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My sister is such a B*%&^!!! (long vent)
She is 5 weeks behind me in PG and she is acting like such trash about her miracle! Especially since she admitted to trying to get PG with her loser ex drug dealer bf just because I am! (I found out right at 4 weeks) She also said that she didn't want me to have all of the attention from our family "just for getting knocked up." If you know my back story, this is completely ridiculous.
Now all she whines about is how she wish she wasn't PG and hates everything about it and how she cannot wait to have her LO so she can smoke pot and drink again. She hasn't spent a dime towards her LO and is completely ungrateful for anything anyone else gives her. I bought her crib, a bunch of clothes for her and the baby, food, etc. All she says is, "Oh, well, thanks I guess."
So I stopped using MY hard earned money towards her when she isn't even going to be grateful, and now she is constantly yelling at me saying I am a horrible sister. And my parents are SIDING WITH HER!
I had to pick her up from her friend's house because her ride got too drunk to take her home, and I show up to her MAKING OUT WITH HIM! She is 26 weeks PG! With someone else's baby! So when we were driving home, I told her I was disappointed in her for her actions and she starts yelling at me saying I cannot say anything to judge anyone because my LO's BD cheated on me and destroyed our marriage so obviously my point of view is not applicable. (I am changing her exact wording for the light hearted.)
Yes, I had to come live at home with my parents again, which is incredibly humiliating, but I had a divorce that cost me almost 10 grand and I lost the house and my car in the mess, as well as XH going psycho and destroying my new one, requiring me to pay for those damages as well. She has never lived anywhere but home with them giving her money for gas even though she has a job (part time) because she spends most of her money going out to eat and taking her "friends" out to eat.
She is constantly making a huge mess in my parent's house. She lives like a disgusting pig, and since I work upwards of 70 hours a week and cannot help out as much as needed to make up for her slacking off, my chronically ill mother cleans up HER mess because she REFUSES to do anything, and instead of directing her anger towards the deserving party, I get yelled at even though I am very sick today with a high fever. My Dr. is having me call her almost every hour to make sure I don't need to go in to see her. It's that serious. And so now my sister keeps barging into my room telling me, "Don't take a bath right now because I'M going to in a little bit." or "Mom bought ME some cereal, DON'T eat any of it because it's MINE."
I told her I really don't care and so she goes crying to my mom about how I am being rude and so my mother comes to room and starts yelling as well.
I wish I could afford to move out.
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Re: My sister is such a B*%&^!!! (long vent)
Because she is so young (19) and I was worried she wouldn't be able to afford it. Now I just see that it's not only her inability to afford it, it's her not even wanting this baby. It breaks my heart for her DS. Both of his parents are totally f'd up. She's going to end up leaving my parents with him while she goes out drinking and partying. She still hasn't even graduated HS! All she did today was whine about how she cannot drink on her birthday that is coming up.
She sounds really immature and it sucks your parents put up with it. Hopefully when her LO comes she steps up and is a good mother. I know teen mothers are looked down on but I'm 19 with a baby and I think I'm a great mom. It's not impossible but it may take her a little longer to realize.
In the meantime, try not to stress out! You sound super stressed so try not to let her get to you as much.
I agree. I know a lot of young moms (I'm only just now turning 22), and really having to care for their babies once they got here really made them step-up and be adults. Not all, but many, and some of them came from the "trashy" social circles. There's still some hope. GL on moving out as soon as you can!
sounds like a dramatic situation. is there any way you can move out to a reasonably affordable apt so you aren't dealing with the dramz all the time?
sorry you have to deal with this