I don't get on here often on my new SN, but I was wondering how many of you have steady blogs about your loss? I would be interested to read them. I just started and although it is bringing up a whole new wave of emotions, I feel like it is helping me to get them out there. I tend to bottle things up. XOXO and Happy Wednesday to you all.
Re: Blogging after your loss?
I don't have a blog but I agree that it is very helpful to read others!
I don't have a blog, but I have found it therapeutic to read www.facesofloss.com. A friend of mine lost twins at 24 weeks and was just "featured" on the site.
Thank you! I will check it out.
I started blogging shortly after my second loss. I found it helpful to read others and I also find it therapeutic to write it. It's not that exciting but feel free to take a look. Here is the link:
https://ourroadtoababy.blogspot.com/
BFP #1 07/04/10. EDD 03/14/11. Missed m/c 08/09/10. D&C 09/27/10. }Casey & Jaimie{
TTA for 18 months and then TTC for 12 months
TTA for 7 months
Jan-Mar 2014 - RPL, SHG, karotyping: all results normal
TTC Again May 2014
Progesterone & baby aspirin combo for 5 cycles - All BFN's
SA with DNA fragmentation = Perfect results
Diagnostic cycle monitoring = Polycystic ovaries leading to premature egg release
TTA Oct 2014 - Jan 2015
Jan 2015 - Medicated cycle with timed intercourse
My Blog: The Canadian Housewife PGAL/PAL Welcome My Chart
[spoiler] My Blog: Grow Baby Grow
BFP #1: 12/2009 m/c 1/2010 BFP #2: 6/2010 m/c 8/2010
BFP #3: 10/2011 ectopic 11/2011 (right tube removed, learned left tube was probably nonfunctional due to scar tissue from infection after m/c)
3 failed IUIs, IVF #1: 18R, 12M, 10F, 3 poor quality 5d embryos transferred= BFP #4!!!!!
Betas: 9dp5dt: 64 ~14dp5dt: 91 (expecting miscarriage, doubling time of 236 hours) ~16dp5dt: 200~18dp5dt: 500
First Ultrasound at 6w2d revealed two sacs, only one with a heartbeat
LK arrived after 42 weeks on August 14, 2013! Beautiful, healthy, and happy!
TTC#2: IVF booked for April 2015
Surprise BFP#5 February 19, 2015 EDD: November 2, 2015
Betas: 10dpo: 10, 14dpo: 77, 17dpo: 270
First Ultrasound at 5w1d showed a miracle UTE baby! And right ovary ovulation to left fallopian tube.
JD arrived at 38 weeks on October 20, 2015.
TTC #3: Since October 2017. BFP #6 July 2, 2018 EDD: March 16, 2019 [/spoiler]
I have a co-worker/good friend who blogged after losing her son a few hours after he was born. Around the 18w u/s they learned he did not have kidneys, which meant he couldn't create urine, leading to low amniotic fluid, and his lungs did not develop fully. So they knew at that point he was not going to make it. Her blog is beautiful. She has brought me so much strength and comfort during my loss, and I often find comfort reading her posts. So many people have told her she needs to publish her blog somehow...make it a book or make it her life's work so she can become one of those famous bloggers like Pioneer Woman or something.
Anyway, I've tried blogs before, and I just don't have the dedication a blog needs. I write three or so posts and then forget about it...a year later I remember I have a blog. I've started a journal, which I haven't written in for several weeks, but I don't feel as guilty because other people aren't reading it.
Justin + Laura 10.18.08
TTC #1 09.10/Dx PCOS 12.10/BFP #1 12.29.10/EDD 9.10.11/Missed m/c 2.3.11/D&C 2.15.11
“Ever has it been that love knows not its own depth until the hour of separation.”-Kahlil Gibran
Cycle #1 4.2.11 + Clomid = BFN/Cycle #2 5.9.11 + Clomid + Trigger Shot = TWINS!
Walter Allen and Eleanor Joan 1.15.12
Another baby on the way! 8.25.14
I didn't blog right after my loss, in fact, I didn't start mine until a year later. I was amazed at how much better I felt though. Even if you don't update a lot after you first start, getting it out and having that spot to go to when you need to helps a lot.
I'm an emotion bottler too and I'm kicking myself for not starting sooner!
I have a blog (Link in siggy) that I started before my loss, just about our life and homemaking/decorating/cooking. After our first loss I felt compelled to be very real about the whole situation. How I felt, the process, etc. My readers weren't there to read that type of content, but I felt that people should know how it affects real people. Everyday. As we continued to have losses and know begin the RPL testing, I've continued to include it in my blog. Its been very therapuetic for me, and some friends IRL have contacted me admitting they had a miscarriage and were encouraged by me blog.
I've read several blogs about miscarriage and success after miscarriage and they have helped me so much.
www.jennyfreestyle.blogspot.com