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TBLilyRose
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WTF Wednesday
TBLilyRose
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WTF lawn people why must you weed whack at precisely my son's naptime?
WTF old people, why do you biitch about stuff that shouldn't even bother you?
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Re: WTF Wednesday
WTF headache why wont you go away!
WTF hairstylist why can you just do what i ask....now im stuck with this haircut until it grows out and that is going to take forever....you suck!
WTF co-worker! Thanks for blaming your fvck up on me! Thankfully our boss likes me more and you will get what is coming to you.
also WTF weather I am sick of this rain.
WTF guy tailgating me in his POS car, while i'm doing 75. Get in front of me, and tap the brakes? Betcha didn't think we'd get off at the same exit, and work in the same complex. I'll be seeing you.
wtf teenage neighbor. Must you REALLY play basketball before you get on the bus at 630 am.
(yes I realize a lot of you are going wtf to me for still sleeping at 630...,we're late sleepers around here..hehehe)
Wtf people at work who still use doubled up styrofoam/paper cups multiple times a day, everyday for your coffee! The company provided every employee with their own mug so that we wouldn't produce so much waste. Is it that hard to rinse a mug out?
WTF H?! Why do you have to rain on my parade on my first Mother's Day and tell me that I will be going to the Mother's Day lunch by myself with LO with my family while you take your mom out to lunch?!
Seriously? How do I get it through his head that that idea is NOT ok?
Plan a day out for yourself on Father's Day. Tell him since he didn't want to spend Mother's Day with you and LO that you're treating yourself and oops, just happened to schedule it on Father's Day. Then he can take LO out with his family while you rest and get pampered.
That sounds like a great idea. The problem is, he flakes out on MY family gatherings all the time which is starting to cause a rift between him and my family. They are starting to resent him and feel like he doesn't respect them. It's been an ongoing issue since the day we got married. It's like pulling teeth to get him to go to a family dinner. I hate having to be in the middle all the time. I just want us all to be together!
Why does it have to be one or the other with him, I wonder? Do your parents live close enough that you could do brunch with one set and dinner with another? Or do something on Saturday with one and Sunday with the other?
WTF friend on fb- Just because you turn your camera sideways it does NOT make you picture look artistic. It makes it look like you do not know how to take a photograph. Thankyou.
Both our families live in the same town. He's watching JJ on Saturday while I go and get some things done, so I suggested he take his mom out to lunch while he's watching JJ. That way we would only have to do one thing on Sunday. He made up some BS about how he already planned to take his mom out to lunch on Sunday and take me and JJ out to dinner that night. I know he's full of it because he didn't even know what day Mother's Day was on. So now he's set on that.
It's really not just about it being Mother's Day. He is just so self-centered and selfish when it comes to family (particularly my family). He feels like they all need to respect his space and let him be him. That would be fine if he actually made an effort to get to know them, but he doesn't. He only has anything to do with them when it will benefit him. I should blame myself, I married him. But we had a discussion before we got married about how my family is everything to me, he said he understood that and that compromises would have to be made. I see no compramise from him. This is actually a very serious issue in our marriage and I feel like I'll never win with him. I even considered moving out of state with him so I didn't have to deal with turning my family down anymore.
WTF, baby? 3:30 am is NOT the time for loving smiles and giggles. You used to be so much better at this!
:::butting in::::
My H is the same way. Unfortunately for him he has alot of other selfish tendencies and I ended up leaving him. I hope y'all can work it out, but my H never got it, so now we're gone.
Wow, this is bizarre. I could totally have wrote this post. It causes a huge rift between my family too. If you ever want to commiserate, PM me!