Pregnant after a Loss

Emotional weekend to include a hosptial stay.

This weekend has been rough.  Friday morning I woke up with heavy period like bleeding after severe left side pain the night before.  The MFM brought me in and stated the pain was from my still overstimulated left ovary and possibly one of the cyst burst.  The bleeding is believed to be from another subchoronic bleed or from Baby B whose heartbeat has stopped.  The other five are fine.

They made me stay in the hospital for 24 hours in order to hydrate my body after vomiting for several days and unable to keep fluids down. They also wanted to give me pain meds which I was not a fan of because it just doesn't seen like that would be good for the babies. They actually sent me home with a narcotic pain med for the left ovary pain for which they cannot do anything for.  Confused about that.

Tomorrow the doctors will start reduction.  They don't want me carrying more than twins.  This has been hell for DH and I, but alot of prayer has kept us sane.  Please continue to pray these procedures don't result in the loss of all my babies. I appreciate all of the support. 

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  • I am so sorry for your pain and this aweful experience.  T&P and hopefully all will work out.
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  • I'm so sorry you're going through all of this. I've been thinking about you. You and your family will stay in my thoughts. I'm sending all my positive energy your way.
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  • I hope you feel better (physically at least) soon. T&P.
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  • I am so sorry....you and your family are in my thoughts
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  • T's & P's that your procedure goes well tomorrow.  ((hugs))
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  • I hope the pain and bleeding stops. I am sorry that you lost one of your little ones and that you have to go through a reduction. :( that must be heart breaking. I hope everything goes as well as it can
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  • I am sorry you are going through all of this.  T&Ps to you!
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  • Oh my...I don't even know what to say...my thoughts and prayers are with you and your DH during this time..we are here for you ..many hugs   I will be thinking of you and praying for you
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  • What a terribly frightening weekend. You and your DH and your babies are in my prayers for sure. I am very happy you have your faith to lean on; it will keep you strong. Please know we all support you.
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  • So sorry you had a rough weekend.  ((HUGE HUGS)) and tons of T&P sent that you, your H, and your twins get through the reductions as smoothly as possible.  I'll be thinking of you.  
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  • Sending lots of positive thoughts your way!
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  • Still praying.  I am so sorry you are going through all of this.  ((huge hugs))
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  • I am so, so sorry. Lots of T&Ps your way.
  • I'm so sorry you're having it so rough.  I hope and pray that your surgery tomorrow goes well and that you're able to have a much smoother pregnancy from there on out.  Big ((((hugs)))). 
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  • I am so, so sorry.  I'll be thinking of you and your family.  {{BIG HUGS}}
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  • What a scary weekend, sending lots of T&P's for your procedure tomorrow.
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  • I am so sorry you are going through this lots of good thoughts. 
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  • I'm so sorry for your hospital stay, for the loss of baby B, and for the tough days you have ahead.  ((hugs))
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  • ((hugs)) I'm so sorry that you're going through this.
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    I'm so sorry for your hospital stay, for the loss of baby B, and for the tough days you have ahead.  ((hugs))

    All of this. ((hugs))

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  • Thank you for your thoughts and prayers.  I feel at this point prayers are the answer. I wish I could give each of you hugs IRL and thank you for being here for me.
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  • ((SUPER HUGE HUGS))

    We're here for you. 

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  • I'm sorry it's been so difficult for you. T&P's for you tomorrow.
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  • ((HUGE HUGS)) headed your way and lots of prayers for healthy twins when this is all over and peace that you've done the best you possibly can with this difficult situation.
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    I'm so sorry.  Your weekend sounds awful, and I can't imagine being in the position you are in right now.  I will be sending lots of T&Ps that everything goes well and you don't lose all of your LOs.  ((Big, big squishy HUGS))

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  • I've been thinking of you and praying for you every single night. I can't imagine what you are going through. Just know that I am sending you tons of good energy. I hope things go okay tomorrow. You are an incredibly strong woman.
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  • I'm so sorry your going through this and your in my t&p's. Stay strong.
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  • That's awful. I'm sorry you're going through that. I will continue to pray for you and your LOs.
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  • BIG ((hugs))! T&Ps!
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  • I'm so sorry for all you're going through. You're in my thoughts.
  • I'm sorry you are going through such a stressful time and had to stay in the hospital on top of everything.  Good luck tomorrow.  I hope it helps you to know that a lot of us will be thinking about you.
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