Pregnant after a Loss

Been MIA- T&P for my cousin (still born mentioned)

So on the 21st my cousin and his wife found out at 37 weeks that their little baby boy Tyler no longer had a heart beat. :(  They were trying for 5 years to get pregnant!!!!!  They were almost there and went in for a regular check up and could not find the HB and was sent to the hospital where it was confirmed he was gone.  She delivered him the next morning, and they found that there was a kink in his cord so he was not getting any nutrients or blood flow.  He lost weight then his heart stopped.  It had to have happened in the last 2 weeks because she had an U/S about then and he was fine!!

 This morning I went to his services and tried so had to stay strong for them.  It was very hard.  I know the pain I felt finding out at almost 11 weeks and I can not even imagine their pain at 37 weeks.   My heart breaks for them so any T&P's are very much appreciated!!  TIA!!

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  • My heart breaks for them. So sad :(
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  • How awful! I'm so sorry.  My thoughts and prayers go out to your cousin and his wife.
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  • Many T&Ps to them. 
    7 mm/c
    APS, hetero factor v leiden & MTHFR
    bfp #1 - 12.11.07, edd 8.14.08, mm/c 1.21.08 (10w4d)
    bfp #2 - 4.4.08, edd 12.3.08, mm/c 5.14.08 (11w)
    bfp #3 - 8.3.08, edd 4.15.09, mm/c 9.17.08 (10w)
    bfp #4 - 1.15.09, edd 9.26.09, mm/c 2.16.09 (8w2d)
    bfp #5 - 6.16.09, edd 2.25.10, mm/c 7.23.09 (9w)
    bfp #6 - 8.12.10, edd 4.27.11, mm/c 9.16.10 (8w1d)
    one more try -> bfp #7 - 2.11, our miracle baby boy arrived 10.11
    ttc again -> bfp #8 - 5.3.13, edd 1.13.14, mm/c 5.30.13 (7w3d)
    bfp #9 - 9.23.13, our miracle baby girl arrived 5.29.14

  • That is heartbreaking.  I can't even imagine.
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  • imageFroggy76:
    That is heartbreaking.  I can't even imagine.

     

    Me either!!  :(  They had the baby shower for him and his room was all ready for him to come home.  They even had his diaper bag packed!!  Very sad day today!

     Thanks everyone!!

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    Missed M/C discoverd at 10w5d measuring 6w6d on 12/3/10 said goodbye 12/12/10 EDD 6/26/11 "this too shall pass"

    DS Born 9/29/2005 via c-section (breech)
    BFP #3 3/7/11 - EDD 11/17/11
    Betas: @14dpo-182 @18dpo-854!! @21dpo-3124!!!
    3-27-11 150 BPM!!!!
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  • That's awful, I'm so sorry they are going through this. T&Ps for them and your family.
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  • How tragic. T+Ps to them.


    BFP #1 via IUI ~ L (Fatal Birth Defect) 4/7/10
    BFP #2 via IUI ~ m/c
    BFP #3 via cancelled IUI ~ C (2lb 3oz; HELLP) 5/16/11
    BFP #4 via the natural (free!) way ~ E (8lb 11oz) 9/13/12
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    That's awful, I'm so sorry they are going through this. T&Ps for them and your family.

    Thanks!!  And to you and yours also!!

    Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers
    Missed M/C discoverd at 10w5d measuring 6w6d on 12/3/10 said goodbye 12/12/10 EDD 6/26/11 "this too shall pass"

    DS Born 9/29/2005 via c-section (breech)
    BFP #3 3/7/11 - EDD 11/17/11
    Betas: @14dpo-182 @18dpo-854!! @21dpo-3124!!!
    3-27-11 150 BPM!!!!
    He's a BOY!!!! Kieran Thomas

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  • Oh that's terrible - my heart is breaking for them.  Many T&Ps to them and to your entire family.
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  • This happened to good friends of ours - it is so, so sad.  I am so sorry for your family - healing T&Ps heading your way.
  • I am so sorry - T&P to youm your cousin and your family.
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  • My heart breaks for them, she is living the unspoken nightmare we all are too afraid to think or talk about. I will add her to my prayer list.
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  • My heart breaks for them.  I just said a prayer for them.  Big (((((hugs))))).
    BFP#1 4/17/10...EDD 1/6/11...M/C 5/28/10 BFP#2 11/19/10...EDD 8/4/11 Squeaker born 7/30.
  • Many T&P to your cousin. My heart breaks for them <3
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  • That is heartbreaking.  Many thoughts and prayers to them.
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  • I am so sorry to hear about your cousin. My thoughts and prayers go out to them during this difficult time. *hugs*
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     BFP #3 4.13.11 EDD 12.18.11 m/c 5/13/11 d&c 5/18/11 We will always miss you Sprout Ryker! 
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  • How awful, my heart breaks for them. Lots of Ts & Ps for your family.
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  • That is just heart breaking and completely devastating!Crying

    My sincerest thoughts and prayers are with your family.  What happened is just terrible.  No one should have to go through such agony and pain.

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    :(  I am so sorry. 

    BFP #1 March 24, 2010; missed m/c May 26, 2010 @ 12w 4d; D&E May 28, 2010

    BFP #2 Oct 20, 2010; My little boy was born on July 5, 2011

    BFP #3 April 30, 2013; Chemical Pg May 5, 2013

    BFP #4 Aug 22, 2013; It's a boy.  Loss discovered at 24 weeks on Jan 15, 2014 (cause CMV virus)    

                                  <3 We love and miss you Timothy <3

    BFP #5 April 6, 2014; missed m/c May 15, 2014 @ 9 weeks; Misoprostol May 15, 2014; D&C May June 3, 2014

  • That is devastating.  I am sorry.  They will be in my t&p.
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  • Oh my heart aches for them. So so unfair
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  • I'm so sorry!  T&Ps to your family.
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  • Thank you everyone!!!  They sure do need all this love right now!!
    Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers
    Missed M/C discoverd at 10w5d measuring 6w6d on 12/3/10 said goodbye 12/12/10 EDD 6/26/11 "this too shall pass"

    DS Born 9/29/2005 via c-section (breech)
    BFP #3 3/7/11 - EDD 11/17/11
    Betas: @14dpo-182 @18dpo-854!! @21dpo-3124!!!
    3-27-11 150 BPM!!!!
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  • This post makes my heart hurt. No parent should ever have to lose a child, and losing one at 37 weeks is incomprehensible to me. I will be sending T&P to them.
    After two losses, a rainbow arrived! DD born 11.5.11
    Dx with severe Asherman's syndrome after a botched PP D&C (pursuing med mal)
    Hysteroscopy Oct '13, not enough progress 
    Hysteroscopy Jan '14, given an end-of-the-road diagnosis
    Joined International Asherman's Association April '14 
    Not ready to give up yet.
    Hysteroscopy with Dr. Isaacson (an expert in the USA) 6.2.14: Good prognosis, at least 50% of cavity open.
    Repeat hysteroscopy scheduled with Dr. I on 6.16.14. Great progress. Unbenched!!!!
    Discussing actively TTC with DH after the heartache of the last year. We're both reeling.
     
    Please, please, please. 
  • That's so heartbreaking, I'm so sorry.

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  • I'll be thinking of them.  I can't imagine what they must be going through.
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  • Oh, that's so terrible.  I'm so sorry that anyone ever has to go through that.  I absolutely can't imagine being so close to the end and losing my baby.  It's one of my biggest fears.  Do you know if there's anything that could have prevented the kink in the cord?  I'll be thinking about your family.
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    BFP 8/2/10 (3w5d); No more heartbeat on 8/30/10 (7w4d); D&C on 9/2/10 (8w) - Baby Boy with Triploidy
    BFP 12/3/10 (4w2d); Natural miscarriage 12/12/10 (5w4d) - Unknown cause
    Diagnosed with Compound Heterozygous MTHFR
    BFP 3/9/11; Baby Boy #2 born on 11/7/11
    Currently TTC Baby #3

  • Tons of T&P for healing and peace. What a blow, it just isn't fair!
    BFP#1 9/14/10 (EDD 5/21/11); no fetal pole 6w6d, 7w4d, d&c 10/8
    BFP#2 3/16/11, beta 138; 4/12 Baby/HB DS born 9/10/11 at 29w4d due to partial abruption and PTL
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    BFP#3 8/19/13 Another boy! 17P, modified bedrest and Nifedipine helped us have a termie! DS2 born 4/19/14 at 38w5d.
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  • How heartbreaking. T&Ps for your cousin and his wife. 
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  • So incredibly sad - TONS of thoughts, prayers and positive vibes for them!
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