Cherish Your Baby

HLB1986 · April 2011

On April, 20, 2011 I found my DD had died in my arms. She was 5 weeks and 5 days old, born on March 11, 2011. I was trying to feed her and thought she fell asleep. When I went to check on her, she was blue. Of course, she was rushed to the hospital. Doctors are estimating that she lived without oxygen for 20-30 minutes. Consequently, her brain is swollen and all of her vital organs have severe damage. The chances of bringing her home with us is slim, but miracles are possible.

This is my first child and she is the light of my life. I feel like my heart is on this hospital bed. She had no symptoms that anything was wrong and her doctor said she was a "poster child of perfection." I had no indication that this was going to happen. That's why I want to tell you all to cherish every second that you have with your child(ren). They are so precious and seriously the ONLY thing in life that matters. Please use my story as a lesson to all of you to reflect every day on how lucky you are to have your precious child.

FYI: I know I do not have many posts, but I did often use this message board as a resource tool. I also added pictures to my profile of my angel. That's all I could figure out how to do.

MissYouDietCoke · April 2011

I don't think I have words that can comfort you. You are in our thoughts and prayers. I am so sorry for your loss.

MicahAnn2009 · April 2011

I am so incredibly sorry for what you have been through and are continuing to have to deal with. Even with having experienced a miscarriage, I cannot imagine the pain, sorrow, and frustration you must deal with. Miracles do happen and I believe in the power of prayer so I am praying for you and yours. I am deeply saddened for you (and your family) but props go out to you for being able to write your story. . . I pray peace for you and hope you have a good support system around you.

eturp · April 2011

i know it brings little consolation to you and your family but i'm so sorry for your loss. t & p.

myst33 · April 2011

I know my words mean little comfort, but I am so terribly sorry. I am praying for your beautiful daughter and your family.

Twinkz · April 2011

I absolutely believe in miracles - many prayers sent to you and your family. I am so sorry you're going through this

Red_Dahlia · April 2011

I'm so sorry.

I will keep you and your sweet daughter in my prayers.

pregaftertubal · April 2011

i too, believe in miracles. my 16 yr. old DD is a cancer survivor and my LO was conceived 5 years after a tubal ligation. I'm telling you this to help you and your family keep the faith. Reach out and lean on your loved ones right now, they will be your support! God Bless, praying for you.

beeunit · April 2011

She is gorgeous. I'm so sorry. Praying for you and your family.

MarchABC · April 2011

Words cannot express how sorry I am for you and your family. Your daughter is absolutely beautiful. I am thinking about you and praying for your family. Please lean on us if you need support.

StellarStina26 · April 2011

T&Ps with you.

EmandChris08 · April 2011

I read your post this morning, and I have been thinking of you all day. Words can't express how sorry I am for what you are going through. You and your family will definitely be in my T&Ps, and I will be praying that a miracle will bring your daughter home. Thank you for reminding us just how precious life is.