Pregnant after a Loss

really am beside myself

I posted earlier about how I had spotting today, mostly brown, a little red. One panty liner only. We had sex the night before. Yada yada yada. So like you've all said, I hope it's from that.
 
However, as the night has progressed, I feel like I have tenderness in my lower abdomen and maybe more pronounced bloat? Has anybody experienced this tenderness before and it not resulted in a m/c? I know i have to wait for tomorrow's beta and then to see if they'd be willing to do an earlier u/s, but the wait is torture. I don't know how to simultaneously stay hopeful and prepare myself for the worst again.
 
Thanks for everything.
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  • I am so sorry you are going through this!  (((HUGS)))  Lots of doubling dust your way and I hope they can get you in for a piece of mind U/S soon.
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  • Big ((hugs)) I am so sorry you are having such a bad day. I have had cramping and pulling this entire pregnancy so far. Lots of good beta dust!!!
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  • I am sorry that you are going through this.  I wish the best for you tomorrow and I hope tomorrow comes quickly so you can get some answers.
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  • Lotus I am so sorry you have this going on.  I will be sehnding lots of T & P's your way.
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  • I had spotting and light cramping/pressure from 5.5 to 6.5 weeks. Everything looks fine so far. I had the same thing with my m/c so I was convinced it was all over. You just NEVER know. Hang in there, you get more info soon! (((HUGS)))
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  • I'm sorry you are going through this ((hugs))   Honestly, my belly has been tender the whole pg.
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  • I definitely had a huge bloat between 6 and 8 wks and looked like 5 months pregnant.  Around 9 wks it went away and now I am starting to get a bump.  I also had tenderness in lower abdomen area and still have this.  This is mostly likely from your baby growing and stretching of your uterus.  I had the worst cramping during week 7 and was worried also.  I hope you get great news on your betas.  Sending lots of doubling dust.  Hugs.

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  • ((Huge Hugs)) I'm so sorry you're going through this. I hope you get great numbers on tomorrow's beta and an early u/s. Sending thoughts and prayers your way!
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  • The wait for that call really is the worst. (((hugs))) GL and keep us posted!
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