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Is there such a thing as a civilized divorce?

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Re: Is there such a thing as a civilized divorce?

  • Wild_flower25Wild_flower25 member

    yes, if you're both mature.  Mine was relatively easy, although there were some stressful moments.  But I think if both of you are ok with it and over the other person, there is no reason it can't be civil.

    The ex and I worked out a lot of stuff outside the courtroom.  There was one issue that had to be decided by the judge, but I think thats pretty good. 

     

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  • julia0402julia0402

    I had one.  Not to say there weren't tense moments or arguments, but we didn't use lawyers or mediators and were able to write a parenting plan on our own.  I'd say it's definitely doable but depends on the situation...

    I wrote these posts about it, if you want personal stories...

    https://unexpectedlyexpecting1.blogspot.com/2011/01/uncontested.html

    https://unexpectedlyexpecting1.blogspot.com/2011/02/signed-sealed-delivered.html

    Good luck to you! 

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  • Dreamsicle23Dreamsicle23 member
    Yes.  I was divorced and it was very quick, cheap, easy and civil.  We did not have a child though.
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