ranting, life isn't fair. (warning: preg & BAD parenting ment.)

nikileebaugh · April 2011

it feels good to get this off my chest, so here it is. sorry for the ranting/vent.

there is a 21 year old girl in my town. she has a son to a piece of poo guy. she's not an angel either. they are both drug heads. they don't take care of the child they have together. he is pretty much with the grandparents ALL the time because they are too busy doing drugs/drinking alcohol, and whatever else. the son they have has been taken away from the "temporarily" because one day, her dad came home and found her and the baby's dad asleep, while the baby was playing in the fireplace. yeap, you read that right - playing in the FIREPLACE. she fed him flaming hot cheetos at 6 months old, and laughed about him crying when he pooped because of it. the dad isn't any better; he rides him around in his truck with no car seat, yells at him for crying, at 1 year old, because "boys don't cry, only p*ssy's cry". they are just a train wreck, this is only a little bit of how shitty these two are at being parents.

well, she left him a few months back to "get clean, and get on with her life". well, in that month that they were broken up, she got pregnant to another guy. please someone tell me, how this crackhead piece of poo deserves another child? she doesn't even take care of the child she has. she doesn't want this child. the only reason that they are keeping it, is because they couldn't come up with the money for an abortion because they are drug addicts. so now, this already piece of sh*t person, is going to have two children, with two different fathers (both fathers are worthless) and i have none. how is that fair? i don't see how it's fair, how all of us here, would KILL to have our take home babies. we would go through hell and high water for them. us, who would take care of our children, and give them unconditional love, don't get them or lose them, while pieces of sh*t like her get knocked up on accident. people like her, who don't even want the children, so they do drugs while they are pregnant, get to have multiple children. yeap, you read it right. she was doing drugs/ smoking and drinking trying to self abort the child because they didn't have the money for a real abortion. i really hope i don't see this girl out for a while, because i just might lose it on her.

they say everything happens for a reason. yeah, well what the hell could possibly be the reason? i don't think this is fair, and quite frankly - it pisses me off.

ranting over .. it just feels good to get that off of my chest to people that understand. ugh!

EDIT - i forgot to put a warning in the title. sorry!

rosenb2b · April 2011

I'm still trying to find the reason too... {HUGS}!

mizdiz444 · April 2011

It breaks my heart to read that. (((hugs))) to you

VikingQueen · April 2011

rosenb2b:
I'm still trying to find the reason too... {HUGS}!

me too..

Tapatio · April 2011

My losses have simply reinforced the idea in my head that life is unfair. Why people like two crackheads get to populate the Earth is beyond me! I know it's frustrating to watch something like that happen. I'm hoping that some day soon it'll be your turn to take home a baby ((hugs)).

karma79 · April 2011

Tapatio:
My losses have simply reinforced the idea in my head that life is unfair. Why people like two crackheads get to populate the Earth is beyond me! I know it's frustrating to watch something like that happen. I'm hoping that some day soon it'll be your turn to take home a baby ((hugs)).

This!

psychmajormom · April 2011

I know exactly what you are talking about, a girl I went to school with got pg when she was 15 and gave that one up to her mother (which is a saint). She got pg two years later with her second child (she has kept this one). A year after that she got pg again and had a m/c (I hate to say it but, thank GOD.) Now, a year after that she is pg again and TRYING to have a m/c!! Yep, I said it, TRYING to have a loss! She too is on drugs and did it all during pregnancy, her first child was born 2 months early and was 3 lbs and 9 oz, the second child was born 1 month early and was 3 lbs and 2 oz! The reason why I know this, she use to be one of BFF's! I am hurt and distraught that people can do things such as that! It hurts even worse because we USE to be so close!

raecheleblue1 · April 2011

Good lord. Indifferent

The stupidity of people never ceases to amaze me. I'm sorry you have this reminder around you that life isn't fair. I truly hope that the purpose of these FH's is to serve as a source of strength for each of us to push on and hold on to the hope that we will get our take home babies someday and we will be the BEST moms to these precious LOs. (((Hugs)))

MrsL2 · April 2011

mizdiz444:
It breaks my heart to read that. (((hugs))) to you

it breaks my heart as well.. I feel so bad for those poor children! I dont understand why life is so unfair sometimes

nikileebaugh · April 2011

i knew you all would understand! i ranted about this to my DH last night and he's like "call CYS if she does anymore wrong". of course i will - she's stupid if she thinks i wont cause those children don't deserve to suffer because they are incompatent idiots, but that wasn't the point at all. my point is, it's not fair to the people who would kill for children/to be pregnant and i had to get it off my chest to ladies who would understand. thanks for listening!

it just makes my blood boil! every aspect of that is wrong. women like us, who deserve take home babies and who will love them the minute we get two pink lines on our stick, don't get what we want, because the pieces of scum on the earth are getting it.

i wish i could just give her the worst shaking of her life and say WAKE UP, there are people who would do anything to be in your position (baby/pregnant wise) and you are too busy worrying about yourself to care for your children. some people shouldn't be allowed to reproduce, because the only ones that suffer are the children.

1220winterbride · April 2011

PetraStonegirl:
karma79:

Tapatio:
My losses have simply reinforced the idea in my head that life is unfair. Why people like two crackheads get to populate the Earth is beyond me! I know it's frustrating to watch something like that happen. I'm hoping that some day soon it'll be your turn to take home a baby ((hugs)).

This!

This squared!

ditto this.

epic fail, Universe!

jertie · April 2011

Makes no sense whatsoever...my hearts breaks for these children...

busterbeagle · April 2011

It really isn't fair and it makes me mad, too. I'm sorry you have a person like this around you, I couldn't imagine how hard it is to deal with.

MsCoyote · April 2011

I've had to deal with this at work for YEARS, and it still never makes sense. Unfortunately I have no words of "wisdom" (whatever the heck THAT is anymore).

Today is my first day back after m/c and I hope I can control myself with the first POS parent I have to encounter. Hello anger phase of grieving!

Deep breaths...

Coyote