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Any news on Butterfly?

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I am hoping and praying she is ok. 
Forever buddy to Angelica; Natural Miscarriage Jan. 2008 @ 11 weeks; 2 years of BFFN's; DX: Unexplained IF (RE thinks IF is due to tubal issues); IUI #1 & 2= BFFN; IUI#3 = BFP, resulted in Cornual ectopic pregnancy; IUI #4 - 6 =BFFN; Our next endeavor... IVF. 1 grade AA embryo transferred on 4-23-2011 and 5 frosties. BFP Abby born 1/5/2012

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Re: Any news on Butterfly?

  • butterfly843butterfly843
    Thanks for thinking of me. They sent me home last night. Ending up doing a d&c and removing the left tube. After all this my dh has hope again and wants to delay adoption for a few months. Of course he wasn' t the one who went through surgery. I'm glad I switched drs after my twin loss because she wasn't on call but came in to do my surgery. A nurse who wheeled me down tried giving me the everything happens for a reason speech and how she had a loss and now has two kids. Not what I want to hear when I'm being rushed into surgery and upset. She kind of stopped with the hope speech after I told her of my previous losses.

    Jenn

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    IVF#1 BFN IVF#2 BFP, loss at 19 weeks FET#1 BFN IVF#3 BFP, m/c FET#2 BFN

    Missing our twins Zachary and Madison, lost at 19 weeks on 11/13/09, edd 4/9/10

    BFP 7/17/10, m/c 7/25/10, edd 3/25/11

    Ectopic, lost left tube 4/20/11, edd 12/6/11

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    Ugh.  It is hard.  Very hard and ectopics are like a slap in the face.  I am glad you found a dr you like, Butterfly.  I hope the physical healing is quick, but I know the emotional healing will take time and we are always here for you on that part.  The universe sucks. It just does.  I am so sorry your DH wants to delay adoption.  I wish I could give you the biggest hug possible right now.  This process just sucks. 
    Forever buddy to Angelica; Natural Miscarriage Jan. 2008 @ 11 weeks; 2 years of BFFN's; DX: Unexplained IF (RE thinks IF is due to tubal issues); IUI #1 & 2= BFFN; IUI#3 = BFP, resulted in Cornual ectopic pregnancy; IUI #4 - 6 =BFFN; Our next endeavor... IVF. 1 grade AA embryo transferred on 4-23-2011 and 5 frosties. BFP Abby born 1/5/2012

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  • babygirlpriestbabygirlpriest

    Oh love, I'm so sorry you're going through this heartbreak.

    HUGS

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  • KristysRedBarnKristysRedBarn
    I'm so sorry hun.  I had one of those nurses when we lost Miller and I couldn't decide if I wanted hit her or sob uncontrollably.  I finally told her to STFU and that I didn't want to hear it. I hope you heal quickly and that you and your DH are able to figure something out about adoption that will work for both of you.
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  • GuppyAmyGuppyAmy member

    I'm so glad you have a doctor you like, I love that she came in even know she was off. I hate that she had to come in, though. I hope that you and your DH can find a solution that will work for both of you. 

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  • HugginAngelHugginAngel
    I'm so sorry hon. :::BIG HUGZ::: The universe is sucktastic sometimes and I hate to see the wonderful ladies here alawys getting kicked! I hope things start getting better for you!  :::HUGZ:::
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  • DoingItRightDoingItRight member
    {{{{{{HUGS}}}}}}
    Lilypie Premature Baby tickers IVF #1 BFP Beta #1 528 & Beta #2 1514
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  • LilMaggsLilMaggs member
    *hugs* Many T&P's. I am so very sorry.  Massive throat-punch to Mrs. "I Can Rub My Success in Your Face".  What a cvnt!
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  • millejj1millejj1 member
    I am so sorry that you're going through this. I'm glad that you have a doctor that you like. I'm sorry that the nurse was a jerk. I hope that you heal quickly and please know that we're here anytime you need us.
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  • CaroleeCarolee member
    I'm glad you like your doctor so much, but I'm sorry that nurse was so insensitive.  I'm so sorry this happened.  Big (((HUGS)))
    Mom to Eliott Alexander, born sleeping at 37 weeks on 8/13/10. Most of us only dream of angels - I held one in my arms.
    BFP #2 - EDD 2/26/12 M/C 6/28/11 @ 5w2d
    BFP #3 - EDD 4/7/12 M/C 8/2/11 @ 4w2d
    Too beautiful for this earth
    BFP #4 - EDD 12/09/12, Lucille arrived 11/26/12
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