July 2011 Moms

Update: Nasty Boss. Thanks for the support

So? I got over my fear, took your advice, and talked to HR.  Apparently my complaint is not the first to be brought against him.  He has had complaints for both racial and sexual harassment.  They said it was good that I came forward, since not enough people do.  They agreed that his comments were way over the line, which made me feel better and less like a hormonal tattle-tale. 

Thank you so much for all your support.  I am so glad I found this board and that everyone is so kind and supportive. 

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Re: Update: Nasty Boss. Thanks for the support

  • Yay! Good for you, and he so deserved it. I really hope they're doing more than just collecting complaints!
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  • I am not surprised.  I hope he gets fired.  He needs to be put in his place.  I am surprised that they haven't already let him go due to the previous comments.  Hopefully yours shows a pattern of behavior and he is gone. 
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  • I'm so glad that you came forward and that HR was helpful.  Hopefully they'll take some action!
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  • .Proud of you for speaking up; I'm sure it was hard.   Hopefully he gets what coming to him.
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  • I think it's great you came forward to report him, and like PPS mentioned, hopefully they'll take action.
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  • I am glad you said something!!
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  • Good for you for turning him in! I was really upset for you. Hopefully he won't be around much longer to make those comments to someone else! 
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  • I'm glad you said something!  That took a lot of courage, but it was definitely the right thing to do.  I hope HR takes action against him.

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  • Like PPs, I'm really glad you said something, too! It's really unfortunate that the jerk has struck before, but it doesn't really surprise me. Hopefully he'll get what's coming to him sooner than later. Way to have courage!
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  • Like everyone else, I am so glad you spoke up. I know it was not easy for you. I really hope some sort of action is taken against him. It makes me sick that he CLEARLY thinks he can say whatever he wants. GL hun and nice work! Yes
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  • This takes a lot of courage, and I am so thankful that you did it not only for yourself, but for others who have put up with his nonsense. Thank you!
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  • Good for you!

    All the best!

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  • Glad you went to talk to HR and glad the sh&thead has another mark in his file.  Hopefully they'll actually do something about it!!
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  • Yay, glad to hear to hear your update. Maybe your "issue" will be the one to actually cause serious consequences for your boss.
  • Awesome! I hope they fire the guy!
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  • That's awesome HR responded the way that they did. I hope they take it a step further and can his a$$. Smile Good for you for speaking up.
  • Yay! I'm so glad you reported him!


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  • good for you for reporting him! Like pp I really hope they do something and aren't just collecting complaints since he has obviously said inappropriate things to other employees as well.
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  • Good for you. So many people in a position of authority KNOW that others will be scared (or, like you, think it's just them being oversensitive)......so they think they can keep saying stuff like that and not get reported. Unfortunately, they keep doing it until enough people speak up. Imagine for every ONE person that has made a complaint, several probably have not.
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    Yay! Good for you, and he so deserved it. I really hope they're doing more than just collecting complaints!

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