The SO is scheduled to come home on his two week leave from overseas around my due date. He asked me last night if it was "alright" that him and a few other guys from his unit (who will also be home on their leave) "hang out" while he's home. They each live about two hours away from us. I had asked him a few specifics and said that it was up to him. He's there with them, but wants to come back home and leave us just to be able to go and drink with them?? I'm uneasy about it as he told me that he would be busy and I wouldn't get to see him 24/7.... Hmmm... With a newborn obviously I'm p!ssed, but I hate being that control freak. I keep telling myself that maybe things will change when he gets home, but he's already so excited to come home and have some beers and go out with his friends and make all these plans. I am upset that we don't seem to fit into his plans and hurt to say the least. Should I wait until he gets home to say that I don't think its a good idea that he goes. Should I say something now about how I'm feeling. WWYD?
I'm completely understanding along the lines of him having family to visit and friends to re-unite with, etc, but its sounding like I won't see him much at all.