Weekend Update: Douchey Things My Ex Did This Week

Temp552270562505132 · April 2011

1) Claimed me as a dependant on his taxes. And my son. Wrongo bongo dudeski. I had an anurism for 3.4 seconds then realized- HEY- I GOT THIS. I spent all night up with turbo tax and got it fixed myself. Boomshackalacka. I win.

2) I went to pick up C for curbside and he reached in the car from behind me snapped my turn signal and broke it, then before that, kicked my headlight and cracked it WITH the baby in his arms. BOOM. I can't really go into detail (in a couple weeks I will be able to fully divulge) about the rest, but net/net: It's taken care of, through the proper channels afforded to us in this great state of NY.

So.... what all did your douchey exes do? And how did you turn it around to win? GO.

PrincessFiona9 · April 2011

WOW that is some crazy shii!

EX had checked himself into rehab last week. and then checked himself back out 5 days later...now he's trying to sell his phone to get money so he can take off. I hope he does abscond to somewhere far far away.

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Temp552270562505132 · April 2011

Becca- yes he's a major idiot.

And Ashley- Abscond.... good word! I am currently hooked on the words with friends app. heh. always looking for good new words.

PrincessFiona9 · April 2011

kristinhart511:

Becca- yes he's a major idiot.

And Ashley- Abscond.... good word! I am currently hooked on the words with friends app. heh. always looking for good new words.

LOL well that is the legal term for it since he's on parole Stick out tongue

dimake · April 2011

Oh my! Definitely nothing that bad. He was just bummed about never having money and bitched about having to pay so much child support.

achase123 · April 2011

Wow. I got nothing. I have no contact with the moron 99.9999% of the time.

julia0402 · April 2011

OMG WHAT he is such a freakshow. Jeebus.

Mine hacked into my email and FB, as you know. Fun times.

katie_cj · April 2011

Woah. That's crazy.

My exFI and trying to hammer out details in our custody agreement since we are going back to mediation this summer. We are done talking now though. He's all over the place. He doesn't want to pay health/dental cost 50/50 since I'm rotting Jake's teeth by giving him chicken nuggets once a week. Oh, and since I've had him in Germany for 9 months and he hasn't seen him. He wants full custody for 5 months with no visitation from me.

And he acts like I need to bend over backwards for him since he's "letting" me move out of the province. If I don't agree, he'll make me stay. Um. No. You already signed an agreement allowing me to move, plus, I live in Germany. I no longer live in the province, you can't make me move back.

Temp552270562505132 · April 2011

katie_cj@hotmail.com:
Woah. That's crazy.
My exFI and trying to hammer out details in our custody agreement since we are going back to mediation this summer. We are done talking now though. He's all over the place. He doesn't want to pay health/dental cost 50/50 since I'm rotting Jake's teeth by giving him chicken nuggets once a week. Oh, and since I've had him in Germany for 9 months and he hasn't seen him. He wants full custody for 5 months with no visitation from me.
And he acts like I need to bend over backwards for him since he's "letting" me move out of the province. If I don't agree, he'll make me stay. Um. No. You already signed an agreement allowing me to move, plus, I live in Germany. I no longer live in the province, you can't make me move back.

OMG! CHICKEN NUGGETS! How dare you. Heh. And also, he probably doesn't have much say- I don't know what the laws are in germany or canada but here in NY- you can't just kick someone off your insurance, so he might have to pay anyway.

And wow- 5 mo. no visitation? Really? That will never fly.

It sounds like he is just spewing hatred in your general direction- and I am sure it is totally stressing you out. Sorry, mama.

And julesey- yeah- thats horrible that he hacked into your fb and emails. What a lunatic. I think he is related to those dinosaurs he studies- specifically the stegasaurus- who is known for having a golf ball sized brain.

fauxshelley · April 2011

kristinhart511:

katie_cj@hotmail.com:

Woah. That's crazy.

My exFI and trying to hammer out details in our custody agreement since we are going back to mediation this summer. We are done talking now though. He's all over the place. He doesn't want to pay health/dental cost 50/50 since I'm rotting Jake's teeth by giving him chicken nuggets once a week. Oh, and since I've had him in Germany for 9 months and he hasn't seen him. He wants full custody for 5 months with no visitation from me.

And he acts like I need to bend over backwards for him since he's "letting" me move out of the province. If I don't agree, he'll make me stay. Um. No. You already signed an agreement allowing me to move, plus, I live in Germany. I no longer live in the province, you can't make me move back.

OMG! CHICKEN NUGGETS! How dare you. Heh. And also, he probably doesn't have much say- I don't know what the laws are in germany or canada but here in NY- you can't just kick someone off your insurance, so he might have to pay anyway.

And wow- 5 mo. no visitation? Really? That will never fly.

It sounds like he is just spewing hatred in your general direction- and I am sure it is totally stressing you out. Sorry, mama.

And julesey- yeah- thats horrible that he hacked into your fb and emails. What a lunatic. I think he is related to those dinosaurs he studies- specifically the stegasaurus- who is known for having a golf ball sized brain.

Don't be so sure. Another SP who lived out of the country with her DD had to appeal and fight custody after her X was awarded joint custody, as in, 6 months with the father, 6 months with the mother. They live over 2000 miles apart, so every other week/weekend wasn't an option.

Temp552270562505132 · April 2011

fauxshelley:
kristinhart511:

katie_cj@hotmail.com:

Woah. That's crazy.
My exFI and trying to hammer out details in our custody agreement since we are going back to mediation this summer. We are done talking now though. He's all over the place. He doesn't want to pay health/dental cost 50/50 since I'm rotting Jake's teeth by giving him chicken nuggets once a week. Oh, and since I've had him in Germany for 9 months and he hasn't seen him. He wants full custody for 5 months with no visitation from me.
And he acts like I need to bend over backwards for him since he's "letting" me move out of the province. If I don't agree, he'll make me stay. Um. No. You already signed an agreement allowing me to move, plus, I live in Germany. I no longer live in the province, you can't make me move back.

OMG! CHICKEN NUGGETS! How dare you. Heh. And also, he probably doesn't have much say- I don't know what the laws are in germany or canada but here in NY- you can't just kick someone off your insurance, so he might have to pay anyway.
And wow- 5 mo. no visitation? Really? That will never fly.
It sounds like he is just spewing hatred in your general direction- and I am sure it is totally stressing you out. Sorry, mama.
And julesey- yeah- thats horrible that he hacked into your fb and emails. What a lunatic. I think he is related to those dinosaurs he studies- specifically the stegasaurus- who is known for having a golf ball sized brain.
Don't be so sure. Another SP who lived out of the country with her DD had to appeal and fight custody after her X was awarded joint custody, as in, 6 months with the father, 6 months with the mother. They live over 2000 miles apart, so every other week/weekend wasn't an option.

OMG. That's not good. That would be so hard to be away from DS for that long.

katie_cj · April 2011

kristinhart511:
katie_cj@hotmail.com:
Woah. That's crazy.
My exFI and trying to hammer out details in our custody agreement since we are going back to mediation this summer. We are done talking now though. He's all over the place. He doesn't want to pay health/dental cost 50/50 since I'm rotting Jake's teeth by giving him chicken nuggets once a week. Oh, and since I've had him in Germany for 9 months and he hasn't seen him. He wants full custody for 5 months with no visitation from me.
And he acts like I need to bend over backwards for him since he's "letting" me move out of the province. If I don't agree, he'll make me stay. Um. No. You already signed an agreement allowing me to move, plus, I live in Germany. I no longer live in the province, you can't make me move back.

OMG! CHICKEN NUGGETS! How dare you. Heh. And also, he probably doesn't have much say- I don't know what the laws are in germany or canada but here in NY- you can't just kick someone off your insurance, so he might have to pay anyway.
And wow- 5 mo. no visitation? Really? That will never fly.
It sounds like he is just spewing hatred in your general direction- and I am sure it is totally stressing you out. Sorry, mama.

And julesey- yeah- thats horrible that he hacked into your fb and emails. What a lunatic. I think he is related to those dinosaurs he studies- specifically the stegasaurus- who is known for having a golf ball sized brain.

I do understand if we would stay international. But come this summer, we'll be 4 hours apart. So even if he went through going to court to fight me for custody, I doubt he could get 5 months custody without visitation. This is hardly a tit for tat issue.

Starbuck5 · April 2011

Well, since I have a PO against him I don't have direct communication with him so my mom is the "in-between" for now.

STBXH said he didn't have any money to help pay for DS's hospital bill (he was in the NICU for a couple days). Two days after he said he was broke, I got a letter in the mail from Best Buy congratulating "us" on "our" new 46" 3D TV that he purchased for $2,300.

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Temp552270562505132 · April 2011

Starbuck5:
Well, since I have a PO against him I don't have direct communication with him so my mom is the "in-between" for now.
STBXH said he didn't have any money to help pay for DS's hospital bill (he was in the NICU for a couple days). Two days after he said he was broke, I got a letter in the mail from Best Buy congratulating "us" on "our" new 46" 3D TV that he purchased for $2,300.

oh wow... so he's not beyond committing fraud and forging your signature on a credit application... he sounds dumb. REALLY dumb. You'll definitely be able to get that taken care of.

How frustrating. My ex would do something like that also.

Starbuck5 · April 2011

kristinhart511:

oh wow... so he's not beyond committing fraud and forging your signature on a credit application... he sounds dumb. REALLY dumb. You'll definitely be able to get that taken care of.
How frustrating. My ex would do something like that also.

Yep...taking care of this as we speak.

beccaga16:
File that sh!t girl! I bet a judge would love that

I think he will too

Temp552270562505132 · April 2011

Good!!! I am glad you're getting it taken care of. What would really be funny is if you got the TV. He would be supah upset - clearly he puts major emphasis on it... so it would be devastating to him if you repo'd it. heh

hey maybe if you can find some way to get the tv, and sell it, it can help with the NICU debt. btw, sorry you had to go through a NICU experience. that has got to be so freaking scary.

Starbuck5 · April 2011

kristinhart511:
Good!!! I am glad you're getting it taken care of. What would really be funny is if you got the TV. He would be supah upset - clearly he puts major emphasis on it... so it would be devastating to him if you repo'd it. heh

hey maybe if you can find some way to get the tv, and sell it, it can help with the NICU debt. btw, sorry you had to go through a NICU experience. that has got to be so freaking scary.

Meh- He can keep the 3D TV....I don't look good in electronic goggles....

::flips hair::

Temp552270562505132 · April 2011

SHUT UP! he wasted that much on a 3d tv???!! WOW. I am a techie snob.... let's just put it this way- if I were dating someone who invested that much money in a bad technology, it would be a major red flag to me.

heh. you're better off without the goggles!

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