2nd Trimester

Well that was totally uncalled for!

So I'm sitting at my desk talking to my boss when a delivery guy comes in to get a ticket signed. After I signed the ticket he sat down and proceeded to listen to our whole conversation since he knows my boss. So my boss was asking me how I was feeling and all and I jokingly said that I've gotten really lazy with cooking dinners because I'm so exhausted by the time I get home. The driver starts almost yelling at me saying that I'm lazy and that women use pregnancy as an excuse for everything and that's stupid because women in the "old days" worked hard their entire pregnancies without complaining. Um, excuse me??? After driving two hours and working 10 hour days, I think I have a reason to not make dinners some nights! And WTF are you to yell at me about it???

Since when are men experts on pregnancy??

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Re: Well that was totally uncalled for!

  • I would not have been able to control myself and kicked him in his lower region. 
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  • Wow what a jerk!
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  • Wow. That dude needs a good a$$ kickin'.
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  • You should've kicked him in the balls nice and hard and then ask him if he can carry on with his job right now.
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  • What did you and your boss say?
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  • I'm still pissed about it!! It took all I had to keep my mouth shut and ignore him. I could refuse to get out of bed and never cook or shower or clean again for the next 5 months and it's still none of his damn business.... No wonder his wife left him...
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  • imagePrincessLinLin:
    What did you and your boss say?

    I didn't really know what to say so I just stared at him. My boss told him I was doing really well and keeping up with everything I could but the guy still kept running his mouth the whole way out the door

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  • i would tell him to bare a child for 40 weeks and then he could open his pig a$$ mouth! What did your boss say or do?
  • Being that these hormones are making me feel superhuman and real bada** right now, I probably would've verbally ripped him a new one.  Angry
  • wow... what a twaaat!
    some men are so oblivious. he needs a swift kick in the nuts.
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  • Mmm hmm.  Seriously you deserve an award for not slapping him. 

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  • What a douchecanoe.

    You should have reminded him that women in the "old days" also died during childbirth with great regularity and infant mortality was almost 50%.

     Put your feet up, girl, making a human being is hard work!! :) 

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  • delivery guy, as in from an outside company?  If so, I'd call his company and log a complaint about his behavior
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  • What a jerk! Like my husband would say, poke him in the eye and punch him in the a$$hole.
  • imageeli_and_jeff:

    What a douchecanoe.

    You should have reminded him that women in the "old days" also died during childbirth with great regularity and infant mortality was almost 50%.

     Put your feet up, girl, making a human being is hard work!! :) 

    Not to mention that women in the old days didn't work outside the house in addition to having to do all the homemaking.

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  • imagebug81:
    I would not have been able to control myself and kicked him in his lower region. 

    This for sure. What a jerk!

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    Sounds like one of my coworkers. I was talking to the guy yesterday, and said how my back was starting to hurt (I think I'd been standing for 6 hours at that point), and he gave me this look like "Why would you're back be hurting, you aren't showing yet." So in the conversation, I said something about hating standing for so long and how I get tired now when I didn't before. He said that's why he was glad his wife hasn't gotten pregnant yet, because he has no sympathy for the "condition". WTF?? Was I asking you to do my job for me? No! But I have to hear all about your sciatica and your back pain because you are such a lazy, obese asshat and we should all feel sorry for your aches and pains? He then tells me he hopes to get qualified for disability so he doesn't have to pay back any of his student loans. Way to cheat the system, you jerk. Ew, I could rant on this guy all day...
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  • Whenever someone says something about how women "used to do it" I always tell them, "Ya, and they also had a lot more miscarriages. And they had to have 12 kids because 8 of them wouldn't make it past toddlerhood."

    rude.

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  • Dude is an idiot. 
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  • Sounds deserving of a throat punch.

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  • imageTyler's gal:
    No wonder his wife left him...

     

    NO KIDDING... and I would have told him that to his face!  

  • The nerve!

    What a fvcking a$$hole!

  • I agree ... swift kick in the nuts for that guy.
  • imagecate42807:

    Mmm hmm.  Seriously you deserve an award for not slapping him. 

    This. and those women didn't have full time jobs + home making + whatever other crap we do these days. What an idiot. 

    Not to mention, totally not his place. I agree with a PP who said to log a complaint against him with his company!

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  • What a Dbag.. I can't stand people sometimes. Especially people like that! :p
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