can come up with a treatment plan.  Hopefully the Peri will give you some guidance on your next steps.  I'll keep you and your LO in my T&Ps. 
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  • Continued thoughts and prayers for you and your LO.
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  • Many T&Ps for you and the LO.
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  • Lots more thoughts and prayers headed your way.  You're doing a good job, Mommy, keeping that baby safe.  HUGS
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  • Thoughts and prayers that everything will be ok.  I just wanted to post because I have a coworker whose granddaughter was born last year with a hole in her heart and needed surgery 3 days after birth.  They knew throughout the pregnancy that it would be required and she was born at Childrens Hospital in Philly.  The entire process was managed very well by the hospital and staff and although it was rough for a week or so, she is now a happy and healthy toddler.  The doctors are amazed at her progress because she actually started walking before she was one! So, I am sorry you have to go through the stress and no one wants to watch their baby have surgery, but most likely all will be well in the end!
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  • I will send you thoughts and prayers!
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  • Lots of positive thoughts for you and your little one.
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  • I'm sorry you're going through this stress, but I'm glad you got some answers. Sending thoughts and prayers your way!
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  • I'm so sorry you are going through this.  DH's cousin's daughter was diagnosed with a heart problem in utero as well.  I don't remember exactly what it was, but she needed surgery right after birth (maybe even the same day - can't remember) and needed two other surgeries.  They knew before she was born that she would need 3.  I believe she has to be on medication forever, but she is just fine now.  Just as active as any other 8 year old girl.  I just wanted to share a positive outcome story with you to help you feel a little better. 
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  • My friend's son had the issue with the hole in his heart and for some reason they didn't know until a few months after he was born. He had surgery and now everything is great and he is a perfect little 2-year-old!
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  • I am so sorry you are facing this, but it sounds very hopeful. T&Ps for continued good progress and a successful surgery after he is born.
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  • imagetiffanysbride:
    I am so glad that they were able to give definitive answers. What a blessing that they can form a game plan and you know exactly where to deliver to get him the best possible care. Continued T&P's.

    My exact thoughts as well... T&P

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  • ((HUGE HUGS))

    I'm so glad the doctors were able to diagnose the problem & come up with a great plan to fix it.  Best wishes for a smooth & safe resolution to your LO's heart troubles.   

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  • Thoughts and prayers are coming your way.  It sounds like you have an amazing team of doctors that are going to take great care of your LO.
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  • (((hugs)))  I'm glad you've found good doctors and I hope they continue to take good care of you and your LO.  T&P your way.
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