Pregnant after a Loss

I just did a VERY bad thing! =(

You know how a lot of us go back and forth from here to TTCAL...well, I thought I was on PGAL...but really I was on TTCAL, and I made a post called "double digits" and said that I was so excited to be more pregnant than I ever was before.  I realized it after the post was already made and quickly edited it but I don't know if that's good enough.  My heart is pounding, I just know that was killer to someone out there.

I don't know what else to do!Crying

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Re: I just did a VERY bad thing! =(

  • Just apologize, im sure most will understand. We are all human, none of us are perfect. :)
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  • I almost did that last night, (complaining about CM and thinking it was spotting)... I think an honset apology would be OK in explaining your honest mistake and DD.   Hugs and congrats on double digits tho.

     

  • Edit, post an apology saying "my apologies, wrong board", and let it go. It happens. Just be glad that you caught it quickly.


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  • Everyone has done this at one point or another, I'm sure if you just say you're sorry and explain the mistake, the ladies there will understand. I've never found them to be so unreasonable as to hold a grudge for an honest mistake.
  • ::lurking::

    it's ok! you took care of it. Don't worry, it's cool.

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    8w loss 4/15/11 - EDD November 2011
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    4w c/p loss 10/29/12 - EDD July 2013

    Long story: trying on our own + testing testing testing with 6 rounds of Clomid, more testing, injectables + TI, laparoscopy - one tube blocked, 2 IUIs with Follistim...BFNs.
    RPL testing all normal, Karyotyping normal

    Moving on to IVF.

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    After 4 years of hoping and heartbreak, our sweet little bean was born on 2/19/14
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  • So, is it more hurtful to leave it up or more hurtful to delete it altogether?  What should I do?  I don't want to cause my TTCALers any pain, it's hard enough TTCAL as it is!
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    Saw the post Hadley!!! Im so happy for you!!! YAY for double digits hun!!!

     

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    Don't worry about it, I dont think it bothered anyone and you quickly fixed your mistake.

    Congrats though!! Big Smile

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  • butting in, too.

    I didn't see it but i am so happy for all of you! it gives me hope. I want to see a wave of our ladies w/ BFP soon~

    hugs


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  • imagetrishiepoo:
    It's all good!  I think you handled it fine Hadley!  and congrats on being more pg than ever, thats great news :)  

    Yes

     

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  • It happens, you did what you could. Everyone does that once in awhile. Just DD it when the time limit is up.

    Congrats on being more pregnant than you ever were before!

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    No worries girlie!!!!  & huge congrats to you & your wee peanut :)

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  • Aw, Hadley! You did all you could, and no one would think you did it on purpose. I know you must feel badly but it was just a mistake, and like PP said, we've allll done it.

    And congrats to you!! 

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    It happens, you did what you could. Everyone does that once in awhile. Just DD it when the time limit is up.

    Congrats on being more pregnant than you ever were before!

    Okay, thanks everyone.  I did end up deleting it.   I figure the nine that saw the original post had time to see the apology as well.  I sure hope my day get better, that was a rough start!

    It would be great if there was a nice BFP wave on here today!

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    *Congrats to buddies MrsAtch, cflocco, MommyandKate, luckylady55, opallover, trishiepoo, stephsteph77, and Pachita! Praying for healthy babies for all of you!*
    *Congrats to my buddy, Izabella22 (BFP 5/11/11)!!!Sending you Ts and Ps for a healthy, take-home baby!
    *Congrats to my buddy, myaddiwaddi06(BFP 10/31/11)!!!Sending you Ts and Ps for a healthy, take-home baby!
  • woo hoo for double digits lady!!!!  xoxoxo!
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  • ::lurking from TTCAL::

    Congrats on the double digits!!!!!  Big Smile

    ::sneaks off::

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  • imageHadleyS:

    You know how a lot of us go back and forth from here to TTCAL...well, I thought I was on PGAL...but really I was on TTCAL, and I made a post called "double digits" and said that I was so excited to be more pregnant than I ever was before.  I realized it after the post was already made and quickly edited it but I don't know if that's good enough.  My heart is pounding, I just know that was killer to someone out there.

    I don't know what else to do!Crying

    :::Butting In/Lurking From TTCAL:::

    Hi Hadley~  I am on TTCAL very often, and I never saw that, you must be quick!  I wouldn't worry about it, it was an honest mistake...I just happened to be lurking over here this morning ((sigh)) and saw this post.  I think you moved over here around the time I intro'd on TTCAL so I actually peek over here often to make sure you are staying put Embarrassed

    :::Butting Out:::

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  • ::Lurking from TTCAL::

    I haven't read the post, but I wanted to say congratulations!!  I am so glad that you are more pregnant than ever before!  That is an excellent milestone.  ((Big HUGS))

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    :::Butting In/Lurking From TTCAL:::

    Hi Hadley~  I am on TTCAL very often, and I never saw that, you must be quick!  I wouldn't worry about it, it was an honest mistake...I just happened to be lurking over here this morning ((sigh)) and saw this post.  I think you moved over here around the time I intro'd on TTCAL so I actually peek over here often to make sure you are staying put Embarrassed

    :::Butting Out:::

    Don't feel bad, I know who you are since I keep lurking.  Thank you for checking on me, that is really sweet of you.  I hope it's not too much longer before you make your intro over here.  I'm gonna say some special prayers for you this month.

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    BFP 03/03/11, EDD 11/09/11, We love you so much already, our sweet little munchkin!!!
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    *Congrats to buddies MrsAtch, cflocco, MommyandKate, luckylady55, opallover, trishiepoo, stephsteph77, and Pachita! Praying for healthy babies for all of you!*
    *Congrats to my buddy, Izabella22 (BFP 5/11/11)!!!Sending you Ts and Ps for a healthy, take-home baby!
    *Congrats to my buddy, myaddiwaddi06(BFP 10/31/11)!!!Sending you Ts and Ps for a healthy, take-home baby!
  • Peeking in from TTCAL

    I didn't see. I can only speak for myself but I know you would never intentionally do something like that to a TTCALer.
    It's ok, you are being rough on yourself. Hug!

     

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  • imageHadleyS:

    imagewilliams4me:

    :::Butting In/Lurking From TTCAL:::

    Hi Hadley~  I am on TTCAL very often, and I never saw that, you must be quick!  I wouldn't worry about it, it was an honest mistake...I just happened to be lurking over here this morning ((sigh)) and saw this post.  I think you moved over here around the time I intro'd on TTCAL so I actually peek over here often to make sure you are staying put Embarrassed

    :::Butting Out:::

    Don't feel bad, I know who you are since I keep lurking.  Thank you for checking on me, that is really sweet of you.  I hope it's not too much longer before you make your intro over here.  I'm gonna say some special prayers for you this month.

    Thank You!  That's very sweet! Smile

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