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so 2.5 mths have gone by and

vahokiegirlvahokiegirl
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Tomorrow K will be 10 weeks. After all the threats my ex made to me while pregnant...

"that if I ever left him, he would have the baby taken from me." or "that I would never see my child again, that he would have full custody.."

Well 10 weeks have  past...and I havent heard a thing from him. The only thing he has done since K was born, was showing up at the hospital when I was just 20 mins out of the c-section...and cussed out my friend and then left. 

I still have no idea how he found out that I was at the hospital...I was 3 weeks early. I had changed doctors a week before than, and changed hospital. AND I didnt even know that I was giving birth til 9pm the night before.

Do you think ...that he is still planning something? Or that he just doesnt care?

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Re: so 2.5 mths have gone by and

  • Temp552270562505132Temp552270562505132
    He could be and if he has a good atty he will be completely stealth about it.  I would go to court for custody if you haven't already.  Just to make sure.  There's also the chance he's not going to do anything, but better safe than sorry.
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  • vahokiegirlvahokiegirl

    He isnt on the BC and my lawyer told me not to  do anything ...he doesnt want to add fuel to fire ....

    My lawyer seems to believe that my EX wont do a thing because of his record...which is 25 pages long of his arrests and jail time..

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  • Temp552270562505132Temp552270562505132
    NICE.  It sounds like you're good to go then.  So he may do  nothing.  And if he does, you've got a lawyer.  :)
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  • achase123achase123
    All bark, no bite.  They love to make a scene and cause drama.  But, when it boils right down to it, they don't follow through.  I wouldn't necessarily breathe a sigh of relief, but don't stress out either thinking that the other shoe is going to drop.  Likely it won't.
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  • BostonGayGalBostonGayGal member

    I hope he does nothing and that you are in the clear!  Clearly, he is lower than pond scum for threatening you.

    However, I am looking at this statement and I don't like the either/or you have set up.

    "Do you think ...that he is still planning something? Or that he just doesnt care? "

    Maybe, just maybe, he cares but knows that him having custody is NOT the answer.  Maybe he cares, but knows he doesn't have a chance to get custody. Who knows.  But in your scenario he is either surreptitiously plotting against you or doesn't care at all. It's possible, but those aren't the only options.



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  • shelliescove3shelliescove3 member

    I think you may breath some sighs of relief. Even if he does decide to go through with some sort or custody battle... I am sure it wouldnt be difficult to prove beyond reasonable doubt that he would be an unfit parent..I think he probably knows he doesent stand a chance at a custody battle. I think you are in the clear:-) GL!

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