We've been doing "time out" for a little while now, but mostly just in our arms making him stay still and in place. It's been rare, just for big things (he went through a biting phase around 13 months). Well, we're starting to see a few more things we'd like to halt, and I'm reading 123 Magic, but I'm having a hard time coming up with a time out spot. I really don't want to do his crib, to avoid any bad associations with that. When did you expect your child to stay somewhere on their own for time outs? Where did you pick? I've just started 123, so sorry if this is answered in the book for the littlest guys!
Re: time out spot?
we use a corner and we stay w/ her counting to 150 (she's 2.5 now so 2.5 mins). If she is screaming,we tell her time-out will start when she stops screaming
We have the girls sit in front of the front door. Just happens to be a spot that we can keep our eye on while we're in the kitchen. I wouldn't use their room or bed/crib - I don't think it's much of a time out if they get to be somewhere where they can reach their toys or lay down and nap.
The most hilarious thing is when we're at someone's house, and I say "that's it, go to time out." The girls sort of panic like "where the heck am I supposed to go?" but then they ALWAYS find a place. They pick it themselves - it's quite clever actually. We've done this in Home Depot even.