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Do you/will you allow grandparents to make Easter baskets?

My mother will probably get DS something small, like a chocolate bunny, but thinks the basket is something only the parents should do. My MIL on the other hand, made a huge basket last year and will probably do the same thing again. But baskets are her thing - she made baskets for my DH and I up until we had DS. So while I'm not crazy over the idea, I won't make a big deal out of it. Just curious to see what others think!

Re: Do you/will you allow grandparents to make Easter baskets?

  • I don't see the big deal.  My mom loves holidays and has an Easter egg hunt every year.  I can't wait to bring Keira.  She also bought Keira's Easter dress and shoes. 
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  • MIL & FIL are the only grandparents physically close to us and they will come over the day before Easter for lunch. I doubt my MIL would even think about doing a basket for E. I agree with your mom that the baskets should be done by the parents. I feel like it is our right now as a parent to handle Santa Claus (if you do it), Easter Bunny, Tooth Fairy, etc. They had their chance.

  • I think my MIL only celebrates Easter because of DS. We have never gone to their house for Easter but now it's a huge deal which bugs me.
  • Of course I would. I think it's silly to not "allow" someone to make them one.
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  • I don't care.  If there is anything in there I don't want LO to have, I'll eat it. 
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  • My mom does a small basket for each of the kids. I don't see the big deal. The basket from us is "from" the Easter Bunny, the one from her is just from her.
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  • I find it curious that anyone would be mad at their parents or in-laws for making an Easter basket for their kids.  The more the merrier, it's a holiday, they're grandparents and they want to be caught up in the excitement too.  So what?  I think it's sweet.  Even if my parents went above and beyond what I did for my kids, I'd never care - little kids don't "compare" that way.  That's adult reasoning.  ;)

    Yeah, don't think it's in the spirit of Easter and Christ and all that good stuff to get upset over this one.

    Just me. 

  • Both sets of grandparents will do an Easter basket.  I don't see the big deal.
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  • imageSailorGray:
    Of course I would. I think it's silly to not "allow" someone to make them one.

    This.

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  • My mom is making DD a basket. It will be a very small one and then we will give her the big basket from the Easter Bunny. I don't have to worry about the ILs doing anything because they wont and I am ok with that.
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  • My mom is making a basket for DS this year. My mom has done baskets every year since DS was born. And if there happens to be candy, I will eat it or take it to work for my clients.

    I don't think my MIL has made any baskets for DS, but she has insisted to have an Easter egg hunt every year at her boyfriend's ranch. And supposedly SIL is coming with her tribe this year.

    As PP has said our basket is from the Easter Bunny.

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  • As long as the basket from the grandparents is from the grandparents and they don't say its from the Easter bunny I would be ok with it. If they said it was from the easter bunny  I would have to talk to them. To me, the parents get to do the easter bunny, santa, etc thing not the grandparents.

    I don't have to worry about that though. Both sets of grandparents kind of ignore that kind of thing.

     

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  • I think part of the joy of being a grandparent is to do stuff like that. So I will absolutely allow and would be shocked if it didn't happen. I just am hoping it had toys rather than candy because DS will not be eating a thousand chocolate eggs.
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  • Both of DD's grandmothers make DD a basket, and so does the "Easter Bunny."  She's a lucky little girl!  My grandmothers did one for me too every year when I was a child.
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  • imageSailorGray:
    Of course I would. I think it's silly to not "allow" someone to make them one.

    My feelings exactly.

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    I find it curious that anyone would be mad at their parents or in-laws for making an Easter basket for their kids.  The more the merrier, it's a holiday, they're grandparents and they want to be caught up in the excitement too.  So what?  I think it's sweet.  Even if my parents went above and beyond what I did for my kids, I'd never care - little kids don't "compare" that way.  That's adult reasoning.  ;)

    Yeah, don't think it's in the spirit of Easter and Christ and all that good stuff to get upset over this one.

    Just me. 

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  • MY MIL makes DH and I a shared basket always has. She makes all her grandkids small baskets with things like little outfits some candy and some other little fun things.

    I don't mind it at all. We all the grandkids know that it is from her she doesn't act liek it was from the Easter Bunny. We will do our own that is from the Easter Bunny

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  • All three grandparents make an easter basket for penny. I guess I never thought of this as something that just the parents should do. and I kind of can't imagine telling my moms and mil they aren't allowed to make them because it's my turn to do it.

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    no doubt my mom will do a basket for both dd and h & i.. just like she did a stocking for dd and another for h & i at christmas.

     

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  • My parents bought her some earings and the rest of the grandchildren bathing suits (my parents have a pool).  I don't know about the ILs though.  They are invited to my parents house for easter, but they have never celebrated easter according to DH. 
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  • The word "allow" irritates me - I couldn't imagine not allowing my in-laws to give a gift to my son.  Seems like such a trivial reason to assert parental authority.  Don't get me wrong - I butt heads with my MIL on some things, but I know I would be deeply offended if my future DIL didn't allow me to give my grandchild an Easter basket.
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  • My mom will prolly bring some stuff over for her, i dont know if it will be in a basket. But MIL will prolly go out and get something from CVS last min and it will be full of chocolate and $hit i wont want her eating a lot of.

     But if they want to do something for her thats fine.

     

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  • I don't really see what the issue would be, if it is not 'instead of' you doing something for LO (and even in that case, I personally stink at doing really creative holiday things so would welcome some assistance but I know not everyone is like that).  If my mom lived close she would totally do something like that. But she sends gifts & cards & things instead.
  • I can't imagine not "allowing" someone to make DD a gift.
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  • My MIL doesn't do holidays and I'm sure my mom will she still does basktes for me and my sister and mails them to us if we aren't coming home.  I'm sure she will do a small one no big deal
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  • My mom still does easter baskets for all three of us kids.  Then my SO, SIL, and all 4 of her grandkids.  Same goes for Xmas stockings.  It's just something she likes to do.  I get my niece and nephew something as well.
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  • Last year my mom got DS & my nephew HUGE Easter Baskets.  I call it the Moses basket because I could float DS down a river in it.  She asked me to bring it back to her last weekend so she can fill it up for him again.  Hey, if she wants to, go for it!  She knows my stance on candy & stuff so I'm confident it will mostly be clothes & toys with just a couple "treats."
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  • It would never occur to me for K's grandparents not to do something. We both come from huge gift giving families. DD will get her basket from us "Easter Bunny" on Easter. We dont live near family so DD recieves packages for Easter for a couple weeks leading up. Im sure she will get a basket/gift from both sets of grandparents, her godparents, and both sets of aunts/uncles just like last year. I do baskets for my 3 nieces and nephews as well. Not as big as DD's but its the thought that counts. Its a holiday and for us its 2nd in size to Christmas, and its not an everyday thing.
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  • I will certainly allow them to do so. Infact, I'm thrilled that DS's grandparents want to do things like that for him! Big Smile
  • My MIL will get him a basket, but not us.  not now - he doesn't understand it.  We might do an egg hunt in the back yard if I feel inspired and the weather is good, but it won't be the end of the world and he doens't have a special outfit.
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  • I would love if they did!  As long as they were from them and not the bunny.  That is my job:)  That being said, went to my parents last year for Easter and my mom made the basket ofr Cedric.  I didn't mind at the time, but looking back which I did it.  So from now on I will do them:)

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  • I don't really care if they do or don't. one set had a stocking for him (and we always get stockings too) but the other sets no stocking. When he's older I'll just explain that Grandpa and Ema put out stockings and the other gparents don't so santa doesn't leave stocking stuff there.
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