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hpfreak2011
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WWYD???
hpfreak2011
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So...... H and I have had a great relationship from day 1. We thought we were perfect for eachother and thought we would be together forever..... after last night, I am ready to end our marriage.
H has always been kind of a flirty man but never to the point where is crossed a line. Last night, we were at our bowling league. I turned around and saw him standing there holding another MARRIED woman(whom we are both friends with) in his arms with her legs wrapped around him!! He put her down and we talked about how that REALLY crossed the line and he apologized. OK....... then as I was about to throw my last ball, I look back and he and this woman are FVCKING grinding dancing. Like with her assss in his crotch and dancing back and forth!!! I was pisssed !!!
I started packing up my stuff and this woman came over to apologize for hurting my feelings. I told her not to talk to me and leave me alone.
H and I did not talk the whole ride home. When we got home, he was angry with me cause he said I was jealous. I tried to very calmly explain how all that REALLY crossed the line with me and it was not ok in any way. He saw nothing wrong with what he was doing. We talked alot and finally came to an agreement that he understood that what he did crossed the line and he aologized.
This morning, I read his text messages to her...... He said "This is why I was glad when my wife couldnt bowl" then he called me a jealous biitch.
????? Where do I go from here?? and thanks for reading all this if you got to this point. I am just soooo lost and dont know what to do. I am heart broken.
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Re: WWYD???
Wow! That is absolutely ridiculous. Sorry you have to deal with this.
Nobody here can really tell you what to do, that's totally up to you. But in my opinion.. leave his @ss!! If he has the balls to do that in front of you, who knows what he'll do behind your back. And for him to say that about you is crossing the line.
Like I said, it's up to you where to go from here but I don't think you'll be able to get over something like this and things will just get worse from here on. Save yourself alot of heartache and get out now.
What a complete douche. I'm sitting here with my jaw gaping at the complete and total disrespect that he displayed.
If he does this directly in front of you can you imagine what he's done behind your back. Wow. I'd DTMFA and cut my losses.
Exactly what i am afraid of. Im so lost.
Wow. Achase is right, if he does this in front of you, I am scared to think about what he does when you are not there. Also, I would be even more mad about the text he sent this morning. He is totally disrespecting you and your feelings.
Good luck, whatever you decide!
I agree with the first part. I think you guys need to think about counseling first. If your relationship was so great then why are you willing to end it so fast?
Yes, he was extremely disrespectful and it makes you wonder what else he was doing being your back. Especially since he said, "This is why I was glad when my wife couldn't bowl." So what else were these two doing there? And where was her husband? What kind of woman thinks it's funny that he calls his wife a "jealous ***"? Sounds like she has her own problems.
You have two kids together. I think you need to sit down with him and talk about what he said and what he was doing. You should think about counseling before throwing in the towel though. GL!