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Poor Pitiful Me....(pregnancy mentioned)

It's only April and I'm already DREADING the holidays! We would have had a baby in Sept. therefore he/she would have been here for Christmas....And because my SIL is pregnant (due in Nov) the entire family is going to be goooing over her and her baby. I can't quit thinking about it.....AHHHHH!!!! 2011 SUCKS.  
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  • I haven't even thought that far ahead.  I can't imagine what its going to be like for the holidays.  I hope we can both make it through.
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    It's only April and I'm already DREADING the holidays! We would have had a baby in Sept. therefore he/she would have been here for Christmas....And because my SIL is pregnant (due in Nov) the entire family is going to be goooing over her and her baby. I can't quit thinking about it.....AHHHHH!!!! 2011 SUCKS.  

    This is me exactly.  I was due in September too, and SO looking forward to our LO being here for the Holidays Crying

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  • Hopefully it won't be as bad as I'm imagining it. Maybe we'll all have a BFP by then! That will make it happier! Smile
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  • Big hugs.  My best friend just told me she's due in Nov. or Dec., so I know what you mean.  My babies should be 6 months old by Christmas.  It's awful to think about.  Hang in there! 
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  • I'm sorry you are going through this and already dreading the holidays. 

    I had to go through that this past Christmas.  Actually everyone in my family would have had their baby's first Christmas, since my sister had a 4 mo old and SIL had a 3 mo old at Christmas.  I would have had a 9 mo old.  Instead there DH and I were, just having our second loss empty handed in both family pictures. 

    This holiday was ok.  Christmas day there was so much other stuff going on I didn't think about it.  I dreaded the thoughts leading up to it.  Taking the pictures was hard. 

    Lots of love and hugs!!!

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    Hopefully it won't be as bad as I'm imagining it. Maybe we'll all have a BFP by then! That will make it happier! Smile

    This is what I was thinking.  I'm dreading Easter because I know I'm going to get the "when are you having another baby?" question and I don't think I will be able to handle that well.

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  • This has been my reality the last two holiday seasons, and it sucks *hugs*
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  • I'm so glad yall feel this way too! *I'm not a horrible person!* (((HUGS)))
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  • I totally understand.  I've thought about Christmas and Thanksgiving, but for some reason I'm dreading Halloween.  Justin and I had thought of lots of costumes that we could incorporate our September baby...specifically Peter, Lois, and Stewy from Family Guy.  No idea why that makes me sad, but it does.

    I can't remember if you've ever posted on it, but I'm posting a check-in for Sept EDD ladies on Thursdays titled "Remembering Our Sapphire Sweathearts."  If you see it, please join in the conversation!!


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  • I was due in October and so excited to have a baby for Halloween, Thanksgiving, and Christmas......... :'(
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    I totally understand.  I've thought about Christmas and Thanksgiving, but for some reason I'm dreading Halloween.  Justin and I had thought of lots of costumes that we could incorporate our September baby...specifically Peter, Lois, and Stewy from Family Guy.  No idea why that makes me sad, but it does.

    I can't remember if you've ever posted on it, but I'm posting a check-in for Sept EDD ladies on Thursdays titled "Remembering Our Sapphire Sweathearts."  If you see it, please join in the conversation!!

    Thanks for letting me know! I will definitely check it out!

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