TTC After a Loss

***Remembering Our Sapphire Sweethearts***

Hello ladies!!  Here is our weekly check-in.  Give us an update (TTCAL related or not!) and the GTKY activity is below.

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Justin + Laura 10.18.08
TTC #1 09.10/Dx PCOS 12.10/BFP #1 12.29.10/EDD 9.10.11/Missed m/c 2.3.11/D&C 2.15.11
“Ever has it been that love knows not its own depth until the hour of separation.”-Kahlil Gibran
Cycle #1 4.2.11 + Clomid = BFN/Cycle #2 5.9.11 + Clomid + Trigger Shot = TWINS! 
Walter Allen and Eleanor Joan 1.15.12
Another baby on the way! 8.25.14


Re: ***Remembering Our Sapphire Sweethearts***

  • Follicle Scan went well; FWP a lot over the next few days!!

    Engaging, compassionate, talkative 


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    Justin + Laura 10.18.08
    TTC #1 09.10/Dx PCOS 12.10/BFP #1 12.29.10/EDD 9.10.11/Missed m/c 2.3.11/D&C 2.15.11
    “Ever has it been that love knows not its own depth until the hour of separation.”-Kahlil Gibran
    Cycle #1 4.2.11 + Clomid = BFN/Cycle #2 5.9.11 + Clomid + Trigger Shot = TWINS! 
    Walter Allen and Eleanor Joan 1.15.12
    Another baby on the way! 8.25.14


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  • I love this check in. :) My week has been a little rough. I'm finding it really hard seeing all the pregnant people and babies around me. My first EDD was March 14 and there were a ton of babies born in March. So now I'm just sad for what should have been. And I'm also sad because I should at least be 16w4d right now. Hmph. But, on a good note. I got a referral to a really good ob/gyn so that made me a little happier.

    GTKY: Friendly, pessimist, skinny. (unoriginal I know, I couldn't think of anything better)

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    Started TTC June 2010
    BFP #1
    07/04/10. EDD 03/14/11. Missed m/c 08/09/10. D&C 09/27/10. }Casey & Jaimie{
    BFP #2 01/14/11. EDD 09/25/11. Missed m/c 02/18/11. D&C 02/24/11. }Dustin{
    TTA for 18 months and then TTC for 12 months
    BFP #3 08/18/13. EDD 04/30/14. Missed m/c 09/25/13. D&C 09/26/13. }Daylin{
    TTA for 7 months
    Jan-Mar 2014 - RPL, SHG, karotyping: all results normal
    TTC Again May 2014
    Progesterone & baby aspirin combo for 5 cycles
    - All BFN's
    SA with DNA fragmentation = Perfect results

    Diagnostic cycle monitoring = Polycystic ovaries leading to premature egg release
    TTA Oct 2014 - Jan 2015
    Jan 2015 - Medicated cycle with timed intercourse
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    I love this check in. :) My week has been a little rough. I'm finding it really hard seeing all the pregnant people and babies around me. My first EDD was March 14 and there were a ton of babies born in March. So now I'm just sad for what should have been. And I'm also sad because I should at least be 16w4d right now. Hmph. But, on a good note. I got a referral to a really good ob/gyn so that made me a little happier.

    GTKY: Friendly, pessimist, skinny. (unoriginal I know, I couldn't think of anything better)

    Pregnant bellies are so hard to deal with.  The woman I work with who is due about a week or two before I was due...her belly is starting to show.  And every time I see her, I automatically look straight at her belly.  I have a feeling it seems pretty creepy, but she probably doesn't even notice. 


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    Justin + Laura 10.18.08
    TTC #1 09.10/Dx PCOS 12.10/BFP #1 12.29.10/EDD 9.10.11/Missed m/c 2.3.11/D&C 2.15.11
    “Ever has it been that love knows not its own depth until the hour of separation.”-Kahlil Gibran
    Cycle #1 4.2.11 + Clomid = BFN/Cycle #2 5.9.11 + Clomid + Trigger Shot = TWINS! 
    Walter Allen and Eleanor Joan 1.15.12
    Another baby on the way! 8.25.14


  • First month using my CBEFM:  I got lows, highs, and peaks so that made me happy. I am exhausted from FWP...one more night to go because by RE told me we need to FWP on the 2 peaks and the day after.

    I could use some prayers and good thoughts that we get a BFP. Maybe I can be one of those lucky FH who get their BFP after one month of using the CBEFM Wink...a girl can dream.

    GTKY: Driven, compassionate, worrier

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  • Getting ready to O!!!

    Funny, sarcastic, outgoing

  • I'm just waiting on AF again (hopefully next week) then we are TTC again!

     Inquisitive, Compassionate, Insomniac (as of lately) Smile

     

    BFP #2 7/20/11 ** EDD: 3/28/12: IT'S A BOY!
    BFP #1 12/30/10 ** EDD: 9/6/11** H/B stopped at 10w 6d conf on 2/22/11 ** D&C 2/24/11.
    Congrats to my Labor Buddy LoriJ11, baby Elise born 2/24/12
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  • It looks like alot of us will be in the 2ww together.  Fingers crossed for everyone!!!!!
  • Well I'm expecting AF any day and hating these long post m/c cycles :( If she's still not here by the wekend I'm going to lose my mind.  I've decided to switch to taking temps the "other" way since I'm a mouth breather and I snore Embarrassed.  Hopefully the change will make things clearer the next cycle.  Also, I'm ordering that tea (I forget the name) to hopefully help balance my hormones and get me back to non-marathon cycle status...we shall see. 

    GTKY:  Friendly, Social, Worrywart

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  • Hi everyone!  This is my first check in.My husband and I have been actively TTC again, but this month might not work out.  My grandpa is in the hospital in Oregon, and I might be flying up there with my mom soon.  So there is a good chance we'll miss it this month since I expect to ovulate in about a week to ten days.  T&P for my grandpa would be much appreciated!Sensitive, empathic, caring
    Lilypie Premature Baby tickers
    Married 9/22/07, began TTC 8/10
    Diagnosed with DOR, LP defect, mild endometriosis and cysts
    BFP #1 EDD 9/10/11, natural miscarriage at 6w
    BFP #2 Medicated cycle, twin boys born 4/4/12 at 29w4d
    BFP #3 EDD 8/8/14, D&C for missed miscarriage at 8w, baby boy with triploidy
    BFP #4 June 2014 CP
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    Hi everyone!  This is my first check in.My husband and I have been actively TTC again, but this month might not work out.  My grandpa is in the hospital in Oregon, and I might be flying up there with my mom soon.  So there is a good chance we'll miss it this month since I expect to ovulate in about a week to ten days.  T&P for my grandpa would be much appreciated!Sensitive, empathic, caring

    Melissa, I'm glad you saw the check in.  I will be thinking of your family.  Take care of yourself!!  And good luck with this cycle!! 


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    Justin + Laura 10.18.08
    TTC #1 09.10/Dx PCOS 12.10/BFP #1 12.29.10/EDD 9.10.11/Missed m/c 2.3.11/D&C 2.15.11
    “Ever has it been that love knows not its own depth until the hour of separation.”-Kahlil Gibran
    Cycle #1 4.2.11 + Clomid = BFN/Cycle #2 5.9.11 + Clomid + Trigger Shot = TWINS! 
    Walter Allen and Eleanor Joan 1.15.12
    Another baby on the way! 8.25.14


  • imageMissa_g:
    Hi everyone!  This is my first check in.My husband and I have been actively TTC again, but this month might not work out.  My grandpa is in the hospital in Oregon, and I might be flying up there with my mom soon.  So there is a good chance we'll miss it this month since I expect to ovulate in about a week to ten days.  T&P for my grandpa would be much appreciated!Sensitive, empathic, caring

    I'm sorry your Grandpa is not doing well, lot's of T&P to you and your family.

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    Hi everyone!  This is my first check in.My husband and I have been actively TTC again, but this month might not work out.  My grandpa is in the hospital in Oregon, and I might be flying up there with my mom soon.  So there is a good chance we'll miss it this month since I expect to ovulate in about a week to ten days.  T&P for my grandpa would be much appreciated!Sensitive, empathic, caring

    Many T&P's with your Grandpa and your family ((hugs))

    BFP #2 7/20/11 ** EDD: 3/28/12: IT'S A BOY!
    BFP #1 12/30/10 ** EDD: 9/6/11** H/B stopped at 10w 6d conf on 2/22/11 ** D&C 2/24/11.
    Congrats to my Labor Buddy LoriJ11, baby Elise born 2/24/12
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  • Hope it's ok if I come in--I was due sept 22nd, but wasn't very active on the Sept BMB.

    Currently in week 1 of the 2ww, first cycle TTC after the m/c. I just have a gut feeling it didn't "take" this cycle, so feeling kind of down.

    I am curious, sensitive, anxious. (In general, and in particular this week.)

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  • imageMissa_g:
    Hi everyone!  This is my first check in.My husband and I have been actively TTC again, but this month might not work out.  My grandpa is in the hospital in Oregon, and I might be flying up there with my mom soon.  So there is a good chance we'll miss it this month since I expect to ovulate in about a week to ten days.  T&P for my grandpa would be much appreciated!Sensitive, empathic, caring

    T&P's for your Grandpa.

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    Hope it's ok if I come in--I was due sept 22nd, but wasn't very active on the Sept BMB.

    Currently in week 1 of the 2ww, first cycle TTC after the m/c. I just have a gut feeling it didn't "take" this cycle, so feeling kind of down.

    I am curious, sensitive, anxious. (In general, and in particular this week.)

    You are definitely welcome!!  I think when we started talking about it, we referenced the Sept 2011 BMB, but really it's for anyone who had an EDD in Sept 2011. 


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    Justin + Laura 10.18.08
    TTC #1 09.10/Dx PCOS 12.10/BFP #1 12.29.10/EDD 9.10.11/Missed m/c 2.3.11/D&C 2.15.11
    “Ever has it been that love knows not its own depth until the hour of separation.”-Kahlil Gibran
    Cycle #1 4.2.11 + Clomid = BFN/Cycle #2 5.9.11 + Clomid + Trigger Shot = TWINS! 
    Walter Allen and Eleanor Joan 1.15.12
    Another baby on the way! 8.25.14


  • Hi Ladies! This week at work has been really busy so I haven't had time to post much, but hopefully it slows down after today! We are in our first cycle TTC. I have decided to not chart for a couple of cycles and just see what happens, and since my cycle is a little wonky right now, I'm not sure when I'll O. Maybe this weekend?? Anyways, we are just going with it for now!

    kind, sensitive, dependable

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  • This is my first time on this board and not quite sure if I belong here yet, but this board is a little more positive than the miscarriage one so i decided to take the leap!  I'm glad I came across this post.  I've been doing better lately, but found out yesterday my friend that is due about a week before i was is having a boy.  I've been dreading her appt because it's just a reminder that next week I wont be finding out anything.  But on a happier note, I found out I still have a chance of getting into the RN program this summer.  Hubby and I are waiting for that to decide whether we want to start trying again now or wait a little while so i wont have an EDD until i would graduate next May.

    3 words: impatient, private, compassionate

  • imagePetraStonegirl:

    I'm ducking in quickly for our check-in, and then back out again. DH dislocated a rib and tore some muscle fibers in his back, so has been home for 2 days. Taking care of him and doing my usual chores has left me no time for bumping. So, post-n-run...

    I am waiting to O. And, of course, stressed about DH's back. *sigh*

    Adventurous, funny, loyal 

     

    Oh no, I hope DH feels better soon!

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  • I'm still waiting for AF.  CD55.  Not thrilled at this cycle length at all.

    Three words: loyal, smart and sarcastic

    mm 2/17/11 * dd born 4/20/12 * bo 1/3/14 * edd 1/211/15 

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  • I'm hoping to O any day now . My opk today was one of those is it or isn't it things . One side seemed darker but the other was light . I ran out of digitals so I plan to FWP just in case . I'm ready to be in the 2 ww ! Faithful, honest , needy
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  • Not TTCAL related update.  DH had surgery for kidney stones about a month ago and they put a stent in.  We went in for a follow up 2 weeks ago and the stone wasn't gone so we went in again today and it still wasn't gone so he has to have the surgery again, sigh.  The machine that breaks up the stones is only in town on Friday's so he is going in for surgery tomorrow.  Missing two days of work sucks!

    Three words: Funny, patient, dork

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    imageMissa_g:
    Hi everyone!  This is my first check in.My husband and I have been actively TTC again, but this month might not work out.  My grandpa is in the hospital in Oregon, and I might be flying up there with my mom soon.  So there is a good chance we'll miss it this month since I expect to ovulate in about a week to ten days.  T&P for my grandpa would be much appreciated!Sensitive, empathic, caring

    Melissa, I'm glad you saw the check in.  I will be thinking of your family.  Take care of yourself!!  And good luck with this cycle!! 

    This. 

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  • This month's CD3 = productivity!

    Job interview went well this morning, they'll make a decision by early next week. Keeping my FX and holding my breath!

    GTKY: Southerner-sweet, calm, control freak

  • Should be O'ing within the next week.  DH has wanted to go to not-not trying for the next couple of months.  He feels too much pressure when we have to actively try.  Since I chart, I'll still try to get him to BD around the O time, I just won't announce it to him.  I should also be O'ing next month on our Alaskan cruise, so I'm excited about that.  We always BD more on vacation. 

     smart, opinionated, introvert

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  • First-timer on the check-in here.  We're in the first cycle back TTC after d&c, week 1 of 2ww and feeling optimistic.  I don't temp, but I do use daily opk cheapies, and was surprised to register an early LH spike on CD 12 (my ovulation was later before my preg/mc, and with 26 day cycles it made for a tight squeeze on the luteal phase).  My CM seemed to confirm that it was time to DTD, so we did, and now I have fingers and toes crossed.  It took 8 cycles for our first BFP, so i'm hoping that the supposed fertility boost after mc may be working in our favor.

    three words: wife, teacher, stepmother 

    TTC since June 10 First Draft: BFP #1 1/10/11 EDD: 9/24/11 missed m/c: d/c 2/24/11 (8w 2d, baby measured 6w 2d) Second Draft SAM! born 12/12/12; New Edition coming out Jan 2016
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    11 weeks after methotrexate, I STILL have HCG in my system. So, at this point, I'm waiting for ANYTHING to happen. This week's description: tired, tired, and tired.
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    Mama to 5 angel babies, 1 rainbow baby, and 2 more angel babies. 
    My beautiful Ella/ToT arrived 10/10/12. 
  • Oh my gosh, OUCH!  I fractured three ribs and tore all the muscle fibers in between them last year, it sucked really badly!  Make sure he takes it easy and doesn't lift anything over 10lbs for awhile.  I pushed myself too hard and my recovery took almost a year (still have occasional pain now, 15 months later).

    *hug* to you for having to deal with the stress of it!

    Lilypie Premature Baby tickers
    Married 9/22/07, began TTC 8/10
    Diagnosed with DOR, LP defect, mild endometriosis and cysts
    BFP #1 EDD 9/10/11, natural miscarriage at 6w
    BFP #2 Medicated cycle, twin boys born 4/4/12 at 29w4d
    BFP #3 EDD 8/8/14, D&C for missed miscarriage at 8w, baby boy with triploidy
    BFP #4 June 2014 CP
  • Really late to this thread, but I love this check in.

    I'm currently on CD 9 or 10 and couldn't wait to test, of course I got a bfn.  My cervix feels open so I am sure AF is just around the corner. I have a nasty cold and it has been sucky week at work.  ugh.  I need a vacation.

    Just found out that BFF is pregnant, actually she texted me the results before the pee stick was even dry.  She had been trying for 9 months, so I am happy for her, just sad for me. 

    Three words that describe me today: bitter, jealous, hopeful

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